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    What is Gua Sha? Everything You Need to Know About the It Skincare Tool of 2022

    I know a thing or two about stress, and I’m (unfortunately) pretty well acquainted with the toll stress can take on the skin and body: acne, texture, dullness, and so much puffiness. My mom says it’s all the french fries I eat, but I certainly wouldn’t eat (as many of) the fries if I was relaxed!
    So I went on the hunt for products that could both help my skin and help me destress. I tried the spoon in the fridge (OK, TBH, that was painful!), tons of eye creams, and cutting out dairy (didn’t work for me, but it might for you!). My first obvious choice was a jade roller (how could you go wrong!), but the more I researched (AKA stalking all my favorite beauty bloggers on Instagram for hours), I decided to get in on a trend early.
    An Amazon Prime delivery and a month or so later, my gua sha stone and I are basically BFFs. Because I’m so obsessed with my nightly gua sha massage ritual, I’m giving you all the details about what it is, what it does, and how you can do it at home. 

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    What is Gua Sha?
    Gua sha (pronounced gwa-shah!) is a tool (or tools) used to scrape the skin to promote circulation. Ancient Chinese medicine utilized the gua sha tool thousands of years ago to increase blood circulation and heal the body. 
    When you give yourself a gua sha massage, you’re essentially scraping all of that water and lymph under your skin to the edges of your face and pulling it down your neck to drain. It’s kind of gross but also super cool, huh? It moves all the blood around under your skin, so after a gua sha session, your face is plump with fresh, new blood to the surface.
    In Chinese medicine, gua sha came in the form of soup spoons and other items (which isn’t exactly what all the gua sha stones you see on Instagram look like). Generally, gua sha is made of either jade or rose quartz stones (jade is known for purifying and healing your energy).
    Here, I’m discussing gua sha as a facial tool for massage. However, there are larger tools that can be used for gua sha on the body. I’m dying to find an acupuncturist to see all the amazing things gua sha could do for my body now that I’ve seen how it helps my face!

    Benefits of Gua Sha

    Improves circulation
    Gua sha is the tool if you want to increase blood flow in your face. Circulation in itself has so many benefits, from decreasing inflammation, adding a glowy look to the skin, anti-aging, and more.

    Aids in lymphatic drainage
    Suffering from extra fluid in your face? Gua sha can help with that. Lymphatic fluid is basically all the fluid coming from your lymph nodes that hasn’t quite made its way back to the cardiovascular system. Massaging the skin helps drain that fluid from your face (yuck), and gua sha is the best tool to get that all to come out.

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    Relieves muscle tension
    As you scrape the gua sha across your skin, you’ll start to feel your face instantly relax. For years, everyone thought I had TMJ because of my jaw issues, but it turns out, I clench my jaw while I’m sleeping when I’m stressed (so basically all the time). As soon as I started using gua sha, I immediately noticed that my jaw felt less tight, and I was able to relax it more than ever.
    The scraping motion you do with a gua sha stone breaks up the muscle tissue, called fascia, which brings circulation and causes the muscles to relax more. If you are dealing with stress and can feel it in your face, gua sha is a super-easy way to bring some relief while adding some awesome self-care to your day.
    An added benefit: fewer headaches!

    Can help with skin dryness
    Stop the presses—gua sha might save all of you dry-skin gals! Yet again, when you push all of those toxins out of your face, your skin begins to plump up with moisture since it isn’t weighed down anymore.

    Reduces breakouts and helps with anti-aging
    Yep, gua sha is basically a miracle worker. All that lymphatic drainage lurking in your skin is bound to cause some buildup, which is what can lead to acne, texture, and dullness in the skin. The massage, therefore, brings elasticity and brightness to the skin. Using firmer pressure can even help you tackle fine lines and wrinkles.

    Adds facial contours
    No need for expensive contour powders with your gua sha! As you scrape your gua sha stone across your cheeks, you’ll start to notice facial contours you never knew you had. While this slimming effect is only temporary, over time, getting the blood circulating and moving around all that lymphatic drainage can only help if you’re trying to slim down your face.

    How do I do it?
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    You can do gua sha massages after either the serum, moisturizer, or oil step of your routine. I prefer to do my gua sha after I’ve applied all the products to my skin because it helps the stone glide across the skin effortlessly.
    Each gua sha tool is shaped differently, so find the side that works best for the different contours of your face. I first use the side with the divot on mine to fit the contours like under my eyes, on my cheeks, and on my chin, and then I take the curved side for my forehead and down my neck and chest.
    Because you’re about to push all these toxins out of your face (sounds amazing, right?), I like to make sure my neck is decongested before I start pushing all the gunk down it. In three different sections (both sides and directly under my chin), I run the tool toward my face for about five to 10 strokes.
    Then, in a sweeping motion, I scrape the gua sha tool from the middle of my chin to right under my ear on my jawline and repeat five to 10 times depending on how excited I am to hop into bed. I do the other side and then continue up the face, scraping the gua sha from the corner of my mouth to my ears, under my ears, and just above my eyebrows. It sounds like a lot, but it’s so relaxing that you’ll be wishing you could rub that thing over your face for hours (If you can’t tell, my gua sha and I are in a serious, committed relationship right now).
    If you need a visual, the video above is a great tutorial! Once you start gua sha-ing away, you’ll get into your own groove of how you like to do it.
    As you’re massaging, don’t be afraid to add some firm pressure. Obviously, we’re not trying to bruise ourselves, but if some redness or little red dots appear, that’s normal. Redness means that the gua sha is bringing blood to the surface, so it’s doing its job!

    I already have a jade roller. Do I need both?
    Depending on your needs, both a gua sha stone and a jade roller can be beneficial. In my experience, a jade roller is amazing for helping products like serums and oils sink more deeply into the skin. I love using a jade roller to apply my eye creams at night as well as on top of sheet masks to help all that goodness soak in (one of my fave skincare hacks!). Gua sha, on the other hand, is more for massages than products. It helps you pull out all those toxins in your skin at a deeper level than the jade roller.

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    The Summer of You: 10 Ways To Upgrade Your Routine for Summer

    While we know summer self-care is important, self-care is not always as easy in the summer as it is in other seasons when everyone is cooped up indoors (and no one’s posting envy-worthy road trip pics). During warmer months, if you don’t live at a beach, crush intense workouts regularly, or go on dreamy vacations every weekend, it’s easy to feel like you’re missing out. I like to call it FOMOOAPS: Fear of Missing Out on a Perfect Summer (maybe a stretch?). But focusing on what you’re not doing is taking away from what you should be doing: caring for yourself. Screw the FOMO and instead, make this the summer you put yourself first. Here are 10 ways to upgrade your routine to make the most of the season.

    1. Switch up your workouts
    If you’re stuck in a rut because you take the same workout class every day, summer is your solution. Consider taking your HIIT circuits or yoga flow outdoors: Bring your mat and sun salutations to the park or go for a walk instead of running on the treadmill. Summer is also a great time to try a workout you’ve never done before: Go for a hike, try an outdoor class, ask a friend to join, or try a totally new type of workout. Bonus: Thanks to the longer days, warmer weather, and brighter sunlight, we often have the most energy in the summertime, so take advantage and up the intensity: Go for a high-energy dance class if you’re usually a relaxing-flow kind of girl or train for the marathon you’ve always wanted to run. Just don’t forget your SPF!

    2. Make your own summer vacations
    Ah, remember childhood (or High School Musical 2) when summer was synonymous with vacation? Summer break meant no school from June to August and weeks of pool trips and popsicles ahead of you. Even if we’re grown-ups now (womp, womp) and don’t get a summer break from work (but like, isn’t that a great idea?), you can still apply the same mentality. Summer serves as the perfect reminder that work should be a part of your life, not your entire life. Take advantage of your PTO, whether that means taking a long weekend for a road trip with friends or a mental health day here and there to sleep in, get outside, and enjoy your life. And if all else fails, turn every weekend into a mini vacation (or staycation) to make the most of the season (and your life). 

    3. “Summer clean” your house
    Why should spring cleaning have all the fun? Let me introduce you to summer cleaning (AKA turning your home into the warm-weather oasis you deserve). Since clutter in the home translates into clutter in the mind, having an organized, clean, and happy home will help you enjoy the warmer months and boost your mood (I mean, how happy does an organized closet make you?). Spend a day organizing your junk drawer, donating clothes you don’t wear, and optimizing the space in your kitchen. But “summer cleaning” doesn’t just have to be the tedious stuff: Update your decor for a happier season by trading darker home accents with more colorful accessories, add a colorful print or two to the wall, and make minor upgrades with of-the-moment trends to brighten up your home. Minor changes like fresh flowers in vases or citrus oil in a diffuser can also make all the difference. 

    4. Eat fresher foods 
    While you may crave hearty dishes and warm meals in wintertime, you’re more likely to crave fresher foods come summer. Healthy eating is easy when the weather is warm. Your body wants lighter foods, herbs are in season, and vegetables on the grill suddenly sound as good as pasta or pizza. Take advantage of grocery stores full of produce in their prime (think: juicy tomatoes, fresh strawberries, and sweet corn), base grocery lists and recipes around the many delicious fruits and vegetables that are in season, and snack on crispy bell peppers or delicious watermelon. Also, make an effort to add more water-rich foods to your diet for bonus hydration points, like watermelon, cucumber, zucchini, and tomatoes. 

    5. Update your skincare for the season
    Imagine this: It’s the middle of summer 2022. You’ve got an effortless glow that even the lifeguards envy, and the disturbing amount of sweat and SPF on your skin at all times doesn’t even break you out. If it sounds too good to be true, know that you can score a killer tan without the harmful rays of the sun (thank you, fake tanning products!), and just because you’re loading up on SPF or sweating more does not mean you have to suffer through acne. Your skin just needs different things in the summer than it does in the winter, so update your routine accordingly. Include exfoliating acids to slough off dead skin, use cooling tools to de-puff and calm inflammation, make sure you have proper sun-care, and, if you’re looking to fake tan, opt for a high-quality faux glow for the summer skin of your dreams.

    6. Take advantage of longer hours
    So you know that days are longer during the summer, but have you ever thought about changing your daily routine to make the most of those long days? Longer days mean more sunlight, and more sunlight means more energy (think about it: waking up at 7 a.m. when it’s already light out is way different from waking up to a dark, cold 7 a.m. that still feels like nighttime). Take full advantage of the extra energy by waking up early for a workout or even just adding 30 minutes to your morning routine for some extra “me” time. And when it comes to staying lighter later, bring your post-work routine outdoors, whether that means eating dinner on your balcony or going on a run instead of opting for the treadmill. 

    7. Go tech-free
    One of the best parts of summer is that there is so much to do that’s not watching TV or staring at your computer screen (winter, I love you, but you forced me into some major Netflix black holes). Commit to going tech-free for at least a couple of hours every week or even a small amount of time every day. Go on a hike, read a book, or spend time with friends sans Instagram posting. No matter how you choose to spend your tech-free time, put down your phone, close your laptop, and turn off the TV to enjoy the screen-free time. If you want more of a challenge, consider going on a social media break for an entire week or limiting social media to one half-hour block a day.

    8. Walk everywhere
    “Fitness” doesn’t have to mean intense, exhausting, hour-long workouts. Instead, it just means simply moving as much as possible and living less sedentarily. True self-care is not about pushing yourself to the limit or reaching exhaustion but rather about just doing more of what you know makes your body feel good. One of the best parts of summer is that walking everywhere is not only possible, but it’s also pleasant. Cue up your favorite summer playlist or a new podcast episode and vow to walk everywhere (at least) within a one-mile radius (bonus: it’s better for the planet). For farther destinations, get creative about your transportation. For example, walk to the farther train stop to get in some extra steps or try bike riding for a quicker method that’s still active. 

    9. Grow your own produce
    Even if you don’t think your thumb is green, the summer season is the ideal time to start growing herbs or vegetables (you can do it, I promise). Let’s talk about why: Growing produce is healthier for you, better for the Earth, and easier on your wallet, and it just feels empowering to be able to whip up a pesto with basil from a pot outside. If you have a yard and the space, start with basics like tomatoes and lettuce (easy-to-grow summer produce). If you’re in an apartment or don’t have space outdoors, grow fresh herbs on a windowsill or with a smart garden.
     
    10. Remember that social health is self-care
    Community care is not only one of the top wellness trends of the past couple years, but it’s also a crucial part of self-care that we often overlook. I’ve been there: the temptation to skip beach days with friends because you’re feeling insecure or getting stressed about dinner plans because every item on the menu will make you bloated. But having strong relationships (and enjoying them regularly) is not only something we want but also something we need. Instead, remember that laughing with friends is truly better for your health than a green juice, and happy memories affect you way longer than a salty margarita ever could. Yes, you can always take care of your body, but this summer, prioritize taking care of your relationships too.

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    5 Things To Do Now To Have a Hot Girl Summer

    It’s finally time for Megan Thee Stallion’s favorite time of year: hot girl summer. Our Instagrams and TikToks are filled with influencers lounging on pool floats in trendy bikinis, posing in front of the Coachella Ferris wheel, and sipping cocktails on beach vacations. And while I love summer as much as the next girl, I’m not sure I’ve ever experienced a true “hot girl summer” because I’ve never been fully confident or lived the hottest season of the year to the fullest. This year, I’m prepping now to make sure I have my happiest, most confident, and fullest summer ever. 
    BTW, that’s what hot girl summer is all about: being your happiest self and making the most out of the season in a way that’s meaningful to you—not about fitting into a certain bathing suit size or looking a certain way in your denim shorts. To quote the Hot Girl Queen herself, “Being a hot girl is about being unapologetically you, having fun, being confident, living your truth, being the life of the party, etc.” So whatever hot girl summer means to you, read on for five easy tips to start manifesting it now.

    Feel confident in your bikini body
    Summertime can bring up a lot of emotions when it comes to preparing for bathing suit season, but let’s get one thing straight: Every body is a bikini body (say it again for the people in the back!). So whether you’re into trendy suits or more classic options, focus on wearing what you like and makes you feel good. After all, confidence stems from owning your body and loving yourself just the way you are, and that’s the kind of energy we’re taking into the summer months. That being said, I know it can be tricky to find the right bathing suit, but luckily, there are brands creating swimwear for a variety of body types to help you feel like the hot girl you already are. 

    Practice safe sun exposure
    At the risk of sounding like a mom, don’t forget your SPF. It’s one of the most (if not the most) important skincare considerations year-round but especially when we’re spending more time outdoors in the summer. Aim for at least SPF 15 on an everyday basis and at least SPF 30 if you’re planning to go outside. Apply sunscreen 30 minutes prior to sun exposure, and then reapply every two hours or immediately after swimming or sweating. For more info on the best protocol to protect your skin, talk to your dermatologist. It might seem tempting to forego sun protection to achieve that bronzed glow many of us are after this time of year, but you can always faux a glow (more on that below), and your future self will thank you for taking care of your skin now.

    Give yourself a glow-up
    With the weather heating up, it’s time for shorts, dresses, and swimsuits. Bottom line: You’ll be showing off more skin, so why not give yourself some hot girl self-care beforehand? Kick things off by exfoliating with a body polish to slough off dry, winter skin (this also helps prep skin for hair removal if smooth legs and a hair-free bikini line are a part of your hot girl routine or reduces the risk of in-grown hairs and course hair if shaving isn’t), and apply a self-tanner or a brightening lotion for that summer glow. The goal is to pamper yourself in whatever ways you enjoy so you can look and feel your best from the inside out. 

    Take time off
    If you’re looking for a sign to use your PTO, this is it. Summer is usually when families and couples take trips, but don’t be afraid to plan your own hot girl summer vacation with friends or even solo. Research shows that taking time off can help us feel more mindful and present, improve heart health and sleep, and reduce stress levels. Bonus if you’re vacationing solo: Spending time alone can help you take time to reflect and reconnect with yourself, improve your sense of self-confidence and empowerment, and allow you to enjoy your freedom to spend your vacay exactly how you want. Whether you can get away for a long weekend, take a whole week off, or plan a staycation on your off day, plan your own mini vacay with whatever budget and time work with you. Alexa, play Work Hard, Play Hard.

    Update your fitness routine
    Hot girl summer is the perfect time to reevaluate your workout routine and revamp what feels boring, stale, or exhausting. Thanks to more energy due to extra sunlight and more options due to the nice weather, you can revamp your exercise routine to whatever workouts make you feel most empowered. Whether it’s a power yoga flow in the sunlight to tap into your inner goddess, a pole dancing class to unleash your sexy side, or a classic hot girl walk (a go-to, if you will), get rid of any part of your fitness routine that feels habitual or draining, and opt for workouts that make you feel connected to your body, sensuality, and confidence.

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    6 Easy Ways to Fight the Midday Slump

    I’ve loved working from home for many reasons: my two fluffy coworkers (my pets), comfy clothes, access to a full kitchen with all my favorite snacks, and no commute. But my favorite part about working from home was being able to take a quick snooze when the dreaded midday slump hit every day. Even if it was just 20 minutes, it made such a huge difference to help get me through the rest of the day. 
    Now that I’m back in the office, I miss this WFH perk the most (aside from snuggling with my cats all day), and I find myself heavily relying on a third or fourth cup of coffee each afternoon to keep me going. But there are some days when even coffee isn’t enough to wake me up, so I’ve been trying out other natural ways to help fight that 3 p.m. energy slump. If you also find yourself in need of a midday pick-me-up, read on for the six methods I’ve been using to feel energized in the afternoon. Just an FYI: These tips are meant to ease the occasional lack of energy or fatigue that comes in the afternoon from time to time, but if you’re experiencing extreme fatigue on an ongoing basis, you should consult your doctor. 

    1. Get moving
    Thanks to Legally Blonde, we all know that “exercise gives you endorphins” and “endorphins make you happy.” According to Johns Hopkins Medicine, the release of endorphins due to exercise can create activity in the brain that can help keep you awake. Plus, exercise raises your body’s core temperature, which signals to the body’s clock that it’s supposed to be awake. While you may not be able to lift weights or complete a full HIIT workout in your cubicle, there are a few ways you can incorporate exercise into your workday. Try practicing a quick yoga flow, pedaling on an under-desk elliptical, or even just taking a walk around the office. No matter what, get up and move however you can to wake up the body and get more energy. 

    2. Drink water
    Dehydration can cause all sorts of issues: headaches, bad breath, and–you guessed it– fatigue. According to Healthline, not drinking enough water can cause fatigue because dehydration leads to less blood flow to your brain, causing drowsiness. Some studies have shown that even mild dehydration can negatively affect mood. Stay consistently hydrated all day every day, but if you find yourself hitting an afternoon slump, try reaching for a glass of water to increase hydration levels rather than a cup of coffee. If you struggle with your daily water intake (guilty), try infusing your water with fruit, using a 64-ounce water jug, or having a glass of water with every meal. 

    3. Get outside 
    Daily lunchtime walks were another benefit of working from home, and I loved them so much that I’ve actually incorporated them into my in-office routine too. Aside from being a nice change of scenery from my desk, Business Insider reported that spending time outside can help you beat the feelings of fatigue and increase serotonin levels thanks to vitamin D. Spending time in nature has also been shown to help with concentration and problem solving, which we could all use more of in a workday. If you’re in the city, try taking a walk around the block or eating your lunch outside to get some fresh air and soak up the sun.    

    4. Have a snack
    …but not just any snack. If you’ve ever experienced an energy crash after a sugary treat, you know that not all foods are created equal. Reach for complex carbs like oatmeal, sweet potatoes, and beans paired with proteins like cheese, nuts, or hard-boiled eggs. These nutritious snacks will keep you fuller for longer for sustained energy, meaning they’ll refuel your body for the rest of your workday. 

    5. Try aromatherapy 
    When I think of aromatherapy, I typically think of using calming scents like vanilla or lavender to unwind from a long day, but they can have invigorating properties too. According to Healthline, peppermint oil is known to increase alertness, rosemary can help with focus and brain functioning, and citrus oil (specifically lemon, lime, and wild orange) can improve mood. Other energizing oils include bergamot, cinnamon, eucalyptus, frankincense, French basil, ginger root, juniper berry, lemongrass, pine, and thyme. Take advantage of these invigorating oils by setting up a small diffuser in your office or rolling them on your wrists whenever you feel your energy begin to fade. 

    6. Start something new
    My afternoon slumps are the worst when I’ve been working on the same task for too long. Taking a break from your current task—especially if you’re working on the computer—can help prevent eye strain and refocus your mind on a new task. I personally like to check in with my coworkers, write a to-do list, or make a phone call to help switch gears and stimulate my mind by changing the way I’m using my brain. Harvard Business Review suggested tackling your more in-depth or decision-making tasks when you have the most energy and saving simpler tasks like cleaning out your inbox for later in the day when you’re feeling more tired.

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    10 No-Hassle Steps I’m Taking Today for a Better Tomorrow

    When it comes to self-love, I’ve always been an all or nothing kind of gal. I’m either on top of my routines doing the absolute most (6 a.m. wakeup, 7 a.m. hot yoga, 9 a.m. saying positive affirmations to myself in the mirror) or I’m feeling anxious and low on motivation while simultaneously avoiding human contact and responsibilities because I just can’t—there’s no in between. So if there are any sort of wellness tips I gravitate to in life, they’re the ones that are realistic, no-hassle, and attainable which proves to be especially important on those days where I’m feeling like I’m in a little bit of a slump.
    In an effort to find balance and consistency between who I am when I’m super high energy and who I am on days where I’m simply not feeling it, I’ve built up quite the repertoire of go-to wellness tips that I turn to to stay loving myself, even if I’m not up to moving mountains. Tried and true, here are 10 no-hassle steps I’m taking today to feel better by tomorrow:

    1. Going grocery shopping and filling my fridge with plenty of nutrient-dense foods
    If there’s one sure way that I know I can get myself out of a funk, it’s doing a grocery run to fill my fridge with plenty of nutrient-dense foods. Time and time again, I’ve fallen into the “I’ll just get fast food delivered” pit which, while initially indulgent, nine times out of 10 leaves me feeling sluggish and super guilty about the fact that I just dropped $30 instead of making something that would make me feel better. When I want to set myself up for a better tomorrow, I love filling my fridge with a lot of fruits, veggies, and foods with good fats and fiber to make feel-good options within reach.
    And when it comes to making sure I’m showing myself love by fueling myself with nutrient-dense foods I love having fresh avocados on hand. It’s virtually the only fresh fruit with good fats and plays a dual role in helping me meet both my fruit and good fat recommendations. Prioritizing nutrient-dense foods helps me to honor my body in a small way that makes a huge impact. From snack time to dinner and beyond, fresh avocados are one of my go-to grabs when I hit the grocery store and they help me to satisfy my hunger while nourishing my body and mind. Also, they taste incredible. Click below for a FREE handout featuring delicious avocado-based snacks inspired by a Mediterranean-style of eating!

    2. Listening to a mood-boosting playlist
    If I’m having an “off” day, one of my favorite tried and true ways to get back on track is to have a one-woman dance party to one of my favorite playlists. Listen—don’t knock it til you try it. I pop on my favorite playlist and start dancing and singing like nobody’s watching. And TBH, it’s super therapeutic. There’s something about scream-singing along to my favorite song that makes me want to run through a wall and definitely boosts my mood. 10/10 recommend.

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    3. Tidying up my workspace 
    When I’m feeling overwhelmed, one of the first things to go and one of the areas that I pay attention to least is the cleanliness of my apartment. And in turn, having my physical environment cluttered makes me feel, well, not so great. I’m not super type A, but I’ll admit: I feel so much better when I tidy up even a small area, especially if I’m spending a decent amount of time there (cough, cough: my workspace).
    If my place is a mess, I’ll set a five-minute timer to clean up as much as I can beginning with one small area at a time. Starting with just five minutes is usually enough to get me to keep going beyond that amount of time. I’m definitely motivated by progress, so once I get going, I’m usually inspired enough to keep going. And if for some reason I just can’t go on after those five minutes, it’s still five minutes of tidying that I wouldn’t have done otherwise. It’s truly a win-win situation where I’m investing a small amount of time in something that I know will make me feel better. 

    4. Connecting with others
    When I’m not feeling the greatest, there’s one task above all that I simultaneously dread the most and know will likely cure me. And that, my friends, is phoning someone I love. Working up the courage and energy to ask for help or just put myself out there isn’t always the easiest task, but I’ve never left a phone conversation with my bestie or my mom feeling worse or the same as before. Connecting with people I love, even if it’s for just a few minutes over video chat, gives me a sense of belonging, reminds me I’m not alone, and usually results in a good, unexpected laugh that boosts my mood exponentially.

    5. Doing some light exercise 
    One area that I’ve made progress by leaps and bounds over the course of the last few years is my relationship with moving my body. In accordance with how I typically tackle things (all or nothing), I used to truly believe that if I wasn’t dripping sweat, burning an upwards of 500 calories, or crushing a new fitness goal every day, it simply didn’t count. For me, this would result in a ton of dread when I was heading to the gym and was detrimental to my motivation to move my body at all. Especially on those low-energy days, I couldn’t muster up what it took to hit those high-intensity workouts, so—*spoiler alert*—I’d do nothing at all.
    Since I’ve healed my relationship with fitness, I know just how much a lower-intensity, quick workout can do for my body and my mind. Gone are the days of absolutely wrecking myself at the gym. Don’t get me wrong: When the stars are aligned, I’ll do a high-impact workout here and there. But my 15- to 30-minute walks, 12-3-30 treadmill days, and stretching have proven to improve my mood tenfold (no pre-movement dread or anxiety required).

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    6. Writing in my journal
    If there’s one therapy takeaway that I turn to above all others, it’s journaling. When I’m feeling anxious or low, one of my most tried-and-true ways to get my ruminating thoughts and feelings into the physical world are to brain-dump them onto paper through journaling. I’ve tried some more structured prompts in the past, but I’ve found that they work better for me when I’m feeling a little more inspired and high-energy. On those in-between days or if I’m in a bit of a mental slump, brain dumping has been my saving grace. After a good journaling session, my mind feels clear and new thoughts and challenges that enter my brain feel a lot more manageable. 

    7. Doing a five-minute meditation
    OK, I can’t lie. I might be the worst meditator that I know. But the way I see it, that also makes me someone who has a ton of potential (my “most improved” award will be here any minute now). I’ve found that doing guided meditations works a lot better for me and, like my brain dumping via journaling, helps me most when I have a far-too-full brain and not a lot of energy to spare.
    Sometimes, I’ll meditate in the middle of my workday to clear my mind before a meeting or when I find myself getting overwhelmed by tasks (especially when every single one is labeled as high-priority). Taking that step back has been so good for my anxiety and has helped me tackle my day with more focus and calmness. Other times, I’ll meditate at the end of my workday to help get me out of “work mode,” which has been a game changer for my end-of-day shutdown routine.

    8. Moving my nighttime routine up by 30 minutes to get a head start on sleep
    I’ve gotten a lot better at prioritizing my nighttime routine, but the reality is that even with a curated system for sleep, I don’t always get to sleep as early as I’d like. And the older I get, the more I realize how much sleep affects my mood, alertness, and efficiency the next day.
    I’ve found that cutting down my evening TV binge sessions by just 30 minutes has helped me start my nighttime routine earlier and has helped me get to bed at or before my intended sleep time. I’m definitely not cutting out my TV time altogether, but three-hour-long episodes are a bit excessive. As long as I tell myself “it’ll be there for me tomorrow,” I can usually peel myself away from the screen and get a good head start on my sleep game.

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    9. Swapping scrolling on social media with a light read to wind down and relax
    For years, one of my worst habits has been scrolling social media (TikTok, Instagram, Facebook—you name it) as a way to “wind down” when I’ve time and time again learned that it does the exact opposite. Between being blinded by blue light, seeing something that can make me anxious and get my adrenaline pumping, or falling down a TikTok rabbit hole until 2 a.m., I’ve learned my lesson when it comes to scrolling. I’ve started reading lighter novels before bed which has done wonders for my wind-down routine. After a few pages of focused relaxation, I’m able to let sleep catch up to me and take me into the night.

    10. Setting tomorrow’s alarm for 20 minutes earlier than normal 
    If there’s one “I-hate-to-admit-it” way that I can ensure that I start tomorrow off on the right foot, it’s setting my alarm for a mere 20 minutes earlier than I normally do. Starting my day off with an additional 20 minutes to prioritize myself—journaling, meditation, doing my skincare routine at my leisure, romanticizing my morning cup of coffee, or reading (the world truly is my oyster)—is probably my favorite way to kick off a day. Even if the day ends up being hectic, knowing that I carved out a few minutes to show myself  some love is such a good feeling that surprises me every single time.

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    I’m a Health Coach and These Are the 5 Things I Can’t Live Without

    When it comes to my wardrobe, I’m a sucker for budget finds, and I keep my beauty routine somewhat minimal. But wellness essentials are my kryptonite. I have tried just about every supplement, technology, and must-have that pops up on the internet or is recommended by doctors. I have a budget specifically for all of my health and wellness necessities, and have been known to spend over that on one too many occasions. And while I love a good sauna blanket or red-light therapy device as much as the next girl (sure, call me extra), there are only a few things that I literally use every single day. And the best part? They’re all worth the investment, easy, and convenient. Read on for the five wellness essentials I can’t live without:

    1. Nutrient-dense fruits like avocados
    We all know that avocado toast had its moment, but this Instagram-favorite fruit has always been a can’t-live-without item for helping me live my best life. Whether it’s in a salad, smoothie, or mashed into a delicious guacamole, avocados are extremely delicious and versatile. Fresh avocados are a good source of fiber, have naturally beneficial fats, and provide other nutrients that help me feel my best. My trick to making healthy decisions is to always have nutrient-dense snacks on hand so I’m not just reaching for the closest bag of junk food when hunger strikes. I love avocados sliced with salt and pepper, mashed into a dip for veggies and crackers, or blended with cacao into a chocolate pudding. If you’re looking for avocado-centered recipe inspo, look no further… check out this FREE handout featuring delicious avocado-based recipes inspired by a Mediterranean-style of eating!
     

     
    2. Oversized water bottle
    Not to brag, but I’m really good at drinking water. It’s taken years, but I have trained my body to constantly crave hydration—I really feel it if I haven’t had enough water during the day or if it’s been greater than 20 minutes since I’ve taken a sip. No matter if your most toxic trait is bragging about how hydrated you are like me or if you can never remember to drink enough, my best hack is using an oversized water bottle. Think about it: The biggest struggle with drinking water is getting up to refill when you’re sitting at your desk all day or not getting enough water in while you’re on the go. When I upgraded my basic, wimpy bottle to a 64oz tumbler, my hydration levels transformed. Now, I drink enough water because I don’t have to keep getting up from my desk to refill, and can bring enough with me on the go to stay hydrated throughout the day. Trust me: Your hydration goals have never been easier to reach.

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    3. Dedicated journals
    Full transparency: Yes, I am a health coach/wellness editor, and have therefore been telling women to journal ever since I can remember, but it’s taken me a while to actually get into a journaling habit myself. I write all day every day, so the last thing I was tempted to do on my off time was–you guessed it–write. In the name of health, I’ve tried making lists of what I’m grateful for or following guided prompts, but it never really stuck because it felt more like a mindless routine or item on my to-do list than a genuine self-care practice.
    But at the end of 2021, I learned about manifest journaling and something clicked. Now, I have a dedicated journal just for manifestation practices, which encourages me to keep up the practice much more than when I used the same notebook for all my brain dumps, notes, and attempted journaling. Additionally, I’ve been using journaling as a way to connect with and document specific nutrition and wellness goals which has been such a game-changer for me. I started looking at journaling as a rehearsal for how I wanted to live my day and a way to shift my energy instead of looking at it as something I was supposed to do.

    4. Ice roller
    Another confession: I run puffy. I will wake up after even a full eight hours of sleep and not even recognize my reflection because my eyes are overpowered by severe under eye bags and my jaw and cheekbones have gotten lost in all the puffiness. Enter: my go-to ice roller. I’ve tried a lot of different techniques, but ice rolling is the one practice that I can’t live without. You might have seen this affordable and popular tool on social media and it’s well worth the hype. Massaging with an ice roller proved to be an instant de-puffer, plus it takes very little time or effort (which is an automatic win for me). Ice-rolling can reduce puffiness and redness in the skin and can help boost circulation. I also use it on my neck and temples when a headache is coming on for immediate relief. Try a roller, put your favorite facial massage tools in the fridge, or just use an ice cube if you’re in a pinch.

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    5. Ankle weights
    Historically, I’m a trendy-workout-studio-only kind of girl. My best motivation comes from mood lighting and loud music, and I’m a sucker for any entrance or studio that has an Instagram-worthy neon sign or floral display. But I had to drastically shift my idea of exercise when the pandemic hit and all my beloved studios shut down (taking their neon signs with them). One of the best purchases I bought during the first week of lockdown was a pair of ankle weights. I used them as you would expect (around my ankles for a workout), but I also put them on my wrists to work arms and started wearing them on walks just for an added challenge. Cut to two years later and they are my go-to wellness accessory, whether I’m cooking dinner or taking my dog outside. A light pair of ankle weights is one of the easiest hacks to work on strength without even trying.

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    The Everygirl’s Guide to Building a Morning and Nighttime Routine That Works Best for You

    I know I’m not the only one who scrolls through countless TikToks of perfect morning and nighttime routines—these people seem to do a million things before the sun even comes up or have never accidentally binged Netflix until way past their bedtime. The aspirational morning and nighttime routine content can get overwhelming, and I often find myself wondering if I’m really supposed to do all of that to care for myself at the beginning or end of my day. The simple answer is no. A morning and night routine should cater to what makes you feel good and ready to start or end your day. Finding a routine that works for you is all about experimenting—that’s what’s so great about your routine; it’s yours. If you’re not sure how to craft a morning or night routine for you, don’t worry. We’ve got some ideas to get you started.

    Must-haves for your morning routine:
    Your morning routine should be all about starting fresh. We all know how important it is to start your day off on a good note, but how do you do that exactly? Below are six basic ideas, but the important part is to tailor them to whatever feels best for you.

    Prep your skin for the day
    As simple as it is, splashing water on your face really does help wake you up and improves your focus. If you have more time to go through a longer skincare routine in the morning, it’s a great way to follow a set routine every day. And whether you’ve just splashed cold water or you have a 10-step routine, don’t forget to top it all off with SPF before you head out the door. 

    Indulge in a morning beverage (and hydrate)
    Coffee, tea, water, kombucha—oh my! The options are really endless, and whether or not you’re the type of person who relies on caffeine to get going, find a set drink you really love and focus on perfecting that perfect cup. No matter your drink of choice, don’t forget to hydrate! 

    Give yourself some buffer time
    Take some extra time in the morning to really wake up. Whether you have an extra 60 seconds or 30 minutes, allow yourself the time so you’re not rushing to work. Write out your tasks for the day, read a couple of pages from a book, unload the dishwasher, or take a few breaths to calm yourself down.

    Plan out a nutrient-dense breakfast
    We know it’s hard to make time for breakfast, but skipping a meal in the AM can lead to low energy levels later in the day. Try planning and prepping your breakfast the night before if you have a tough morning (overnight oats?) or schedule time into your morning to DIY some avocado toast or a breakfast sandwich you can take on the go if you need.

    Get moving
    Moving the body helps you fully wake up and get energized for your day. If you can’t fit in a full workout, a 10-minute walk or going through a few yoga poses is guaranteed to start your day off right. Even stretching for 30 seconds can help the body wake up and feel refreshed.

    Pick a morning affirmation
    Often overlooked, this one might be the easiest to incorporate. When you’re brushing your teeth or putting on your makeup, don’t forget to affirm some positive energy into your day. Pick an intention for the day or think of how you want to feel, and then remind yourself of that intention throughout the day.

    Must-haves for your nighttime routine:
    No surprise, your night routine should be the opposite of your morning routine. The goal here is to wind down, but know what you want to get out of it specifically. PS: Extra pinched for time in the evenings or feeling exhausted? Try out one suggestion each night instead of all in one day.

    Prep your skin for the night
    Your nighttime skincare routine should be a little different from your morning one. Ditch the daytime gels for thicker creams or overnight serums and focus on areas you’d like to pay attention to more. If you’ve got dry skin, opt for a moisture mask, or use an exfoliant like retinol if your goal is anti-aging or a brighter complexion.

    Prep for the next morning
    Set out your outfit for the next day the night before, wash your favorite mug, or tidy up your workspace. Also, try to take care of an easy task you’d otherwise have to do the next day: Wash the pot you set in the sink to “soak” or craft an email you’ve been meaning to send to someone. It allows you to cross something off your to-do list you may have been avoiding. Trust us, your future self will thank you.

    Have a wind-down routine that helps you sleep
    No matter what helps you relax, unwind, and fall asleep, find a go-to routine and stick to it. For me, nothing screams “it’s time to relax” more than diffusing oil or turning on a humidifier—something about the hum of the gentle eucalyptus- or lavender-scented steam really creates a relaxing environment to get a great night’s sleep. You can also try reading a book, doing a meditation, or taking a bath—whatever helps you get sleepy. 

    Put away the screens
    PSA: The blue light from screens could be disrupting your sleep (not to mention how much stress you feel right before bed if you’re finishing work or the FOMO you feel if you’re scrolling through Instagram). Try reading before bed instead of using your screens until your eyes start to droop.

    Practices to add to either routine:
    There’s bound to be some overlap between your night routine and morning routine. Play with your scheduling a little bit and find what works for you: Does this activity work best for you at the beginning of your day, the end of your day, or maybe even both? 

    Take a shower
    I know what you may be thinking: Well, duh, I’m going to shower! But when you shower, you have no other responsibilities except for literally showering—it more than just cleans your body; it can also help clean your mind. Whether you’re someone who takes a morning or a night shower, carry that idea with you in your mind as you focus on nothing else but yourself.

    Journal
    In the long run, one of the best takeaways from journaling is being able to look back at different points of your life and see what kind of space you’re in. Journaling is a great practice to incorporate into your daily routine and works at any time of day. 

    Meditate
    Need to calm down for a relaxing sleep or get motivated for a busy day? Try a quick meditation. Just like journaling, it works at any time of the day. If you have more time, try a longer, self-focused meditation before bed or an early-morning flow to get you in the right mindset.

    Stretching
    Stretching in both the morning and night is my personal favorite part of my day. It allows me to take some time with not only my body but my mind as well. In the morning, stretching is good for waking up the body, but in the evenings, stretching can help the body release tension from the day. Try it at any point to find out what works best for you.

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    The Everygirl’s 30-Day “Spring-Clean Your Life” Challenge

    April means spring cleaning: when you change the pillows, flip the mattress, and deep clean your bathtub. It’s that magical time of year to reassess what needs to go and reorganize what’s staying. But this challenge is not just about cleaning your home; it’s about cleaning your life. “Detox” and “cleanse” are buzzwords that have become associated with diets, but I’d like to reclaim those terms to be less about juicing and more about what they’re supposed to mean: removing anything that isn’t serving you and replacing it with alternatives that support your well-being.
    Cleansing your life isn’t just about detoxing the habits, practices, and clutter that don’t make you feel like your best self; it’s just as much about replenishing with whatever makes you happy, healthy, and whole. The purpose of this cleanse is to gain awareness about how your daily habits and environment are affecting you, so that you can make room for your best possible life. For every day in April, you’ll be challenged to simplify, cleanse, de-stress, and clean out your home, bank account, mind, body, and spirit, so that you’ll be that much closer to your best, happiest self come May. Happy spring cleaning!

    Week 1
    1. Simplify your diet by opting for whole foods2. Reevaluate finances: Eliminate the expenses that don’t bring you joy and budget for expenses that do3. Replace any exercise you don’t enjoy with workouts that you’ll look forward to4. Reorganize your pantry: Toss out what’s old and get storage containers for easier access (and more sustainable living)5. Notice emotions and record the ones that aren’t serving you (without judgment)6. Clean your shower while you’re in it7. Don’t complain all day (not once!)

    Week 2
    8. Evaluate recurring charges on your bank statements and cancel what you don’t use on a regular basis9. Detox your social media by unfollowing every account that does not inspire you or make you happy10. Clean out your closet and donate clothes that no longer spark joy11. Stick to a sleep schedule by waking up and going to bed around the same time every night12. Make an action plan when negative emotions like stress, loneliness, or anger come up13. Organize your junk drawer (finally!)14. Meal prep all of your lunches for the next week

     
    Week 3 
    15. Practice journaling to help the mind let go of whatever it’s holding onto16. Clean out contacts, documents on your computer, and pictures on your phone by deleting what you no longer need17. Make your bed first thing in the morning18. Overhaul your relationships: Make a list of the people you come in contact with the most, and then make sure they’re all people you would want to be like and people who make you feel good19. Limit light in the evenings for better sleep20. Get sweaty, whether it’s in a cardio class or a steam shower21. Deep clean one room in your home

    Week 4
    22. Reassess your schedule to replace wasted time with activities that will make you happier or calmer23. Clean out your skincare and makeup by tossing anything that’s expired. Replace with non-toxic alternatives24. Designate a tech-free space in your home25. Buy some indoor plants that purify the air26. Come up with a go-to outfit formula to limit decision making in the mornings27. Track your water intake to make sure you’re hydrated enough28. Forgive the people you haven’t forgiven yet (including yourself)

    Week 5
    29. Make a list of your 10 most common stressors and come up with solutions to solve each one30. Detox your habits: Evaluate the ones that are not serving you and replace with habits that will 

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