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      All Foods Fit in a Healthy Diet–Here’s How This Mindset Changed My Life

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      Editor’s Note: This essay discusses eating disorders and eating disorder recovery. Please take care of yourself if those topics could be triggering.
      Disclaimer: I’m writing this story while sipping on a cup of hot chocolate. No, it’s not because I’m throwing all caution to the wind when it comes to nutrition. It’s also not because I’ve run out of coffee. It’s not even because my sugar cravings have gotten the better of me. I’m drinking hot chocolate because there’s a crisp chill in the Chicago air and my entire being wants to be wrapped in the comforting warmth of a cozy, chocolatey bev. In the past, I would’ve considered it an indulgence. Partaking in it would’ve been met with negative self-talk and criticism. I would’ve convinced myself to feel guilty for not opting for green tea instead.
      But I’ve since been introduced to the “all foods fit” model, and it’s radically changed how I view my eating habits and mindset. I’ve spent years trying to heal my relationship with food. It’s taken the combined efforts of therapy, medication, and educating myself on eating disorders. Yet, there was a missing piece: reframing the judgments and associations I’d made with food.

      What is the “all foods fit” model?
      The “all foods fit” model supports a distinctive view: Every food item can be a part of a person’s daily eating plan and meal prep. It’s no secret we live in a culture where labeling foods as “good,” “bad,” “healthy,” and “unhealthy” is the norm. So, it’s all about removing cultural meanings from foods to listen to what your body wants. You may be thinking, “If I eat what I want, won’t I just eat ‘junk’ food all the time?“ While you might first crave the foods you didn’t let yourself eat previously, I can confirm from experience: Variety will find its way back into your daily eating habits. When you don’t label any food groups off-limits, you’ll begin incorporating a wider array of nutrients into your meals and snacks. 
      Removing restrictions is not just about mental health. It’s beneficial for your physical health, too. By following this model, you’ll begin to trust your hunger cues again. This, in turn, becomes body wisdom. Instead of fixating on limitations, you can lean in and listen to what you need. Sometimes that might be carrots. Other times, it might be a cookie. Beauty exists in ditching the rules and letting your needs lead the way.
      Though I found the “all foods fit” model refreshing, it was hard to let go of my ties with fad and elimination diets. Additionally, it was hard to let go of my habitual need to categorize food as “good” or “off-limits.” Below, I dive into the strategies that helped me integrate this model into my eating patterns. What worked for me may not resonate with you, and that’s OK. Before you begin, remember this: Everything in life is a journey. And when it comes to something as individual as our relationship with food, consult a medical professional if there are changes you’d like to make. 

      Strategies that helped me integrate the “all foods fit” model:

      I reflected on why I wasn’t eating certain foods
      It took years to unpack why I had been a vegetarian for six years. It was more socially acceptable to cut out an entire food group (that my mind labeled “unhealthy”) in lieu of constantly turning down whole meals. With support from my therapist, I was able to see the bigger picture of how this eating pattern—and coming to it for the wrong reasons—built a preoccupation with the foods I was cutting out. What’s more, I felt a certain uneasiness around these foods. I no longer trusted my own innate hunger cues. A seemingly simple label such as “unhealthy” suddenly blew up into a full-blown obsession.
      I had to release the false claim that I was a vegetarian for health reasons to begin to heal my harmful view of meat. And though it’s taken years, I’m now incorporating animal protein sources into my meals a few times a week. I encourage you to take a step back and consider the food rules you’ve made for yourself: Why are you cutting out or avoiding certain foods? Why do you no longer keep certain types of food in the house? If you feel uneasy or unclear about the answer to those or similar questions, it could be time to re-evaluate.

      I focused on balance instead of perfection
      At one point or another, perfection has influenced almost every part of my life—from my workouts to my work to my cleaning habits. So it comes as no surprise I would let perfectionism dictate my eating habits. But I wanted to escape that feeling, and I craved a sense of freedom and ease.
      By working with the “all foods fit” model, I accepted that while nutrition is an important need to address, foods can satisfy us in other ways, too. I began to focus on how sated and energized I felt when I had eggs, greens, and toast for breakfast. And I started to see the truth of my cravings for connection and seasonal comfort when I ate spice cake and cider on the couch with a friend. Incorporating this element of mindfulness into my meals helped me. I ate more nutrient-dense foods and chose sweets and treats that nourished me in other ways. 

      I realized I could determine how I wanted to feel about foods
      I began to look more closely at the critique and virtue I associated with other foods. Additionally, I noticed my language and others’ comments during my meals always seemed to linger with judgment. I was either “good” for opting for a salad or expected to feel guilty because I said “yes” to dessert. It became clear to me that the words we use to describe foods perpetuate the harmful narrative we place on food. 
      I taught myself to look outside the phrases that had been ingrained in me. So, I started to shape a new language regarding food. There was nothing more empowering than realizing that I determine how I feel about what I eat. Food became energizing and soul-soothing. It became a source of connection and conversation. 
      My advice: Little by little, bring awareness to the judgmental thoughts when they come up. Reflect on them and perhaps what they’re trying to tell you. An intuitive eating journal can be supportive here. Of course, it’s not always possible to break out a notebook every time you sit down for a meal. However, it can be an effective way to transform judgments into a more neutral, non-judgmental experience. Focus on how satiating a meal is or the aesthetic joy of diving into a dish as opposed to the caloric content or societal associations of that food. You may find that you start to trust your personal decisions around food—from portion size to hunger cues and everything in between.

      I began to consistently introduce foods my past self would have turned down
      While it took time and support, I managed to work my way up to introducing the packaged and processed foods I once feared. I had Pop-Tarts for snacks on occasion and reclaimed my dormant love of ice cream. Similar to my experience with meat, I began to notice that eating these foods more regularly led to a decrease in cravings. Plus, my bingeing habits subsided, and I trusted myself around foods I previously wouldn’t have. If you notice this is an issue for you, try working with a dietitian or consulting a healthcare provider who can guide you along this challenging journey. Together, you can talk about what strategies will work best for you.

      I accepted that everyone eats differently—and no way is “good” or “bad”
      Our culture has long adopted the belief that what you eat defines who you are. Personally, I cringe at the “you are what you eat” adage. Let’s be clear: Nothing about what’s on your plate represents who you are as a person. Learning to embrace the truth that all foods can be part of your eating habits can help you jump off the fad diet wagon. Remember: Ingrained beliefs about food won’t shift overnight. But little by little, as you practice the tenets of the “all foods fit” model, you’ll start to feel food freedom for yourself.

      If you are struggling with an eating disorder or with disordered thoughts or behaviors regarding food and eating, please seek help. Call the National Eating Disorders Association Helpline at 1-800-931-2237 for support, reach out to a qualified medical professional, or, for a 24-hour crisis line, text “NEDA” to 741741.

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      Most of Us Have Tech Neck—Here Are 10 Easy Tips To Treat It

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      Have you ever looked up from your phone after an hour (or more) of scrolling through TikTok and found that your neck feels stiff? Does your upper back hurt after a long day of working on the computer? Are you looking down to read this article right now? If you answered yes to any of those questions, you’ve probably experienced tech neck. You’re not alone, though. With American adults spending over 11 hours a day consuming content, most of us have tech necks and poor posture from using our devices, whether we realize it or not. Luckily, it doesn’t have to be a long-term issue. Read on to learn more about the causes of tech neck and the easy ways it can be treated.   

      What is tech neck? 
      Some refer to tech neck as the lines or loose skin on the neck from constantly looking down at our phones. And while that’s not untrue, it’s important to note this concern is much more than skin-deep. Chiropractors, physical therapists, and surgeons alike have characterized tech neck as the strain and pressure put on the cervical spine due to poor posture. It’s most commonly caused by–you guessed it–looking down at technology. 
      According to William Kemp, MD, a neurosurgeon at the Virginia Spine Institute, this slight change in posture can weigh on us (literally). “The human head already weighs roughly twelve pounds,” he stated. “Even tilting your neck 15 degrees is like 27 pounds of extra strain put on your spine.” That may not seem like a big difference, but over time this can lead to neck and shoulder pain, muscle tightness, muscle stiffness, headaches, numbness, tingling, and overall discomfort. If tech neck is left untreated, these symptoms will likely persist, and additional posture abnormalities like a curved back, hunched shoulders, and forward head posture can occur.

      How to treat it
      Practice neck stretches 
      Mandy Armitage, MD, Medical Director of Editorial Services at GoodRX, recommends stretching to help improve the range of motion and ease tension in the neck. Practice side-to-side bends by bringing your ear toward your shoulder, holding for 5-10 seconds on each side. After completing a few reps, move onto forward and backward bends by lowering your chin to your chest and holding. Then, stretch your chin toward the ceiling and hold again. The next movement is side-to-side turns. Here, a similar motion is made to feel a stretch along the side of your neck. Pulling your chin and head back (not down) to perform a chin tuck can also help stretch the sides of your neck and the base of your skull. An even deeper stretch can be achieved by placing your hand behind your head and gently pulling your head down toward your armpit on each side.

      Try foam rolling 
      In addition to stretching, foam rolling can increase mobility and relieve pain caused by tech neck. Body-alignment specialist Lauren Roxburgh (named the “Body Alignment Pro” by Vogue) shares foam rolling techniques to align the head, neck, and shoulders in her book Taller, Slimmer, Younger. An easy move to try? Lie down with your back against a foam roller. Place the base of your head along the edge of the foam roller. Then, move your head left to right for several reps until you feel the tension begin to release. 

      Try a standing desk or laptop stand
      Despite tech neck also being referred to as “text neck,” our phones aren’t the only culprit. Our desk and computer set-ups are also factors. Just think about how many hours you spend hunched over your computer at work every day. (That number has only increased now that Zoom calls have replaced IRL meetings). This is why posture expert and ergonomist Michael Jones, MS, CErg recommends using a standing desk or laptop stand to prevent tech neck. “Without using a laptop stand, you will notice you start to adopt a slouching posture which increases your risk of tech neck,” he said. “A laptop stand will give you a more upright posture by bringing your monitor up to eye level, thus reducing the risk for forward head posture.” 

      Strengthen your back muscles
      Since the tech neck posture adds so much weight and pressure to our delicate necks and spines, Jones also suggests practicing reverse posture exercises. These strengthen our back muscles to take some of the strain off our necks. He suggests implementing strength training exercises like dumbbell or resistance band rows, rear delt flies, and face pulls. These moves target the muscles in our upper backs, which attach to the occipital bone of the skull. 

      Set time limits
      If you have an Apple Watch, you’re probably familiar with its frequent “time to stand” alerts. While these notifications can be annoying when you’re in the middle of a long meeting, they do serve as an important reminder to take breaks throughout the day. Kemp agrees, suggesting tech neck sufferers “try setting timers for 45-60 minutes at a time, taking short breaks in between to give both your brain and your neck a much-needed break from the stress of technology.” This break is also a great time to take a few deep breaths, do some simple stretches, and reset your posture to help release build-up in the body. 

      Reduce device usage
      I know, I know. (Insert eye roll here.) But there’s a reason why tech neck is a modern-day ailment. Because technology infiltrates so much of our daily lives, it can be beneficial physically and mentally to take time away from our devices. Consider adopting hobbies that don’t include looking at a screen. Perhaps, set up screen time limits on your phone and computer. Cut back on the number of hours you spend looking down at your devices.  

      Take advantage of tech
      This might sound counterintuitive since our use of technology got us into this mess. However, there are ways it can improve our posture. Ingrid Yang, MD is a physician and certified yoga therapist who advocates for the pivotal role that technology can play in our health and wellness: “Studies show that smart wellness wearable tools can help you form new healthy habits by the mind-body connection,” she said. “From good posture to mindful breaks, these devices provide real-time biofeedback to help you become aware of what you’re doing and provide gentle reminders to move into positions that keep you strong and pain-free.” Try utilizing the health app on your iPhone, downloading a habit-tracking app, or wearing a posture corrector that connects to your phone.

      Please consult your doctor before beginning any at-home treatments for tech neck or other related health concerns, and return to the doctor if pain or other symptoms persists. 

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      Migraines Suck: Here Are 5 Hacks That Make Them Better

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      That moment when a run-of-the-mill headache starts to turn a corner and head toward a full-blown, day-derailing migraine—it’s an experience I, unfortunately, know all too well.
      For me, that change could come from something simple. It could come from too much screen time (sorry, TikTok), not eating enough throughout the day, or lighting a strongly-scented candle. Other times, migraines sneak up on me because of hormonal changes, being overtired, or feeling especially stressed or overwhelmed. 
      Although dealing with the head-splitting pain—and, in my case, nausea— that comes with migraines really sucks, I’ve experienced enough of these headaches over the years to know what helps alleviate my symptoms. Migraine-relief suggestions are definitely not one-size-fits-all, but if any of my tried-and-true tips can help someone else feel a little bit better, they’re worth sharing. Read on for the five hacks I rely on to help combat migraine pain.

      1. Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate
      When I feel a migraine coming on, the very first thing I do is stop everything and drink a bunch of water. I try hard to stay hydrated during the day, but I often get distracted by work and life (sound familiar?) and fall behind with my water intake. So, when a headache begins, I do everything I can to get hydrated in hopes that it’ll temper some of my migraine symptoms. 
      My secret weapon here is to have Liquid I.V. packs on hand. I add one to my water tumbler to boost my electrolytes and hydrate faster. Then, I continue drinking water as my migraine progresses to stay hydrated and, hopefully, ease my pain sooner. 

      I started using Equilibria’s Relief Balm after The Everygirl’s CEO, Alaina Kaz, told me it significantly helped her migraines. To be honest, my first thought was, “OK, it can’t be that good.” But I’m here to tell you she was totally right. This topical cream works wonders on my headache pain. 
      When I have a migraine, I generously apply Equilibria’s Relief Balm to my temples or forehead and deeply massage the cream into my skin. I usually spend about 10 minutes doing this over and over until I start to feel the cooling sensation of the balm kick in. Then, it starts alleviating the throbbing in my head.

      Source: Julia Poulter

      Since I often use this balm, I appreciate that it’s made with six all-natural ingredients: coconut oil, shea butter, arnica, menthol, lavender, and rosemary. Paired with full-spectrum hemp flower oil that is Colorado-grown, this product is vegan, gluten-free, and organic, so I can feel good about using it on my skin. 
      If you suffer from migraines, take my word for it (and Alaina’s, too!) and give Equilibria’s Relief Balm a try. It’s become a must-have in my headache arsenal for its fast-acting and soothing pain-relief qualities. I really can’t recommend it enough. 

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      3. Get out the ice roller
      I first bought this $18 Amazon ice roller to use as part of my morning skincare routine to reduce puffiness. While it does that, it also helps reduce my migraine symptoms because it essentially numbs my face and head as I use it. I keep this in my freezer and pull it out whenever I feel a splitting headache coming on. I start rolling the ice pack all over my face, forehead, the back of my neck, and even the top of my head. Plus, it somehow helps curb the nausea I experience during migraines, too. Trust me with this hack, and hit “add to cart.”

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      4. Use a weighted sleep mask
      When I experience a migraine, I often feel an intense sensitivity to light and sound in addition to throbbing headache pain. I’ve found that putting gentle pressure on my eyes and forehead while lying down can help temper these symptoms, so I invested in a weighted sleep mask to do just that.
      I especially like the design of the one linked below from Nodpod because it’s a nice, substantial size, is super soft, and doesn’t require elastic or velcro to keep it on. (Plus, you can pop it in the freezer for added cooling relief.) It’s also wearable in several sleeping positions. Before this upgrade, I previously used a small, rectangular eye mask filled with beads that I essentially had to balance on my forehead to feel relief. And, since I’m a side sleeper, that setup didn’t cut it after a while. The Nodpod allows me to sleep in any comfortable position and stays on while I rest. I usually wear it over my eyes, but you can also wrap it around your head. 

      5. Sleep it off
      This final hack may seem obvious, but any migraine sufferer knows it’s important to do. When one of my migraines begins, I step away from my phone, computer, and TV, start hydrating, use my Equilibria Relief Balm and ice roller, and head to bed in a completely dark room with my Nodpod weighted sleep mask. I’m not always in a position to fully unplug from my life and go to sleep when a migraine hits. However, if I can, sleeping off the pain is really the only thing that kicks my migraine to the curb. Plus, getting enough rest on a regular basis helps keep my migraines at bay. 

      Please consult a doctor or health professional before beginning any supplements or treatments. Always seek the advice of your physician or another qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition or health goal. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this article.

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      Kendall Jenner’s Tips for Living As Her Highest Self Are Pretty Genius

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      Whether you watch The Kardashians or you’re one of her 260 million IG followers, you know Kendall Jenner is no stranger to the spotlight but also to the wellness scene. IV therapy, cold plunges, meditation sound bowls, and journaling are a few wellness practices she religiously stands by. If that doesn’t convince you of her self-proclaimed health obsession, her state-of-the-art room dedicated to all things wellness will. Complete with a hyperbaric chamber, red light therapy bed, and oxygen therapy machine, it’s every wellness girl’s dream (major envy). Gadgets and gizmos aside, Kendall has open dialogues with the media and on social media about her mental health and struggles with anxiety.
      Thanks to her recent interview with Jay Shetty on his podcast, On Purpose with Jay Shetty, I got the 411 on her self-work and steadfast wellness rituals. Read on for how she stays in tune with her highest self. Spoiler alert: They’re practices you won’t find on Hulu or Instagram, and we can all benefit from them.  

      Foster your higher goddess
      In Kendall’s work with her therapist, she focuses on living in her higher goddess, AKA her higher self. What does that look like? Words of affirmation, reassuring yourself of who you are, and recognizing everything else is just noise. “Sometimes it feels weird to say good things about yourself, but I’ve also learned a lot about talking to myself and a lot about looking in the mirror and being like, ‘You’re great. You’re gorgeous. You’re amazing. You’re loyal. You’re positive.’” 
      Admittedly, Kendall falls victim to false narratives. Like us all, she has moments she struggles to stay true to who she is and her purpose. “If your happiness depends on the actions of others, you’re at [the] mercy of things that you can’t control,” she stated. Kendall emphasized holding your own happiness and not letting anyone else affect it. If you know yourself and the people important in your life know your true self, nothing else should matter. When Shetty asked Kendall, “What’s something you used to value but you don’t value anymore?” Her answer? Validation. 

      Set aside alone time
      It’s no secret that Kendall is surrounded by a large family and famous friends (hey, Hailey Bieber) in addition to her entourage. But she told Shetty that since she was a kid, the Scorpio in her enjoyed being by herself. “I went through a phase where I felt like I had to be around people,” shared Kendall. “I think I live a very social life, and my job is very social, so I was kind of conditioned to want to be around people a lot. And then, as the pandemic came around, you’re not around as many people anymore. Now I’m just re-enjoying being by myself, which is really cool.”
      At the end of the day, Kendall craves a simple routine. Her perfect day consists of riding her horses, taking a cold plunge, laying out, and journaling. Taking a cue from Kendall, give yourself space and step away when needed. Additionally, be comfortable in your own company. Sometimes the best remedy for a bad day is journaling (yes, it bears repeating), taking a solo walk outside, meditating, or picking up a new hobby.

      Set boundaries at work 
      Let’s face it: We all experience burnout, celeb or not. Kendall expressed there was a long period of time she was overworked, felt overwhelmed, and said “yes” to every opportunity—to the point where she was unhappy. (Can anyone else relate?) Eventually, she learned to prioritize herself. She realized her well-being was necessary to show up better in her personal and professional life. So, she took a step back in her career to reconnect with her higher self: “I got to that point, and I just knew I had to do it…” Kendall explained. “It was just such an unbelievable sensation that I had where I knew that if I do this, I’m gonna be better for everyone. And I’m gonna be better for myself, which means I’m gonna be better for the people around me.”
      Learn to recognize the signs of burnout (think: fatigue, feeling apathetic with your work, changes to your sleep patterns). Then, enforce work-life boundaries to care for your mental health and restore a healthy balance. Maybe that means being upfront and clearly communicating with your boss. Perhaps, it means taking time off. Or, maybe, it’s just saying “no” to taking on more projects or a meeting invite scheduled during your lunch break. Ultimately, your mental and physical health should be your number one priority. (I know that’s sometimes easier said than done.)

      Stay grounded in your relationships 
      When it comes to her family and friends, Kendall told Shetty that honesty and communication are her core values in maintaining healthy relationships. “I find it really important to not feel like you’re on top of each other when you have your family around or your friends around,” she said. “It’s OK to sometimes, even if you’re at a family dinner, run to the bathroom and just being like, ‘Let me just take a couple breaths because this is getting overwhelming.’” 
      Kendall shared that she’s prone to anxiety and can take things too seriously. When she feels inundated with family circumstances or stress, she recognizes her feelings: “I’m allowed to feel this way; it’s valid. I’m just going to take a deep breath, and I’m not going to react, and then I’m going to go back out there, and I’m going to be fine.” Try being in Kendall’s shoes (wouldn’t that be fun?) and pause whenever you feel overwhelmed. Give yourself a safe space to express your feelings. Do this through journaling, speaking to a mental health professional, or practicing deep breathing.  

      Nurture your inner child
      After a viral TikTok trend encouraging viewers to stop negative self-talk by picturing their younger selves, Kendall’s therapist suggested she put a spin on it: Find a photo of herself as a child to put on her bathroom mirror. Take a glance at her Instagram, and you’ll see the Polaroid of young Kendall. It serves as a daily reminder that anything negative that she says about herself, she’s saying to that beaming, hair bow-wearing younger version of herself. “If I’m ever looking in the mirror and being negative toward myself, I always look right over to her, and I’m like, ‘She’s dope, and I love her,’” Kendall laughed.
      Bottom line: Practice self-love and find tactics that work for you. Perhaps it’s by exercising mindfulness or putting yourself and your needs first. Maybe it’s simply making yourself a healthy meal. Regardless of your method, keep being kind to yourself, just as you would your 5-year-old self or BFF

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      5 Tangible Tips To Recover From Burnout, According to an Empowerment Coach

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      Burnout is the emotional exhaustion that comes with feeling constantly overwhelmed at work—and in life! It can impact us all, no matter how much we love our jobs. It can start with tiredness, apathy, anxiety, self-doubt, loneliness, or irritability. And it can lead to physical ailments, like headaches, changes in appetite, digestive issues, trouble sleeping, and a lowered immune system. Oftentimes, burnout manifests itself in emotional and physical ways that can take years to reverse. When I started to feel burnt out at work, I turned to Jen Paterno, an empowerment coach who focuses on all things career, wellness, and self-discovery. She gave me five tips for reversing and recovering from all the negative emotions I was feeling.
      Paterno taught me that burnout stems from feeling out of control. This is why most of us experience it in relation to our careers. “When work-related burnout strikes, more often than not, it’s because it feels like ‘I have not done this to myself; someone else has done this to me,’” Paterno said. “We can manage our social calendars and our personal relationships, but when something needs to get done for work, we don’t always have a say in how or when it gets done. Eventually, that leads to a feeling of ‘I have nothing left to give.’”
      If you’ve ever felt burnt out or overwhelmed by everything on your plate, check out Paterno’s tips and implement them into your daily routine. 

      Meet the expert
      Jen Paterno, CPC, ELI-MP
      ENERGETIC BUSINESS + EMPOWERMENT COACH
      Jen supports her clients on their journey to connect more deeply with their personal sense of purpose and fulfillment so they can better serve themselves and their world. As a result of her experience working within global organizations, her current client roster is robust. It includes restaurateurs, musicians, filmmakers, C-suite executives, fitness professionals, entrepreneurs, students, and stay-at-home moms from across the globe.

      1. Take time for self-reflection
      The ideal time for self-reflection is before burnout fully strikes. It’s something to incorporate into your everyday life. “Self-reflection asks you to notice the little tinges of ‘this doesn’t feel right’ as they occur—long before you’re fully burnt out. When you first notice the symptoms, take note of when, where, and with whom you feel them,” Paterno said. In other words, if you’re filled with dread and anxiety every time your boss pings you, take note. 
      Self-reflection is important because it will alert you to any red flags that burnout may be approaching. If you’re starting to feel misunderstood, irritated, or hard on yourself and the people around you, start asking yourself what (or who) is causing these feelings. You’ll want to address them before they turn into physical symptoms. Journaling, free-writing, and meditation are great examples of how to add self-reflection to your day.

      2. Practice (actual) self-care
      “Once your self-reflection practice has helped you to recognize what’s weighing you down, you can begin to use self-care to lean into what makes you feel better,” Paterno said. Making time for physical activity and recharging are great examples of burnout-related self-care. However, when it comes to physical activity, Paterno said that an hour at the gym isn’t the only answer. “Sometimes walking the dog, standing up at your desk, stretching, or having a one-song dance party is enough,” she said.
      Recharging is totally different. “Recharging should be low-effort and high-joy, like something simple that makes you feel really good,” Paterno said. Reading, listening to a podcast, doing something creative, or playing fetch with your dog are great examples of recharging activities. “Be careful not to confuse recharging activities with mindless downtime,” Paterno warned. “Mindless scrolling and Netflix binges can feel like a mental break, but they typically don’t make you feel any better once you’re done.” Stick with feel-good activities that don’t require much effort.

      3. Rethink your priorities at work
      When it’s time to get back to work, Paterno suggested rethinking your approach to how you tackle the day. “Ask yourself what has to be done today. A long to-do list can be very overwhelming, but separating what needs to get done today from what needs to be done by the end of the week can be very helpful.” She also recommended getting clear on what you need to do to be at your best. “For me, I know that I will be better able to conquer my to-do list after a workout, so instead of spending three hours trying to accomplish the things I have to do today, I’ll spend an hour at the gym so that I can be at my best when I’m done,” explained Paterno. “Then, I’ll be far more focused and productive when accomplishing those tasks.” 

      4. Surround yourself with a support system
      It’s immensely important to have friends, family members, and professionals you trust. They can help you prioritize and mitigate known stressors. “Oftentimes, work issues don’t have simple solutions, so having a friend or family member to call and simply vent to, without help or advice, is huge,” said Paterno. “Additionally, people with more experience, like a mentor who can help you think through some of the work-related tasks you need to prioritize, are really important, too.” 
      Whether the conversation is with a friend, significant other, or mentor, Paterno encouraged setting firm boundaries. Begin the conversation by clearly stating what you need: advice, assistance, someone to listen, etc. This ensures you’re in control of the outcome. “Having someone whose only response is, ‘You should just quit’ is not helpful, especially if you can’t or don’t want to quit, so setting boundaries around these conversations is key,” Paterno said.Finally, don’t forget about people you just like to hang out with. “Not every interaction with your support systems needs to be about work,” Paterno said. “Sometimes it’s just important to have someone to go for a walk with, talk to about the latest book you read, or go to a pottery class with. Whatever your recharging activities are, doing them with a friend can make them even more enriching.”

      5. Incorporate daily recovery 
      Whether you’re worried about eventual burnout or already in the midst of it, daily recovery is essential. “Some of these things can feel overwhelming or like yet another thing to add to your to-do list, so daily recovery is the idea of breaking them down into bite-sized pieces that you can do every single day,” said Paterno. Every single day is the operative phrase. “People tend to wait for the weekends or vacation to finally take care of themselves and try to address their burnout, but that’s a mistake. We need to do one thing every day to prevent or recover from burnout, whether it’s starting with a five-minute stretch in the middle of the day or simply putting your shoes on and walking to the mailbox and back,” she said.
      Paterno recommended making a “daily recovery menu” with a few options to choose from to keep the daily practice meaningful yet doable. When it comes to preventing and recovering from burnout, it’s the small stuff that counts. “Taking care of yourself, noticing what triggers the feeling of burnout, and having support systems in place to help you cope are all really important ways to help you through tough times in work and in life,” she said. 

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      Can’t Live Without PSLs? Here’s How Experts Make Them Super Healthy

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      If there’s one thing that epitomizes the fall season, it’s the cult-favorite Pumpkin Spice Latte. It’s the comforting drink we wait for all year because there’s nothing like the cozy hygge vibes we get from sipping on warm, pumpkin-spiced goodness on a crisp autumn day. There’s one caveat: The traditional PSL, as we know and love from a certain green-and-white siren, is flavored with not-so-great-for-you ingredients: added sugar and natural flavors (read: flavoring agents that can be highly processed and contain preservatives and chemical additives), just to name a few.
      The good news is I’ve picked the brains of doctors and dietitians to create the ultimate healthy PSL, whether at home or at your everyday coffee outpost. And if you just can’t part with your beloved Starbucks PSL, I’ve got a tip or two for you, too. Read on for five ways to hack your way to a nutritious, gut-friendly PSL. Spoiler alert: Your PSL will never be the same again—for the better. 

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      Hacks to make the PSL nutritious

      1. Use 100% real pumpkin puree
      I hate to break it to you: The PSL offered at most coffee retailers contains pumpkin flavoring or syrup (code for sugar-dense syrup or powder artificially made to taste like pumpkin). Instead, reach for canned or fresh pumpkin puree as the main ingredient, which will deliver on the signature pumpkin flavor and some major health benefits, too.
      “Like most veggies and fruits within the red, yellow, and orange hues, pumpkin is rich in vitamin A and lycopene,” explained Dr. Lana Butner, a naturopathic doctor and acupuncturist. “Both of these nutrients are fantastic for eye health due to their antioxidant status, which helps with prevention of cellular degradation. The concentration of fat-soluble vitamins (A, E) in addition to vitamin C, iron potassium, and manganese also make pumpkin a fantastic food for boosting immune function.” Dr. Erin Hendriks, board-certified physician and functional medicine practitioner at Salvo Health, added that pumpkin is packed with fiber, which improves digestion by acting as food for good bacteria in the gut. 

      2. Opt for unsweetened, plant-based milk
      The common base of America’s favorite fall bevvy? Non-organic, processed dairy products, namely condensed milk. “Dairy is a common trigger for gut symptoms, as the lactase enzyme declines with age and most adults have lost at least some ability to digest dairy,” Dr. Hendriks explained. If dairy doesn’t make you feel great, ditch it. Instead, opt for your go-to plant-based option with no sugar added, like almond, cashew, coconut, or pistachio. Whichever you choose, you can still expect the familiar flavor and frothy, creamy texture of the conventional PSL.
      Not all non-dairy alternatives are created equal, though. “Oat milk is higher on the glycemic index, which further disrupts your blood sugar regulation,” warned Dr. Butner. “When blood sugar is dysregulated, it has a negative effect on cortisol production and secretion, which leads to further inflammation within the body.” If nut milk isn’t your thing, try coconut milk, which is high in healthy fats, over Instagram’s favorite oat milk.

      3. Reduce the caffeine 
      Bad news: The pick-me-up most of us can’t function without first thing in the morning can be a trigger for GI symptoms, and it might also interfere with hormones. Therefore, Dr. Hendriks recommended going the decaffeinated route or using less coffee in your PSL if you have gut or hormonal symptoms. But whether you’re going decaf or full-caf, choose a quality brand that is organic and fair trade, as low-quality beans are heavily processed and can be high in toxins. For a coffee kick substitute, Dr. Butner suggested matcha: “One teaspoon of matcha contains 70mg of caffeine in comparison to a cup of coffee which contains roughly 140mg. Matcha is also rich in the polyphenol EGCG, which has potent health protective effects, and L-theanine, which has been shown to improve mood and cognition and reduce stress and anxiety.” (I promise, it still works in your PSL!)

      4. Swap artificial sweeteners for natural alternatives 
      The ingredient that gives the ever-popular Starbucks PSL its signature flavor is the brand’s pumpkin syrup. While they don’t reveal the components of their secret flavoring, Carly Knowles, MS, RDN, LD, PCD, a registered dietitian and cookbook author of The Nutritionist’s Kitchen, let us in on what’s behind the curtain: “These pumped flavorings not only add a significant amount of sugar to your diet, they often contain artificial flavoring and coloring which some have been linked to issues like kidney damage or cognitive problems.” Alternatively, she suggested using a natural sweetener like monk fruit extract, raw honey, or maple syrup to allow you to control the level of sweetness and reduce or eliminate the sugar content entirely, depending on your taste preferences.

      5. Don’t forget the spices 
      The PSL wouldn’t be the PSL without the “S” in it, and luckily, spices also pack powerful health benefits. The usual suspects you’ll find in the PSL are cinnamon, nutmeg, ginger, and cloves. “Go heavy on the herbaceous spices for the extra seasonal flavor, ” advised Dr. Butner. She broke down the benefits of each:   
      Cinnamon: blood sugar-balancing, allows for insulin to escort glucose into the cells to use as energy (as opposed to remaining in the circulating bloodstream for too long, eventually causing damage to tissue and organs)
      Nutmeg: a powerful antioxidant that is great at squelching free radicals, decreasing inflammation in the body, and helping with cerebrovascular circulation
      Ginger: an antimicrobial antioxidant that helps regulate blood glucose levels, and as a potent herb, it also helps to increase circulation
      Clove: an anti-inflammatory antioxidant shown to increase circulation and nerve transduction to the pelvic floor and reproductive organs

      8 oz. freshly-brewed coffee
      1 cup milk of choice
      2-3 tablespoons organic pumpkin puree
      1-2 tablespoons maple syrup (or another sweetener of choice)
      1 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
      1 teaspoon vanilla extract

      Instructions: Make coffee and pour it into a glass or mug, and set it aside. Pour milk into a saucepan and heat over medium-low until warm (do not let it come to a boil). Then, transfer milk to a blender, and add pumpkin puree, maple syrup, pumpkin pie spice, and vanilla extract. Blend until well combined. Pour the mixture into the glass of coffee and sprinkle with a dash of pumpkin pie spice or cinnamon. Enjoy! 

      Hacks to “healthify” your Starbucks PSL order
      Opt for the “short” or “tall” size 
      Choose decaf instead of regular coffee
      Ask for 1-2 pumps of pumpkin sauce (instead of the usual four)
      Ask for extra foam instead of whipped cream
      Substitute 2% milk for almond or coconut milk
      Add a dash of cinnamon 

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      Could Your Gut Be the Secret to Happiness? A Dietitian Breaks It Down

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      Ever feel “butterflies” in your stomach when you’re nervous or excited? Were you ever taught to “listen to your gut?” Same. It’s no secret that we feel emotions in our physical bodies. But could taking care of our gut health also be the secret to happiness?
      The gut controls more than just digestion. Research increasingly shows just how powerful the connection between the brain and gut is—as if there weren’t already enough reasons to take care of our gut health! Navigating new health information can be challenging, but don’t worry. I’ve got you covered. As a dietician, I’m sharing what I’ve found in my research and the tips I share with clients. If you’ve heard of the gut-brain connection but aren’t quite sure what it means, read on to learn more.

      The gut-brain connection
      The communication system between your gut and your brain is known as the gut-brain axis, AKA the gut-brain connection. Our gastrointestinal tract (GI tract for short) is comprised of millions of neurons. These neurons are connected to your brain through nerves in the nervous system, the biggest one being the vagus nerve. The vagus nerve is able to send signals back and forth between the gut and the brain. Aside from neurons, the GI tract also contains trillions of microbes (typically bacteria) that play a role in immune function and inflammation. They also release chemicals that affect how your brain works. For example, gut bacteria manufacture about 95% of the body’s supply of serotonin (the happy hormone). 
      As more research emerges, scientists and medical professionals alike are beginning to better understand the link between digestion and the way we think. This is also why there’s an emerging field of nutritional psychiatry linking the foods we eat to our mental health. Although all mental health symptoms should be worked on with your doctor or therapist, taking care of your gut health might also optimize your mood. While there are many ways to take care of your gut health, here are five of my favorite tips I always recommend to clients.

      1. Stay hydrated
      You’ve heard it before, and I’ll say it again: Water is your best friend. Water keeps things moving and helps your body digest all the different foods you eat each day. Additionally, it keeps your bowel movements regular, which is crucial for the health of those microbes that play a major part in the body’s serotonin production.
      A general guideline is to drink half your body weight of water (in ounces) each day. However, needs may vary depending on outside temperature, exercise, and age. Although it sounds simple, I have often found that drinking enough water is a struggle for most people, myself included. Carrying a water bottle with you is one of the easiest ways to ensure you drink enough water throughout the day (bonus if it’s cute!). To take it one step further, try using a straw. 

      2. Choose fiber 
      There are different types of fiber in the foods we eat. Some act as a binding mechanism to push food through the digestive tract to create regular bowel movements. Some act as prebiotics to provide food for gut bacteria. Fiber can be found in whole grains, fruits, vegetables, nuts, legumes, and more. Regardless of the types of foods you consume, it’s important to consume adequate fiber daily. Research has shown eating adequate fiber is linked to a more diverse gut microbiome. And a more diverse gut microbiome is linked to better nutrient absorption—AKA better overall health, including brain health. 
      If you are not already incorporating fiber into your diet, don’t stress. Make sure you add additional fiber gradually over the course of a few weeks. Going from consuming little fiber to 25 grams a day could cause potential GI distress, such as bloating or cramping. (Think: adding a vegetable side with lunch or pairing a handful of berries with your breakfast.) Lastly, make sure you are drinking plenty of water to prevent constipation while adding more fiber.

      3. Eat a wide variety of plants
      When it comes to your diet, variety is the spice of life. Eating a diet rich in fruits and vegetables can ensure you meet your micronutrient needs. It’s also key to a healthy gut. One study found those who consumed more than 30 different plants per week had more diverse gut bacteria than those who ate 10 or fewer. If that sounds challenging, it may be easier than you think. When preparing meals, think of additional fruits and veggies you can add, such as fruit on top of oatmeal or roasted vegetables with pasta. Try meal prepping with seasonal fruits and veggies, or aim to pick out a produce item you haven’t tried before when grocery shopping. Additionally, opting for plant-based snacks like mixed nuts, veggies, and hummus, or fruit with yogurt can help round out your day.

      4. Choose fermented foods 
      Fermented foods such as yogurt, kefir, kimchi, and sauerkraut provide good bacteria for your gut, which is helpful for maintaining a diverse gut microbiome—and you already know a diverse gut microbiome can mean healthier gut-brain connection, production of serotonin, etc. In one study, researchers determined that individuals who consumed sauerkraut for six weeks had improved irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) symptoms, like bloating and gas. Additionally, it improved the makeup of the gut microbiome. To reap the benefits of fermented foods, aim to incorporate them into your daily meals. Try topping tacos, salads, or your favorite meals with sauerkraut or kimchi, or swap your regular yogurt for probiotic-filled coconut or whole milk yogurt. 

      5. Make time to stretch 
      Stretching is often overlooked, especially when it comes to optimizing gut health. You probably already know stretching can release tension and counteract the effects of the hours of sitting we do daily, but it can also help improve digestion. Stretches like downward dog and cat-cow are great for reducing symptoms of gas and bloating, and overall stretching improves blood flow to organs, which helps aid in a smoother digestive process and a healthier gut-brain connection. As a perk, stretching can help reduce stress, making it a great way to wind down after a long day. You don’t need a lot of time to stretch. Incorporating even five minutes into your work day or before bed is enough to make a difference.

      These tips are not meant to serve as treatment for any GI conditions, anxiety, or depression. If you are experiencing GI conditions, please consult your doctor or gastroenterologist, and if you think you may be experiencing depression or anxiety, it’s important to reach out and get help. See your doctor, get in contact with a therapist, and/or talk to a close friend or family member.
      Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this article.

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      It’s Time for a Life Edit—Here’s a Step-by-Step Guide

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      Like many, I spent a good part of the pandemic feeling out of control. With my work hours cut, my rental house being put up for sale, and the consistent state of languishing, I was overwhelmed by the unfamiliar chaos of my life. I held on to whatever predictability I could depend on. But with perfectly aligned timing, manifestation found its way into my life. I first learned about the concept from my social media feeds. Alongside influencers and the wellness elite, I saw posts from friends sharing the magic of manifestation.
      As I dove into the practice, I found myself wanting a little more support in designing the life of my dreams. An annual life edit helped me create clarity and carve out space to attract what I really wanted. Read on–the results are worth it! 

      What is a life edit?
      I learned about the concept from one of my favorite podcasts, Almost 30. In Ep. 296, co-host Krista Williams shares how a life edit gave her more clarity and mental peace. As a key step in manifesting your dream life, a thorough edit is intended to help you see every part of your life in its current state. Take a deep dive into all facets of your life: digital, home, finance, wellness, mental health, and social. By doing this, you give yourself the opportunity to spend significant time sifting through the “clutter” and clearing space for what you want to manifest.
      For me, a life edit was the missing piece that helped me lean into manifestation. While manifesting is about turning your thoughts into reality, the reality you want doesn’t simply come about by wishing for it. Instead, manifestation is a matter of intentional alignment. Essentially, you’re learning to shift your actions, beliefs, and habits to support the life you want for yourself. But of course, you can’t change what you’re not yet aware of. And that, dear readers, is where a life edit comes in.
      Think of a life edit as a re-evaluation. It’s an opportunity to take stock and get a pulse on where your life is right now. The best way to clean a space is to (painstakingly) take everything out and only put back what you really want. That’s exactly what we’re doing with a life edit, but it isn’t just your physical stuff. By slowing down and observing our lives, we can see what to let go of and what we ultimately want to welcome in. The space between our dreams and reality becomes so much closer. Let’s go through the six areas you’ll focus on, plus tips and tricks to ensure you’re getting the most from your life edit.

      How to do a life edit
      Step 1: Reflect
      While I’m one to jump into things before I know how to succeed, I’m trying to break that habit by taking intentional pauses. So, while a life edit sounds exciting (spoiler: it is), the best way to ensure you get what you need is to get quiet and spend some time with your journal. Not a fan of journaling? Think of it this way: Putting our thoughts into words gives them permanency that keeping beliefs in our heads can’t. It’s a bit like creating a roadmap for yourself, and people who swear by their morning pages can attest: It’s one of the best ways to find a little much-needed clarity. 
      In your journal, designate six different sections where you can reflect on the following areas of your life: Digital, home, financial, wellness, mental health, and social life. From there, respond to the following questions:

      What do I want more of in this area of my life?
      What feels overwhelming?
      Do I feel any blocks keeping me from achieving my goals?
      What do I want to introduce more of? 
      What can I release?
      How would it look to feel a greater sense of peace?

      Step 2: Accept that this will be a challenging process
      Before diving in, I want you to know that this part of your life edit can take a while. There’s no set timeline, but you want to be sure not to rush the process. Be patient and give yourself grace. We often don’t give ourselves enough credit for how challenging it can be to let go of objects or say goodbye to relationships that no longer serve us. And coming face to face with the reality of our financial lives can be a hard pill to swallow.
      Initially, these truths kept me from acting on what I’d written in my journal. I wanted to start saving more money but seeing my spending habits brought on a whole bout of shame. And while I no longer wanted to feel obligated to pour effort into a relationship, my fear of conflict kept me from standing up for myself. The best thing you can do is move forward. It will be difficult and uncomfortable, but nothing is more challenging than staying stuck.

       
      Step 3: Take action
      Once you’ve spent enough time reflecting and journaling, identify the area of your life you want to focus on first. (Pro tip: Start with what feels like will be the easiest and build momentum from there.) With your journal responses as guidance, take the time to sift and sort through everything that relates to this part of your life. So if you’re starting with your digital life, focus on your devices and online presence. Spend time with your phone and computer to delete old texts, re-evaluate contacts, and clear your inbox. Unsubscribe from emails that cause you stress, and make sure you’re not signed up for subscriptions you no longer use. Do you want to spend less time on social media? Do you need to let go of a few profiles that leave you feeling drained? Consider the steps that will help you reach your goals. 
      Personally, I had the most fun Marie Kondo-ing my apartment. It gave me the opportunity to separate my things into keep, donate, and trash piles. (The closet purge was the most satisfying part.) Remember: No life edit looks the same. This will be a deeply personal and emotional process that might cause you stress in certain areas where others will feel completely calm. That’s perfectly fine! One thing that’s consistent across all life edits? You’ll feel more aligned and confident about where you’re giving your focus, attention, and energy as you step into this next season of life.

      I finished. Now what?
      While I like to do a life edit on a yearly basis, there’s nothing stopping you from doing one as often as you’d like. The purpose is to notice when you’re feeling overwhelmed and to lean into a life edit to bring you greater clarity. And yes, it feels amazing to make your way through the process. However, it’s important to remember that it’s an ongoing journey. The ever-elusive concept of balance isn’t something we’re meant to achieve and maintain at all times. We meet new people, embrace new goals, and welcome new objects into our lives every day. By viewing a life edit as a perennial practice, you can trust you have what you need to create the life that you want.

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