Like so many of us, Kelly van der Walt tried hard to carve out a weight that felt comfortable for her. At 34, she weighed 82kg and to reach her goal weight, she felt she needed to be in a process of restraint, of following rules that needed to be upheld, no matter what. “I had been restricting my favourite – what I call ‘fun foods’ – and trying to be super disciplined,” she explains. But so often, this prohibitive approach can yield the opposite result. And Kelly experienced it first-hand. “This led to a cycle of bingeing, restricting, starting [again], and the cycle continued,” she reflects.
While out one day, she caught sight of a photograph her husband had taken of her. “I will never forget it,” she says. “I knew then something needed to change.” To that end, Kelly took a different approach: she decided to learn about nutrition. Her aim was to become a certified health coach, but in the process, she learned valuable insights that spurred her weight-loss journey.
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“I learned something that changed my outlook completely,” she says. “It is a word, ‘diatia’. It means ‘diet’ in Greek. We think ‘diet’ means restriction, cardio, etc. But what it really means is a way of life, a way of living. I learned that in order to succeed I needed to make my journey a way of life. I needed to heal my relationship with food and learn how to incorporate fun foods into my life rather than completely restrict them.”
With her focus shifted, Kelly hauled out cookbooks and made simple, nutritious meals. “I focused on whole foods and adding nutrients rather than subtracting [them],” she explains. “I increased my daily movement by increasing my step goal and did weight training twice a week.”
She persisted with consistency. Two years on, Kelly, now 36, is slimmer but more importantly, at peace with her body. “It’s amazing that what started as a weight loss journey changed every aspect of my life,” she says.
“I feel lighter yet stronger in my body, more capable and independent. It has made me a better person, wife and mom!”
Resetting Tips
Talk Positively
“Stop listening to yourself and start talking to yourself. The process is 100 percent mental!”
Chase Health
“Health is a feeling that looks different on every body! Chase the feeling and your body will meet you there.”
Go Slowly
“The fastest way to get to where you want to be is slowly.”
Michelle October
Michelle is the features editor at . She’s immensely curious about the world, passionate about health and wellness and enjoys a good surf when the waves are good. Find her on Instagram here.
