10 Non-Food Rewards For Weight Loss, From Experts
Anyone on a weight loss journey can agree that it’s difficult. It’s difficult to forgo chocolates and chips for carrots and cucumbers, or to force yourself to do a workout when you’d rather be in bed. Enter: rewards. “Rewards are such an important part of a successful fitness journey,” says fitness trainer Abbi McDuling. “They help to reinforce consistency, celebrate the effort we are putting in and most importantly, keep the journey exciting rather than punishing.” More than that, Melissa Lainn, wellness coach, says it’s a way of building self-trust. “Celebrating your progress, especially the non-scale victories, can help rebuild trust with yourself, which is key to lasting lifestyle changes,” she says. “It’s a simple way of saying, ‘I see you. I’m proud of you. Keep going.’” Meet the experts: Abbi McDuling is a fitness trainer. Taryn Bortz is a registered dietician. Melissa Lainn is a wellness and holistic health coach. Yes, You Should Reward YourselfDuring weight loss, rewards are part of a larger system within your progress. “Clients should set SMART (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Timely) mini goals and obtain small rewards upon achieving each one,” explains Taryn Bortz, registered dietician. “Maybe you moved through a binge trigger without stuffing your feelings down with food, but rather self-regulated in a healthy way. Those moments deserve recognition, and by rewarding them, even in small ways, you teach your brain and body that healthy alternatives can equal pleasure, too,” says Lainn.But, says Bortz, knowing you get a reward for succeeding shouldn’t be what keeps you going through burpees. “For successful behaviour change, even before rewards are considered, the patient should decide where they are in terms of The Stages of Change (Pre-Contemplation, Contemplation, Preparation and Maintenance). One should only consider rewards in the Action Stage to promote Maintenance.” READ MORE: 9 Simple Eating Rules For Weight Loss To Burn Fat All DayWhy Food Might Not Be A Great Reward“Food isn’t the enemy, but when we use it as a reward, it can unintentionally reinforce the exact cycle we’re trying to shift, which is, ‘Be good, get a treat,’” explains Lainn. This can lead to guilt, overeating, bingeing, or giving up entirely, says Bortz, adding that when these impact your mental health, progress can be hindered. That said, it’s not always a bad idea, especially if you have a health relationship with food. And, “it’s important that no food be classified as “good” or “bad,” as this can contribute to food guilt,” says Bortz. “I still enjoy celebrating with food,” says Lainn, “but it‘s more about the celebration than stuffing myself with food to suppress, self-regulate or try to fill a void. It’s always important that we teach our body and brain that comfort and pleasure aren’t only found in food or drink.”READ MORE: What Exactly Is NEAT And How Can It Help Me Shed Weight Without Eating Less Or Exercising More?When Is A Good Time To Get Rewarded During Weight Loss? Per Bortz, once a habit is established (21 days) and successfully maintained, that’s a good time to try for a reward. For McDuling, the timing matters less. “Whether it’s showing up for all your workouts in a week, saying no to an old habit, or simply staying consistent, those small wins matter and rewarding effort – not just results, helps build trust in yourself!” she says. Lainn agrees. “I believe it’s less about hitting a perfect number and more about honouring the process you committed to,” she says. 10 Non-Food Rewards For Weight Loss (Or Anything Else, Really) Melissa’s Ideas A massage or bodywork sessionThe power of touch-based rewards! They can help build a healthier connection with the body and help regulate the nervous system, especially if stress has been a trigger for eating. Many of us don’t experience enough physical touch in a healthy and safe way and it can be very beneficial on your health and wellness journey. Think massages, facials, reflexology, reiki or energy healing sessions.A beautiful new journal or notebookYes, I have too many notebooks and journals, no I don’t care! Gifting yourself a tool for reflection and creativity helps to honour your inner journey, not just the physical one. And anyone creating lasting changes to their health and wellness knows that their inner journey matters just as much as the outer one. It can be a powerful tool and a beautiful reminder to look back on one day. Solo datesWhether it’s a day with no obligations, just heading out and following what feels good, or going to watch a movie you wanted to see, visiting an art gallery you’ve promised yourself you would or sitting somewhere with a cup of coffee and reading that book you’ve been putting off. Filling your cup with experiences, sights, and doing it solo is very grounding. It can be a powerful reminder that your needs and desires matter too, and that you don’t need anyone to meet them but yourself, a lot of the time.An art or hobby classYes a yoga class is lovely but when was the last time you painted, started a new hobby, did pottery, wrote poetry, tried knitting, or rode a horse? Rewarding yourself with these types of activities helps shift the focus from consuming to creating. It brings joy into the journey in ways you might not be used to as many of us feel like we only have time for things that are necessary or productive. Creativity and doing things that bring you joy are part of a fulfilled life, always. READ MORE: Slower Walks Boost Weight Loss In Women Over 50, Recent Study Finds: Here’s WhyAbbi’s Non-food Rewards Ideas “Me time” pamper hour or bathSetting aside time to pamper yourself is a beautiful way to say, I matter. New activewear or shoesFresh gear can boost confidence and motivation – it’s a way of dressing for the version of you you’re becoming, and it’s a visual reminder of your commitment.A fitness tracker or smartwatchA smart investment that will only add to your fitness journey.Taryn’s Rewards IdeasNew clothes or gym outfitMy favourite non-food reward! Buying new clothes after losing weight visibly reflects progress and boosts your self-image and confidence, keeping you motivated. Purchasing a new gym outfit can enhance motivation to continue exercising, which supports weight loss. Spa day or massageThis reinforces self-care, provides a break from daily life, reduces stress, and promotes physical well-being. A spa day also helps you to slow down and be more mindful Introducing a new skincare or make-up productSkincare contributes to a stress-free routine and significantly enhances self-care and self-image, leaving individuals feeling revitalised and refreshed. Meet The Experts
Taryn Bortz
Taryn Bortz is a dietician in Johannesburg where she helps individuals to meet their nutrition-related goals. She has a special interest in weight management, food allergies, gut health, lifestyle diseases and maternal, infant and paediatric nutrition.
Melissa Lainn
Melissa Lainn is an integrative nutrition health coach, meditation practitioner, wellness writer, and podcast host who helps women heal their relationship with food, their bodies, and themselves. Her work blends science-backed tools with soulful practices, empowering women to reconnect to their inner wisdom and live fully from the inside out.
Abbi McDuling
Abbi McDuling is a qualified personal trainer who has been on a journey of growth for the past 10 years with over 5 years of experience in the industry. She has a passion for health, fitness and helping women find their confidence again. More