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      10 Ways Yoga Drastically Changed My Life and How It Can Transform Yours Too

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      Thanks to mainstream media, many of us know yoga as a workout that involves breathing, different poses, and stretching. However, yoga actually originated in India thousands of years ago as a spiritual practice to promote the well-being of humanity. The word “yoga” is derived from the Sanskrit yuj, meaning to join or unite. In essence, yoga is meant to unite the mind, body, and spirit in harmony as a way to overcome suffering—something I think we could all use, no? 
      Personally, I used to see yoga as just a workout without understanding the full spectrum of the practice, which is probably why engaging in a consistent yoga routine never really stuck. I knew yoga could be good for me since I have back issues and am prone to overthinking, but I still always had excuses why not to stick to a yoga routine: I’m not flexible, I don’t have any time, it costs too much money, etc. Flash forward to 2018 when I was in the midst of grad school. I was stressed out, anxious, and still having severe back pain. After attending a yoga event, I knew I needed to incorporate it more regularly into my life, but even then, I had no idea how it would end up changing my life.
      Now, after consistently practicing yoga for years, I have witnessed the shift in my mental clarity, flexibility, and physical strength. And while each practice is different, showing up to my mat offers me a chance to turn my attention inward, allowing me to create positive changes in my life off the mat too. If you’ve ever been curious about expanding (or starting) your yoga practice, check out resources from The Yoga Institute and read on for my personal experience with yoga, how it has impacted me, and how it might transform your life too.

      1. I am more intentional in my life
      At the beginning of most classes, instructors encourage yogis to set an intention for themselves and that day’s practice. This could be a word, a phrase, or simply how you want to feel as you move through the flow. I’ve found that setting an intention and coming back to it throughout the class helps me feel more grounded in my practice. I’ve brought this practice in life off the mat, and setting intentions can be a powerful way to frame each day to add a greater sense of purpose.

      2. I learned how to use my breath
      Our breath is one thing that we simultaneously don’t have to think about and have the power to control. In yoga, pranayama is the ancient practice of controlling your breath through different techniques. When we consciously tune in to our breathing, we activate our parasympathetic nervous system, which is the “rest and digest” mode. I have noticed that taking the time to sit with my breath during my yoga classes has helped me decrease stress and anxiety. With all of the distractions of everyday life, it can be helpful to take time to pause and breathe, even for just a minute of each day.

      3. I’m better at savoring the present moment
      One of my favorite affirmations I learned in yoga is, “There is no rush.” I mean, how often do you find yourself hurrying from one task to the next? Or being so invested in work only to look up and see how your day flew by? So much of yoga is about intentionally slowing down and being at peace with each moment. When I am practicing yoga, I am choosing to be present in each pose and sit with my thoughts and feelings. While I wouldn’t say I am fully present 100% of the time, I can confidently say that adopting this mindset in my day-to-day life has helped me savor moments, regardless of how mundane they may seem. 

      4. I’ve let go of some of my perfectionism
      I like to consider myself a “recovering perfectionist,” as I have been intentionally working toward releasing my expectations of how I think my life should look or how experiences should be. Regularly practicing yoga has played a huge role in this. With some poses, I feel strong, and others I feel like a knotted pretzel. As one of my instructors says, “Focus on how you feel, not how you think it should look.” Committing to a regular yoga practice to become more aligned with my body and mind and releasing preconceived notions have allowed me room for grace in other areas of my life. Poses do not have to be perfect and neither does every moment of your life. Showing up for yourself each day in the world is already enough. 

      5. I’m more connected to my emotions
      The yoga instructors I’ve had often say catchy pieces of advice like, “We keep our issues in our tissues” or “Our hips are the junk drawers of the body.” As catchy as those phrases are, it turns out that trauma and other heavy emotions can be stored in the body. There has even been an increase in research on how practicing yoga can help release trauma. Speaking from personal experience, many classes or flows can bring up difficult feelings. I learned that sitting with my emotions and allowing them to take up space instead of over-analyzing or reacting allow me to better process what I am feeling. 

      6. I learned that there’s no such thing as “perfect balance”
      Balance is such an elusive concept. It feels like if I could just spread my energy evenly between all facets of my life, I would suddenly have glowing skin, more time in my schedule, stronger friendships, and a flourishing career. But, much like falling out of Tree Pose, not everything in life is going to be completely balanced all of the time. Yoga has helped me accept this fact and concentrate my energy where it matters most. By regularly practicing balancing poses, I have been able to bring a greater awareness to my body and strengthen my core and mind, which also help me manage the many areas of my life off the mat. 

      7. I have more confidence in myself to get through hard things
      I remember the first time I did an assisted headstand and my instructor let go of my feet. I was amazed at how my legs stayed in the air because the story I had been telling myself was that I was not strong enough. The confidence I gained in that single moment was a high like no other. As I have continued to practice yoga, I’ve become mindful of all the times I thought I couldn’t do different poses because they were too challenging or I didn’t have the flexibility or muscle strength.
      By acknowledging where my thoughts were holding me back, I’ve been able to reflect on the other stories I’ve been telling myself in my day-to-day life. The reality is that I have been able to overcome challenges in life and will continue to do so. You are truly more than the story you tell yourself in your head. It is important to trust in yourself and know that you are always capable of changing your own narrative. I promise: You can do hard things, whether it’s nailing a headstand, having a difficult conversation, or making a big life change. 

      8. I’m better at listening to my body
      When I first started practicing yoga, I was dealing with sciatica pain, tight hips, and tense hamstrings. Needless to say, I felt very disconnected from my physical body. Gradually, I started to repair this disconnect as my muscles became stronger and I increased flexibility. I am now happy to say that I no longer have issues with sciatica, but the lack of physical pain isn’t the only thing that’s changed. I’ve learned to listen to my body and what it needs. I find that yoga is a continuous self-study, and you deserve to tune in to what your body is trying to communicate. 

      9. I don’t compare myself to others
      Back in some of my first yoga classes, I remember feeling envious of people who could plant their feet firmly on the ground in downward dog, and it was hard not to compare myself to those who had been practicing much longer than me. It took me a long time to understand that everybody’s yoga practice is different, and what feels good for one person doesn’t mean it’s right for someone else. Now, I choose to focus on my own mat while paying attention to what my body needs. This mindset works in everyday life too. We are all trying to live our lives in a way that is best for us; trust that you are following the right path, even if it looks different from everyone else’s.

      10. I’m more comfortable with discomfort
      One of the many aspects I enjoy about yoga is that every practice is a different experience. What feels good one day may be sticky or tight on another. Yoga is not about being in pain but rather finding your edge and seeing if you can expand just a little bit further. For me, learning how to sit with discomfort has offered room for growth. Feeling comfortable being uncomfortable has not only helped expand my yoga practice, but I also now see those uncomfortable life situations off the mat as an opportunity to expand and grow as a person.

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      8 Easy Hacks To Become “That Girl” in 2022

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      If you’ve scrolled through TikTok or opened the Instagram app, you’ve probably heard about “that girl” by now. I’m sure you’ve seen 30-second reels of “that girl” waking up early, making her bed, and drinking a green juice, all before strapping on ankle weights to take a Hot Girl Walk. But “that girl” is not necessarily a person (or a list of wellness trends)—it’s more like a feeling: She puts herself first and is relentlessly focused on self-improvement and being her best self. “That girl” is not a TikTok star who posts about salmon and rice bowls or the wellness influencer whose tips are supposed to inspire you but actually make you feel stressed out. “That girl” embodies living your best life and prioritizing your best self. If you’re still working on making 2022 the year you become your best self, here are eight easy ways you too can be “that girl.” 

      1. Find an extra hour in your day
      TikToks may make you believe that “that girl” loves waking up early in the morning, but if a 6 a.m. wake-up call isn’t your vibe, don’t worry. The goal is to carve out time in your day to focus on yourself and complete some of the other to-dos on this list, but you can reap the benefits of one hour of me-time any time of day. For some, this might mean an in-depth morning or evening routine, while others might use their lunch break for some meditation, going for a walk, or getting chores done. Whenever and however you can fit it in, make time for yourself every day.  

      2. Check in with yourself
      Checking in with yourself is one of those to-do list items that “that girl” gets done during her extra hour in the day. Whether you’re using gratitude, manifestation prompts, or just writing whatever comes to mind, journaling is a great way to help uncover subconscious thoughts and feelings or to help acknowledge how you’re feeling in the moment. If writing every day feels overwhelming or if you’re short on time, try a quick meditation instead. This will also help you make a mind-body connection and is a great way to kick off or reset your day. 

      3. Move your body every day 
      Whether it’s a walk around your neighborhood, a quick yoga or stretch sesh, or an intense HIIT workout, try to move your body for at least 30 minutes every day. The CDC reports that 150 minutes of moderate-intensity aerobic activity a week is linked to multiple health benefits, and consistent exercise has been shown to improve mood, boost energy, help you sleep, and increase longevity (all benefits that are crucial to living the “that girl” lifestyle). But most importantly? These long-lasting benefits will keep you feeling your best even after the “that girl” trend has passed.  

      4. Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate 
      Drink more water. It’s easier said than done, but we can all benefit from more hydration in our daily lives (there’s a reason “that girl” TikToks always start with a lemon water or green juice). Optimal hydration helps keep our energy levels high, our skin glowing, and our bodies performing at their best. While the amount needed varies from person to person, there are a few recommendations you can try: eight 8-ounce glasses, 1 gallon, 2 liters, or half of your body weight in ounces of water each day. If you’re struggling to meet your water intake goals, try these additives to spice things up. 

      5. Nourish your body 
      Women who are always in shape focus on what to eat rather than what not to eat. And “that girl” is no different. She focuses on eating whole foods that make her feel good and nourish her body. You can too by adding more natural, unprocessed foods into your diet and making sure more of your meals include some veggies. This will give your body the nutrients and fuel it truly needs to feel its best. That doesn’t mean you have to kiss pizza goodbye forever (is that even possible?), but it does mean changing the way you think about foods that benefit your body versus foods that might taste good but leave you feeling sick (I’m looking at you, ice cream). 

      6. Wear what makes you feel good 
      If there’s anything we learned from Legally Blonde, it’s that you can accomplish anything with a good outfit. Elle Woods and “that girl” (perhaps one in the same) both know that the right clothes have the power to help you feel your best and get sh*t done. What makes you feel your best will look different for everyone. Whether it’s leggings and your coziest sweater (my personal fave) or power trousers and a blazer, focus on wearing what makes you feel good and ready to tackle the day. 

      7. Make time for self-improvement
      “That girl” knows that being your best self is a lifelong pursuit, and she loves learning and growing. If you want in on the action, check out a self-improvement book on a topic you’re interested in to help you feel more motivated and inspired to make healthy changes. Or try subbing your favorite T. Swift albums on repeat with a wellness podcast to learn trade secrets from the experts. The goal is to fit time for self-improvement into your normal routine so that bettering yourself actually becomes a hobby.

      8. Pamper yourself regularly
      While everything on this list could be considered self-care, “that girl” also loves a good old-fashioned pamper routine. She can be seen ice rolling or using cooling under-eye patches to improve circulation and reduce swelling. You can also catch “that girl” giving herself an at-home mani or trying out a new face mask. PSA to all my other “that girls” out there: Pampering yourself is not just about a clear complexion or on-fleek manicure (although those are welcomed side effects). Spending time to pamper and care for yourself can also help improve body image, strengthen your body’s response to stress, and help you feel more positive overall. But the #1 key to becoming “that girl” is not just taking care of yourself but also knowing you deserve to.

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      You Should Be Dating Yourself—Here’s How To Improve the Most Important Relationship in Your Life

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      Maybe you spend every Friday night on a new Bumble date only to leave disappointed and exhausted or you’re tired of swiping right to no avail—dating in 2022 is hard. If you feel defeated, I have a proposal that may turn things around: Date yourself. Delete the apps (just for now) and instead try dating the one person who will always show up on time and is guaranteed to be fun (you!). Falling in love is great, but falling in love with yourself is even better. No, this isn’t some woo-woo self-help advice—this is a tangible method that will change your life.
      We are so focused on finding “The One” that we forget to check in on what we wanted in the first place. When was the last time you took a day to yourself? Or tried something new? When was the last time you reevaluated if you were happy, and then actually did something about it if you weren’t? As our lives get busy and “me time” gets pushed to the bottom of the list, we need to make the effort to bring it back to the top. Dating is supposed to be fun, and a partner should be someone you want to add to a life that already fulfills you. Dating yourself ensures you’re creating that life and helps you remember what you’re looking for in those Bumble swipes anyway. No matter your relationship status, you should be dating yourself. Here’s how.

      1. Start a journaling practice
      Self-reflection is a great tool that we often don’t take the time to utilize, and journaling is a fantastic way to do that. Every morning or at night before bed, take 10 minutes to journal about your day, thoughts, feelings, the coworker who annoyed you, or that startup idea your friend mentioned. What are you excited about in your life right now? What goals and dreams have you always thought about but never put into action? The 10K that scares you, the job you feel unqualified to apply for, or the trip you’ve never taken? The key to this practice is to set that timer, put pen to paper, and don’t stop until it dings; whatever comes into your mind, just let it out. You may even discover something new about yourself. 

      2. Nourish your body
      Food is fuel, and if we want to feel good, we have to nourish our bodies with the best of it. Now, before you run for the hills because you hate to cook or refuse to give up cookie dough, don’t worry (I would never ask that of you—I am also never giving up cookie dough!). Nourishing your body means listening to it, becoming more in tune with what it needs, and balancing pleasure and satisfaction with nourishment. In other words: Yes, there is room for cookie dough in a nourishing diet.
      Put into action, this step looks different for everybody. If you love to cook, maybe it’s time to try a new recipe. If you prefer takeout, experiment with a meal service. If you want to kick your late-night sugar habits, try herbal tea and dark chocolate. Whatever “nourish your body” means to you, choose one area you want to focus on and take small steps toward that healthy life that makes you feel good every day.

      3. Splurge on you
      If your love language is gift giving, why not show love to yourself? But the key to actually dating yourself instead of just using it as an excuse to spend more money is to splurge on something that truly makes you feel confident, happier, or better. We all have a version of Carrie Bradshaw’s Manolos that makes us feel invincible, and if you don’t, find it. I’m not saying break the bank, and you don’t need a whole new wardrobe. Whether it’s a pair of shoes that will make you feel like a badass during important meetings or your splurge looks more like a gym membership, functional piece of furniture, the perfume that your mom used to wear, or even a massage or cleaning service that will reduce your stress, give a gift to yourself that will truly make a difference. 

      4. Try something new
      The only way we grow is by getting outside of our comfort zone. This step may be the hardest step for you, but it could also be the most rewarding. Make a list of all the things you want to do “one day,” like skydiving, dining alone, starting your own business, taking a spin class, asking for a promotion, etc. Then, choose something from that list and do it. Don’t make excuses and don’t put it off for next month—sign up, make a reservation, do your research. Whatever it takes, go and do it. We often put off what we really want because of fear, and most of the time, we realize we had nothing to be afraid of. As Glennon Doyle always says, “We can do hard things,” and once you do one hard thing, all the others don’t seem so scary.

      5. Practice saying “no”
      While a large part of dating yourself involves trying new things and stepping outside of your comfort zone, it also means stepping into your power. By that, I mean learning to say “no” when you want to say no. Saying “yes” is easy a lot of the time. Especially as women, we feel this constant need to make everyone happy. While empathy and kindness are admirable and crucial traits, the problem is that making yourself happy ends up falling to the bottom of the list of priorities. We say “yes” to what we don’t really want, and it eats away at us, building up resentment and anger. So this year, let go of all that and say “no” to the plans you’d rather not attend, the people who drain your energy, and the coworker who pushes assignments off to you. Stand in your power, don’t apologize for it, and live a happier life because of it.

      6. Pleasure yourself
      Experiencing a mind-blowing orgasm benefits not only your body but your mind as well, so add some self-pleasure to the list this year. After all, nothing is more of a de-stressor at the end of a long day than an orgasm. Pleasuring yourself can involve a realm of activities, from becoming more in touch with your body to learning to feel confident in your own skin. Buy yourself a new sex toy, experiment with different arousals, or simply stare in the mirror and compliment yourself, knowing that self-love is the most worthy kind to give. Whatever it looks like to you, prioritize self-pleasure and make it a part of your wellness routine. Being intimate with another person is a vulnerable practice, so getting to know your body will not only increase confidence in the bedroom with partners, but—more importantly—it will also improve your well-being and the relationship with yourself.

      7. Make self-love a practice
      This one may sound cliché and overused, but loving yourself isn’t. The end goal is a balanced life that allows you to feel fulfilled and happy, so to love yourself a little more this year, first, stop the brutal self-talk. You know the kind: The thoughts in your head that criticize you when you make a mistake or feel insecure. Instead, practice loving affirmations such as “I am good enough” or “I am smart enough.” Repeat them to yourself each morning, write them down, or get in the habit of saying them before a presentation or first date.
      Next, celebrate the little wins as well as the big ones. We’re always going from one activity to the next, forgetting to stop and take a step back to look at all we have accomplished. Celebrate those moments and recognize how far you’ve come. Lastly, forgive yourself. Forgive yourself for forgetting the cereal at the grocery store, being late for work, the breakup, the failed test, and everything that still weighs you down. Just let it go. You’re human, not a fortune 500 company; you are allowed to mess up and move on. That’s what dating yourself is all about. More

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      6 Workout Moves To Try Now That Can Help You Orgasm Later

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      So you know there are stretches that can help with anxiety and stretches that can improve digestion, but did you know there are also stretches for better sex? That’s right: You can yoga-pose your way to a better sex life, and celebrity trainer Lia Bartha is going to show you how. Bartha, the founder of B The Method, has worked with supermodels and actresses alike to to strengthen, restore, and protect their bodies through her own method that involves pilates-based, low-impact movements (also, she has an Instagram feed that is totally #wellnessgoals). Read on to get the 411 from Bartha about why exercise can affect the pelvic floor and six moves to get you closer to better sex. 

      Meet the expert
      Lia Bartha
      Celebrity Fitness Instructor and Founder of B The Method
      A former dancer with scoliosis and multiple injuries, Bartha created B The Method, a mix of highly unique pilates-based, low-impact movements—with inspiration from dance and swimming—to strengthen, restore, and protect her own body. Since becoming a fitness expert, she has trained celebrities such as Martha Hunt and Aubrey Plaza.

      Why is the pelvic floor so important?
      When your pelvic floor is either too tight or too weak, sex can be painful and orgasms can be nonexistent. People don’t put enough emphasis on caring for this muscle because they don’t know what it is, where to find it, and why it matters. The pelvic floor is a hammock of muscles located between the tailbone and pubic bone in the pelvis that contract and relax during penetration and increase blood flow during orgasms. Because of this, your workouts can have a huge impact on the health of your pelvic floor.
      High-impact exercises, lifting heavy weights, jumping, clenching while working out, and not breathing properly can cause the pelvic floor to become too tight. This can lead to so many issues within the body, not just those related to sex and orgasms. The same goes with not putting any care and emphasis on strengthening this muscle. I put such a huge emphasis on evenly strengthening and stretching the pelvic floor muscles in my workouts for this very reason. We all want to get in a good workout but shouldn’t have to sacrifice our sex life because of it.

      6 moves to help improve your sex life

      1. Happy Baby
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      Lay down on your back with your knees bent and feet in the air. Hold your big toes with your fingers and press your tailbone down to the floor in a neutral pelvis. This position will actively stretch your pelvic floor and force it to relax. The hip stretch is amazing as well for getting flexible and comfortable in a variety of sexual positions.

      2. Open Butterfly Stretch on a ball
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      Sit on top of a small stability ball, like this one, with your legs open wide. Lay your chest forward toward the ground with your arms straight on the floor. Rock your hips side to side on the ball. This position will actively stretch your pelvic floor while stimulating blood flow to your genitals.

      3. Circle Gut Massage
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      Lay down on your stomach with the ball placed under your low abdominals and pelvis. It will fit right in that “v” muscle area. Circle your hips five times in one direction and then switch directions. This will stretch, massage, and reset the gut, hips, and lower abdominals that are used for movement during sex. Think of it like foreplay, warmup, or even a cool-down.

      4. Bent Leg Circles
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      Lay on your back in a neutral pelvis and spine. Lift your legs into a tabletop position. Either laying flat or lifting your neck and shoulders slightly with hands clasped behind your head, start to circle your legs in opposite directions from each other. Then, repeat in the other direction. This move will strengthen the pelvic floor and inner thigh muscles while loosening up the hips. 

      5. Moving Frog Plank
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      Get into a child pose with your feet tucked underneath. Lift your knees and press out into a plank position with a slightly externally rotated hip. Toes are apart and heels are squeezed together. Now, push back on your arms and into a child’s pose position, but keep the knees hovered. This move will both stretch and strengthen the pelvic floor in a single exercise.

      6. Core Bridging
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      Lay on your back with your feet and knees in parallel. Start to tuck your hips up into a bridge but make sure not to clench the glutes. Lead the exercise from the lower abdominals, pelvic floor, and inner thighs. You won’t be able to lift as high, but you will definitely understand why this is good for orgasms when you get into the position. You will feel the connection into that pelvic region. 

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      Here’s What Astrologists Say To Add to Your Wellness Routine RN, According to Your Zodiac Sign

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      Most of us set our resolutions and wellness routines based on what we think is good for us, but our astrological signs can tell us a lot about what is actually good for us. Most of us know the basics of our signs, and maybe reading about your sign even helps explain why you are the way you are. I’ve looked to my zodiac to check compatibility with friends or potential romantic partners and to explain personality traits (like how I think everything is a sign from the universe—a true Pisces through and through!). So why not use astrology to see what wellness routines we would should try to be healthier and happier? I grilled two astrologists to see what the stars have in store for our wellness routines in 2022. 

      Mind: Meditation or breathwork
      “Aries go hard and fast, and they rarely slow down to catch their breath,” explained Natasha Weber, Australia’s leading media astrologer. Because of their fast-paced nature, meditation is probably the last way an Aries wants to spend their free time, but they would benefit from the much-needed relaxation and focus. Aries should aim to find a balance of stillness along with their desire for action and adventure. Whether it’s first thing in the morning or before bed at night, take some much-needed time for deep breathing to balance out your high energy.

      Body: Get moving
      Natalie Holbrook, an intuitive astrologer and spiritual coach, explained that an Aries has “a lot of natural fire that needs to be shaken.” In other words, Aries often have pent-up energy that needs to be released. Make sure you’re breaking a sweat at least a few days a week and incorporating daily movement to release energy. Bottom line: Find balance by setting aside time for stillness and movement for optimal health in 2022. 

      Mind: Balance out your budget
      Holbrook explained that Taurus is the ruler of financial stability, so she recommended Taureans should create a love affair with their bank account. “Fall in love with your money, both the way you think about it and the way you make it.” This can mean you set a clear budget, and instead of feeling restricted by it, you feel empowered that you are saving for your goals and dreams or that you reassess your spending habits to spend money in ways that bring you joy.

      Body: Balance out your diet
      “Bulls adore rich foods and delicacies with all the trimmings, which isn’t always great for their health,” Weber said. While Taureans tend to overindulge, no one should feel deprived of what brings them pleasure. So in 2022, our Taureans should try to find a healthy, balanced diet by loading up on fruits, veggies, whole grains, healthy fats, and clean protein sources while dressing it up in homemade sauces, dressings, and seasonings to feel more satisfying. 

      Mind: Start journaling
      Holbrook explained that Geminis are known to over-worry and overthink, so they can find balance and stress less by taking up a daily journaling practice. “There’s a lot that goes on in that active mind of yours, so get it all out and onto paper,” she suggested. This can include practices like daily gratitude journaling, following journaling prompts, or worry journaling.

      Body: Change up your gym routine
      According to Weber, Geminis can get bored at the drop of a dumbbell, so they need to constantly switch up their fitness routine, which will not only keep you excited about your fitness routine but can also challenge your body. In 2022, don’t let your gym routine become complacent or boring. Switch up the exercises or schedule or maybe try a new fitness class. The more diverse, the better. 

      Mind: Go to therapy
      Since Cancers can be sensitive and emotional, Holbrook suggested they make sure they’re getting the needed support to work through the emotions. “You feel deeply and a lot (and we love you for it!), so we want to make sure any old programming or patterns holding you back can be relieved,” she said. Find a therapist or look into practices like EFT (Emotionally Focused Therapy), tapping, and shadow work. 

      Body: Try laughter yoga
      Weber explained that Cancers often have a hard shell that serves to protect their feelings, locking emotions away to avoid being judged or hurt. Cancers should look for activities that can give them any kind of mental, emotional, and even physical release, and laughter yoga can do just that. It’s a positive exercise that floods the body with those feel-good hormones, and yes, it is exactly what it sounds like: laughing and yoga combined. However, it’s not a comedy show—it’s using breath work that feels similar to laughter in order to release the same happy hormones and release emotions.

      Mind: Prioritize self-love
      According to Holbrook, the #1 thing Leos can do to improve their wellness is to show themselves some love. “Leos need to drop the need for permission or validation from others and trust their own decisions and internal compass,” she said. Look for validation internally instead of from external sources by frequently checking in on how your body and mind feel and letting your feelings and wants guide all your decision making. Also, work on loving yourself more by keeping promises to yourself and becoming more “you.” 

      Body: Fit in more cardio
      Wondering what type of exercise is best for you? While having a balance of strength training and cardio is crucial for every sign, the zodiac suggests that cardiovascular health is most crucial for you. “Maintaining a healthy cardiovascular system is paramount to Leo’s well-being since Leo rules the heart,” Weber explained. Try incorporating more spin classes, long-distance running, or dance classes into your workout regime. 

      Mind: Practice mindfulness
      Good news: You probably are already great about eating clean and fitting in exercise. But the one part of your wellness you probably need to work on? Mindfulness. “Virgo is the sign that rules health, so Virgos are usually already disciplined about their diet and exercise regime,” Weber said. But she said Virgos can be incessant overthinkers and maybe too hard on themselves when it comes to sticking with their routines. Mindfulness is a great natural remedy for a Virgo. This can help them calm their thoughts and redirect them in more optimistic, self-loving ways.

      Body: Connect with nature
      Holbrook explained that the Earth is a Virgo’s place of wellness, meaning Virgos feel safest, happiest, and healthiest when they can surround themselves with nature. This year, make sure you’re connecting to nature on the reg; get connected to nature no matter where you live or what space you have by growing plants, flowers, or herbs in your home or outside in a garden or by taking more walks outside and working out outdoors when possible.

      Mind: Put your happiness first
      According to Holbrook, Libras need to stop prioritizing the needs of other people and make this the year of filling your own cup up first. Because of your peace-keeping nature and likability, you’re probably a chronic people pleaser and go out of your way to help others. But this often drains Libras, leaving little energy to take care of themselves. In 2022, commit to taking care of your happiness first. Pick non-negotiables (like daily movement or meditation), and say no when you want to say no.

      Body: Drink more water
      According to Weber, Libra governs the kidneys, so maintaining hydration is vital. Drinking plenty of water helps the body’s detoxification system work optimally as well as helps to maintain energy levels so Libras can have the energy for social plans and building connections. Bonus: Drinking more water adds to that gorgeous glow that Libras are so famous for. 

      Mind: Blow off steam
      “Scorpios can be super intense because they feel everything so deeply,” Weber said. While their passion is admirable, it can also wreak havoc on their stress levels, so finding an outlet that lets off some steam is crucial to their well-being. “Scorpios are complex creatures, and what works as a release for one Scorpio isn’t going to have the same effect for another.” In other words, find what works for you to blow off some steam, whether it’s meditation, therapy, exercising, or a hobby like painting.

      Body: Prioritize gut health
      Gut health is crucial, regardless of what time of the year you were born or what zodiac sign you are, but, according to Weber, Scorpios can be especially prone to constipation and other gut issues. She suggested prioritizing gut health by loading up on fruits and veggies, talking to your doctor about taking a probiotic, and eating more fiber.

      Mind: Find an adventurous hobby
      Holbrook said Sagittarians love travel, but they should also find a hobby in their regular life. In between weekend getaways and summer vacations, you can bring that sense of adventure by trying something new. For example, sign up for a course that will blow your mind, get creative by diving into a new art project, or try a fitness class you would never try before like pole dancing. You can try looking up a place you’d like to travel to and bring the travel to your home with a virtual cooking class, foreign film, or learning a new language.

      Body: Sweat it out
      “Since Sagittarians are fire signs, getting their sweat on in the gym or a hot yoga studio is so important,” Holbrook suggested. Prioritize getting hot this year with heated workouts, tough cardio that makes you sweat, or even by consistently visiting a sauna. However, Sagittarians can push themselves too hard and can be in danger of overworking themselves. Make sure you listen to your body to get the most out of your workouts and avoid injury. 

      Mind: Have more fun
      Capricorns are already good at pushing themselves, and the practice that will boost their wellness and provide more balance is to have more fun. Holbrook explained it’s important for Capricorns to take pressure off by giving yourself more time to simply enjoy life. “When you thrive physically, mentally, and emotionally with more joy and fun in your life, so do your wallet and your success, so don’t feel guilty about wasting time” she said. Make time for the things that keep you enjoying life, like exercise, laughter, time with friends, and adventures. 

      Body: Get deep tissue massages
      Capricorns work hard and often undertake tasks that take a high degree of mental and physical effort. “Forget telling a Capricorn to take it easy and rest a while—they won’t listen to you!” Weber said. A Capricorn needs to find time to relax once their work is done, so a deep tissue massage can help ease tired muscles, aches, and pains. Not able to spend $$$ on a deep tissue massage (’cause same)? Try self-massage, which can be just as effective but totally free. For bonus wellness, you can add some aromatherapy to the massage oil, and you have a winning Capricorn wellness hack. 

      Mind: Plan vacations and trips
      According to Holbrook, there is nothing an Aquarian needs more than to feel free and adventurous—it makes them feel like their truest, happiest, and most present selves. Her advice for 2022 is plan more vacations this year. Whether you have a staycation or travel across the ocean, invite your best friends or go solo, or save up for months or do activities that are totally free, fit in more time this year to explore new places and escape your normal environment.

      Body: Detox your sleep routine
      Having trouble sleeping, staying up too late watching Netflix, or waking up exhausted? The stars get it. Weber explained that Aquarius’s planetary ruler, Uranus, influences the nervous system, which means Aquarians need to calm their often-frayed nerves. If they’re not, their overstimulated nervous system can lead to insomnia. Upgrade your sleep routine to relax the nervous system before bed by sticking to a schedule, having time to unwind, and providing a calming environment.

      Mind: Foster your support system
      “Pisces are very sensitive, so they can take on everything, including blame,” Weber explained. Because of their sensitive nature, they usually end up in caretaking roles to help others. Maybe you’re the friend everyone goes to for advice or your family depends on you. But you need to be taken care of too. To ensure you have a support system to help you release pressure and emotion, Weber suggested seeking out consistent therapy or fostering a system of friends, family members, and even colleagues you can go to for advice and support.

      Body: Start a health vision board
      It’s time to get super clear about your health goals, whether it’s running a marathon or eating a plant-based diet. “2022 is Pisces’ year to dive into their greatest dreams and bring their visions to life,” Holbrook said. She suggested Pisces create a vision board to manifest their greatest health dreams into reality, since getting into a creative state is when Pisces feel most connected and inspired. Either write down your health goals or add pictures that represent what you want, whether it’s more energy, better sleep, less anxiety, or a healthier diet. Every time you look at your vision board, you’ll be inspired to be healthier.

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      6 Changes an OB/GYN Wants You To Make RN

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      We’re flooded with health tips on a regular basis (“Don’t eat this!”, “Buy this supplement!”, “Work out more!”), and figuring out how to keep our bodies healthy can feel overwhelming. Between influencers, specialists, and bestselling books, it’s difficult to know who to listen to and what advice to take. At The Everygirl, our mission is to make wellness less overwhelming (because taking care of your body should be easier and feel more natural than asking for a raise or cultivating a killer wardrobe). As the resident wellness editor, I’m on a mission to bring you only the top experts (who know their stuff) and advice that will actually help improve your well-being instead of causing you stress, anxiety, or guilt. 
      While you might know that eating veggies and moving the body are crucial daily habits, so is tending to your sexual health—and most of us aren’t paying enough attention to it. So I asked a leading women’s health expert and gynecologist the most basic tips that everyone with a vagina can adapt today to become a bit healthier by tomorrow. Dr. Mary Jane Minkin, MD, OB/GYN, is basically your neighborhood gynecologist who also happens to be a leading professor at Yale University and has been honored by The Connecticut Women’s Hall of Fame for her significant contributions to the care and well-being of women (NBD). Here are six easy changes she recommends everyone can make for better health. 

      Meet the expert
      Mary Jane Minkin, MD, OB/GYN
      Gynecologist and Clinical Professor at Yale University

      Stop…
      1. Relying on “Dr. Google”
      PSA: Call your doctor with questions and concerns instead of typing it into Google. Besides the common WebMD anxiety (Googling a small headache or minor pain can spiral into major health anxiety), Dr. Minkin also warned that there’s a lot of false information that can be damaging. “Don’t believe everything you read on the internet,” she advised. “Googling your questions can be helpful at times, but it’s always a good idea to check with your health care provider instead.” In other words, feel free to search for things like how to naturally improve energy if you’re feeling a slump (eating an apple, getting outside, or moving the body can’t hurt!), but for making conclusions about your health and symptoms? Leave that job for a professional, not a search engine.
       
      2. Waiting for a reason to see your gyno
      Abnormal symptoms, family planning, painful periods, and switching birth control methods are all great reasons to visit your gyno, but they’re not the only reasons. In fact, you should make regular visits to your doc even when you don’t have a reason at all. “Wanting to be healthy is the only reason you need to see your OB/GYN,” Minkin encouraged. “It is absolutely necessary to schedule routine appointments to monitor your health as you age.” The general rule of thumb is an annual gynecological checkup, but talk to your doctor about what frequency makes sense for your body, symptoms, and lifestyle.
      Minkin also advised that it’s most important to feel comfortable with your provider. While you still need appointments with a gynecologist to receive the recommended pap smears, exams, etc., regular checkups with a knowledgeable physician’s associate, nurse practitioner, or midwife is fine, as long as you feel safe, heard, and comfortable with them.

      3. Using scented soaps, washes, tampons, etc. “down there”
      While vanilla-scented wash or tampons with a “fresh” floral scent might sound alluring, they’re probably not good for you. For one reason, vaginas are not supposed to smell like vanilla or florals—they’re supposed to smell like vaginas (and that’s OK!). If you notice an abnormal scent coming from your period, discharge, or the general “down there” area, Minkin recommended talking to your doctor to rule out infections and evaluating what hygiene products you’re using. “A lot of products (especially scented) throw off the vagina’s pH balance,” she warned. “To balance yeast and bacteria in the vagina, swap the fancy soaps for a non-toxic, unscented, and pH-balancing external wash. A healthy vagina is an acidic vagina!” PS: That goes for toys, condoms, and anything else that might come in contact with your vagina. Unscented is best.
       

      And start…
      4. Tracking your cycle
      If you don’t have a go-to app or old school calendar method to keep track of your cycle, you need to (even if you don’t think there’s a “reason” to know when you’re getting your period). “It’s important to keep track of your menstrual cycle to know your timing of ovulation, whether or not you are trying to conceive,” Minkin said. “When you are familiar with your cycle, you’re better equipped to recognize when something might be wrong or irregular.” Knowledge is power, and that goes for your fertility cycle too. Use an app like MyFlo to record symptoms like migraines, PMS, cramps, and acne, or simply mark on your calendar the first and last day of bleeding so you can look for any irregularities. And if you don’t get a regular period, tracking any symptoms can help you identify patterns and possible causes. 
       
      5. Examining your breasts regularly
      Putting on a face mask and dry brushing might be regular acts of self-care you know and love, but I’d like to suggest a new self-care practice to add to your routine: examining your breasts. Whether it’s before bed, any time you’re in the shower, or once a week, turn feeling yo’self into a regular habit so you know what your breasts feel like and can detect any changes or abnormalities early on (for how to perform a breast exam, click here).
      “Although OB/GYNs aren’t supposed to officially recommend breast exams, we do promote ‘breast self-awareness,’ so make sure you know what your breasts feel like and report any changes you notice to your health care provider,” Minkin said. The point is not to worry about every lump, bump, or tenderness but rather to know your breasts so well that you know when you feel something abnormal. Knowing your body is the most powerful tool for our health we have access to, so start practicing self-awareness with regular breast exams. 
       
      6. Taking safe sex seriously
      I don’t know who needs to hear this, but your use of protection should not be determined by your possibility to get pregnant. Whether you’re on oral birth control, have an IUD, are with someone of the same sex, or cannot get pregnant for whatever reason, you should still use protection when having sex with a new partner or multiple partners (you can never be too safe). If you’re unsure, ask your doctor about what safe sex method is best for you and when a form of protection is necessary. Also, Minkin recommended regularly getting tested for STIs (at least annually if you’re using protection, but the best practice is to both get tested before any new partner). Minkin’s slogan? “There is a Trojan for everything.” Always have some form of protection on hand, just in case. 

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      9 New Products for Your Vagina That Will Transform Your Sexual Health

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      Growing up, learning how to use a tampon was the extent of my knowledge of vagina products and sitting through sex ed was my only understanding of the inner workings of the vagina. Every time the word was mentioned, I turned red with embarrassment. Thankfully, gone are the days of keeping any talk of “the vag” reserved for awkward and often misleading education that makes you want to leave the room.
      Thanks to revolutionary, female-led companies leading the charge in redefining sexual wellness, the once hush-hush topic is not only openly and honestly discussed but also celebrated (as it has always deserved!). From innovative menstrual products to refreshing hygiene offerings we never knew we needed, these brands have all of our “down-there care” needs (and wants) covered. Read on for nine feminine care finds you’ll want to “Add to Cart.” Spoiler alert: There’s something for everyone.

      The Period Company
      Period Underwear
      Being on your period and feeling sexy (and comfortable) never belonged in the same sentence—that is, until now. Stylish and functional, the Period Company’s panties feature toxin-free, moisture-wicking fabric, four-layer absorbency, and leak-proof technology. Choose from heavy, sporty, light, and overnight styles. Whether you’re ready to swear off pads and tampons because of the negative impact they have on the environment or they’re annoying and messy (I could go on and on), these eco-friendly substitutes prove you don’t have to sacrifice hot girl vibes for protection. Period.

      Heating Patch
      We all know that riding the crimson wave comes with bloating and painful cramping. Enter: these heating patches that give off soothing warmth to help relax your muscles and provide relief from nagging cramps and uncomfortable bloat. Did I mention they’re made with botanical oils that won’t mess with your hormones or skin? No harsh chemicals here.

      Feminine Wipes
      You know that so-fresh-and-so-clean feeling you get after washing your face? These plant-based, pH-balancing wipes will leave you with that same feeling down there. What’s more, they’re equal parts convenient and versatile—use them after a gym sesh, before or after having sex, or when you’re on your period. Your “honeypot” (vagina, ICYMI) will thank you.

      Vaginal Balance Capsules
      Sexual health is not only about what’s on the outside. Feeling and functioning at our best means taking care of our insides too. If you could use a little help in that area, talk to your doctor about adding these supplements, which support your urinary tract health and balance your vaginal pH to your wellness regimen. With ingredients sans GMO, gluten, harmful fillers, and artificial preservatives, you can rest assured that you’re giving your vagina the right kind of TLC.

      Elvie Trainer
      The pelvic floor (made up of the muscles between the tailbone and the pubic bone) is having a moment, and rightfully so. From bladder and bowel movement control to better sex and core stability to prenatal and postpartum well-being, the muscle group has a lot of crucial functions, and it’s about time we give it the time and attention it deserves. The Evie Trainer helps you do just that. Inserted like a tampon, the app-connected device will lead you through targeted exercises that’ll give your pelvic floor a workout—consider it your new personal trainer. Before trying, make sure to talk to your gynceologist or pelvic floor specialist to see if it’s right for you.

      Natural Cycles
      NC° Birth Control
      Birth control that is hormone-free and side effect-free sounds too good to be true, but this new birth control method is changing the game. Using an app and your basal body temperature, this FDA-cleared digital contraception tool tracks your fertility status and tells you when to use protection to prevent pregnancy. Offered as a monthly or an annual subscription, the app boasts a 98% effectiveness when used correctly. As always, talk to your gynecologist about a birth control plan that’s right for your lifestyle, health goals, and body.

      Finger Vibrator
      PSA: Self-pleasure is a form of wellness, and this finger vibrator does the trick. Meant to be worn on your finger, its design is as versatile as it is sleek. Whether you favor the flat and squishy angle or use the device before, during, or after sex, the Fin Finger Vibrator lets you call the shots. The best part (other than the “O” you’ll get, of course)? It’s small but mighty and discreet enough to take on the go.

      Travel Size Lube
      Small enough to throw in your carry-on and tuck away in your nightstand, this lubricant duo is TSA- and bedroom-approved (because you never know when the mood will strike). The organic lube is moisture-boosting and both device- and condom-friendly, while the silicone alternative boasts long-lasting lubrication and is best used with condoms. They’re vegan and cruelty-free with no added fragrance or parabens, so the only thing you have to worry about is deciding which one you’re more in the mood for.

      Author: Nadya Okamoto
      Period Power
      Though not a product you can use on your vagina, this book is a must-have, whether you’re a “menstruator” or not. It takes a deep dive into menstruation, the stigmas and inequities surrounding it, and how to break down the silence, shame, and stigmas to change the conversation around periods. To continue her advocacy, author Nadya Okamoto launched August, a period care company and community that promotes honesty, transparency, inclusivity, and diversity in relation to menstruation.

      Please consult a doctor before beginning any treatments, supplements, or product routines. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this article.

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      I Asked an Abundance Coach How To Have the Best Year Ever, and Her Tips Will Change Your Life

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      Not sure what an “abundance coach” is? I grilled one for deets, and her tips might just be the key to actually changing your life. Every January, we all say, “This will be my year,” as if changing the calendar magically brings us healthier habits, a more successful career, or our dream relationship. But then we make it to the end of the year without much changing, and we swear that the following year will be the one that will change our lives. Sure, we’re consistently growing and changing, but most of us never reach our best selves or dream lives like we swear we will on Jan. 1. I’m over the pointless New Year’s resolution cycle, so I asked Jocelyn Kelly Reid, an intuitive abundance coach and feminine energy healer, how to make this year different from any year before.
      Reid is an expert on using energy to attract abundance and manifest success, which means her strategy is way different from the typical “Get a promotion” or “Work out five times a week” goal-setting that only points out what we haven’t achieved yet. Scroll down to read Reid’s best tips you can implement today in order to make 2022 your most successful, abundant, and joyful year ever (actually). 
       

      Meet the expert
      Jocelyn Kelly Reid
      Intuitive Abundance Coach and Feminine Energy Healer
      Reid is an Intuitive Business & Abundance Coach who has taught countless women to manifest their best lives. She has been featured on top-rated manifestation podcast EXPANDED as well as publications like MindBodyGreen and SheKnows.

      1. Practice intentions over resolutions
      Instead of worrying about a New Year’s resolution, claim an intention. When we set resolutions, we tend to set them 10 steps ahead of our current reality and then quickly feel defeated when we can’t manage this new way of living because we haven’t allowed ourselves to take the proper steps first. I have found that intentions have a much higher success rate than resolutions, which typically make us feel overwhelmed, stressed out, and unaccomplished. Write down your intention on a piece of paper or put it on a Post-it somewhere that you look on a regular basis like the fridge, bathroom mirror, or on your desk.
      For example, my intention a couple years ago was to be more intentional with each decision that I made, and it truly changed my life. I was more intentional about who I was spending time with and how I was spending my time (even down to the smallest moments). It made me live more “on purpose” rather than continuously operating on cruise control. Even the basics like fun and rest (which are major priorities for me!) were amplified. By making this simple adjustment, I created what is now nearly a seven-figure business—when I had no plans of starting a brand the previous year. Because of this intention, I was able to be extremely proactive with how I lived my life and in turn created a business with a hell of a lot more ease and flow. Setting an intention is life changing! 

      2. Get present with yourself
      Rather than rushing out of bed in the morning, take 15 minutes to sit in complete stillness and allow your thoughts, feelings, and scattered energy to drop out of your body and into the floor, seat, or surface beneath you. This practice supports you in emptying your energetic body of anxiety-inducing thoughts and helps you stay calm and centered throughout the day. Life happens in the “now,” so the more anchored you are into the present moment, the more capacity you have to create magic.

      3. Practice gratitude
      Every day, write a list of 10 things that you are grateful for. The list can be truly anything on your heart: people, experiences, pets, or the gratitude that you have for simply living another day. A regular gratitude practice sounds simple, but when practiced consistently, it increases your baseline for feeling good, in tune, and in flow with life. Over time, it also reduces the occurrence of your brain dropping into a negative thought pattern. The better you feel, the more abundance will be drawn into your life.

      4. Make your body your priority
      …and not for the sake of looking good but to feel good. While fatigue, anxiety, sleep deprivation, or bloat seems common, it isn’t meant to be your natural state. The human body is intended to thrive. Make it a practice to check in with your body throughout the day to see what you need. Some easy adjustments include drinking lemon water in the morning, taking naps, getting regular massages, or taking supplements that are right for you. Also, walking more helps get our bodies and lymphatic system moving (especially if you’re sitting at a desk all day).
      Remember this is not about losing 20 pounds (unless you are doing that from a place of love for yourself); it is about creating a peaceful, nourishing atmosphere within. The calmer you feel, the more you’ll be able to receive your manifestations and the more capacity you will have to walk through life powerfully.

      5. Expand your mind
      We often look to others to show us what’s possible, but I’m a big believer in showing yourself what’s possible. The biggest mistake that people make in manifestation is staying in their current energy, actions, and environment and waiting for big things to drop out of the sky. This is not how manifestation works: You have to start moving toward what you desire, sometimes in non-linear ways. Book the trip that you’ve been dying to take or spend a weekend at a hotel that you love to really shake things up. Buy that fancy perfume you’ve always wanted or redecorate your home into the palace of your dreams (of course, all within—I’m not telling you to spend your entire paycheck! You can start small and build up). The moral is to do whatever feels luxurious and expansive for you to inspire growth toward your desires. The more expansive you allow your life to get, the more you will see that you are stepping into an entirely new reality.

      6. Forgive yourself
      We spend far too much time in the space of regret. When you actually forgive yourself, you create more energetic space for good things to come in. I recommend laying down and putting your hand on the part of your body that feels full of emotion (whether it’s a metaphorical association like your heart or where you physically feel tension like raised shoulders). Then, allow those emotions to melt away. While you’re doing this, reaffirm that you love and forgive yourself. This can be very powerful for situations that feel deeply regretful—we are humans and are allowed to make mistakes. Let yourself feel those emotions and finally move on to the better things in life.

      7. Do something today that your future self would thank you for
      You will become the highest version of yourself that “has it all” by consistently taking mini action steps toward your dream life. Your dream life is laid brick by brick, so the more you “build,” the more you invite magical moments into your reality that you wouldn’t have anticipated otherwise. IMO, “waiting on life” is a fool’s game. Instead, reframe this to “Life is waiting on you.” Start acting like whoever your highest self is. What is their morning routine like? What do they eat? How do they approach meetings or dinner plans with friends? Start acting in those ways now rather than waiting for a dream job, dream group of friends, dream bank account, etc.

      8. Have fun
      No, seriously! Having fun acts like a magnet when it comes to attracting your desires. Often, when we feel stalled or stuck, we simply aren’t having enough fun. Sure, we’re meant to learn a lot of lessons and work hard for what we want, but the best part about being human is getting to enjoy the things that only humans can experience (like going on trips, eating delicious food, hosting parties, meeting new friends, laughing hard, being spontaneous, and planning adventures). I encourage you to make the decision to live. Learning to create joy, no matter what is happening in the world, is why we’re all here. Take advantage of your human existence (without feeling guilty)—I promise, it feels good.

      9. Get out of your comfort zone
      Get out of your comfort zone, and better yet, do something that scares you. It’s hard to receive more if you’re only doing what you already know. If you stay the way that you have always lived, how do you expect your life to change? Remember that living a bold, glorious life is also full of taking bold, glorious risks. The most successful people in the world are big risk takers. Believe in yourself and go for the gold. 

      10. Don’t take life too seriously
      We tend to take life far more seriously than we need to, and it creates a lot of stress and overthinking and less sound decision-making. For example, we often slip into being more offended than is needed by something someone said or did or judgmental about someone else’s life choices. Remember that people are just doing their best with the tools that they have and that their best may not be your version of their best. We’re all doing this thing called life together. Keep everything in perspective and it will feel far easier.

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