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    Healthy Women Swear This “Rule” Is the Best-Kept Secret for Optimal Nutrition

    If there’s one thing we’ve learned from diet culture, it’s that restricting your favorite foods or swearing off certain food groups altogether (FYI, carbs are not the enemy) is not the answer to eating healthier, losing weight, getting in shape, or feeling better. In the dieting world where detoxes and quick fixes often prevail, we’ve been conditioned to go to extremes to achieve said goals and look a certain way. ICYMI, diets are not sustainable, and definitely not any fun. 
    In contrast, the 80/20 style of eating is touted to be in it for the long haul. A flexible approach to eating, the 80/20 diet or rule’s MO is simple: Nosh on nutrient-dense foods 80 percent of the time and enjoy less nutritious eats the remaining 20 percent. Translation: You can have your cake and eat it too—just make sure you have it alongside some fruits and veggies. So, how exactly do you practice the 80/20 diet, and is it worth trying? Keep reading to find out what registered dietitians have to say. 
     

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    What is the 80/20 Rule?
    A healthy, well-balanced diet makes room for all foods—including indulgences (AKA foods that bring you joy). With the 80/20 eating plan, you can indulge in pizza night or National Ice Cream Day (nothing is off the table!) and still feel your best because you’re filling your plate with whole grains, lean proteins, fruits, vegetables, and healthy fats the majority of the time. You could call it the antidote to fad diets.
    “The 80/20 rule, also known as the 80/20 diet, is a flexible approach to eating that emphasizes balance and moderation,” explained Barbara Kovalenko, a registered dietitian and nutrition consultant at Lasta. “It suggests that 80% of your diet should consist of nutritious, whole foods, while allowing for 20% flexibility to enjoy indulgent or less nutritious foods. The goal is to create a sustainable eating habit that doesn’t require you to completely cut out foods you love, but rather encourages overall balanced eating.” “The remaining 20% allows flexibility for enjoying foods that may not be as nutritious, but are satisfying or enjoyable to you,” agreed Chrissy Arsenault, MBA, RDN, a registered dietitian at Athletic Muscle. “It can include treats, desserts, or occasional indulgences that you might otherwise restrict in a more rigid diet.” 
     
    How can I put it into practice?
    The jury is still out on what a “healthy diet” really means because there’s no one-size-fits-all diet—it looks different to every single person. The 80/20 rule can be effective because it’s adaptable and completely open to interpretation. After all, we each have our personal food preferences and go-to indulgences, whether it be peanut butter cups (it’s me, hi), potato chips, or your grandma’s famous lasagna. According to Johna Burdeos, a registered dietitian, the most important thing is to do what works for you that you can stick to. That said, she provided general tips for adopting the 80/20 diet:

    Focusing on adding in foods that make you feel good
    Focus on eating plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. These foods are nutrient-dense, so they will help you feel full and satisfied without overeating (read: focus on adding nutritious foods, rather than subtracting less nutritious foods). Choose lean protein sources, such as fish, chicken, eggs, and legumes (i.e. beans, lentils, and chickpeas). These foods are high in protein, which is critical for hormonal health, building and repairing muscles, and many more functions in the body.

    Decide what indulgences are worth having
    While other non-sustainable (and harmful) diets may claim you need to ditch indulgences, the 80/2o principle instead views indulgences as a key part of a healthy diet and encourages you to be mindful about which foods genuinely bring you happiness versus what you may be eating out of mindlessness or habit. Maybe you decide to stop buying potato chips and Oreos at the grocery store so you fuel your body with foods that help you feel good throughout the week, and then enjoy your favorite pasta and chocolate cake when you eat out on Friday night.
    Or maybe your daily scoop of ice cream is a major source of joy, so you know to load up on fruits, veggies, clean proteins, and whole grains throughout the day so your body can feel its best. There are less nutritious foods that we use out of habit or to self-soothe, and then there are less nutritious foods that bring us so much joy and help us celebrate life. It is up to you to decide which foods fall into each category for you, and what foods (both nutritious and less nutritious) are a part of your best life. 

    Enjoy (all) of your food
    The key to making 80/20 work for you is to do so without restriction and without glorifying or villainizing any foods. It does not mean you force yourself to eat bland food for 80% of your life in order to “earn” the food you love. 80/20 is simply a mindset reframe that you can fully enjoy your birthday cake, a weekly glass of wine with friends, or your favorite Sunday takeout dinner and still have a “healthy diet.” But that doesn’t mean when you’re not “indulging,” you shouldn’t be enjoying. Instead of forcing yourself to eat boring salads or bland protein and veggies, experiment with healthier versions of foods you love (think: chickpea pasta, flavorful stews, sushi bowls, etc.) and add flavor with spices, herbs, and homemade sauces. Bottom line: You deserve to enjoy all your food, no matter if it’s categorized in the 80% or 20%. 

    Make a plan that works for you
    We’re typically wary of numbers when it comes to nutrition (tracking calories is so 2015, thank god), but 80/20 is not meant to be something you rigorously track. You don’t need to measure out a week’s worth of food to make sure that exactly 80% is nutritious or you’re limiting indulgences to exactly 20% of your diet. Instead, you can use it as a general frame of reference to know that you can indulge and fully enjoy foods you love because you’re filling your body with nutrients that make you feel amazing most of the time.
    Every person’s version of 80/20 may look different. Arsenault explains that it could mean four out of five daily meals or snacks being more nutrient-dense with a daily “treat,” eating nutrient-focused on weekdays and indulging a little more on the weekends, or being mindful of eating more fruits, veggies, and nutrient-dense whole foods when you know you’re going to indulge a little more like on a vacation. Apply the 80/20 mindset to however it works best in your life, knowing that the end goal is to live a balanced lifestyle where your body and joy are both prioritized. 

    What are the benefits?
    It encourages balance
    Step aside, engrained food rules. “The 80/20 ‘diet’ promotes a balanced approach to eating by allowing for flexibility and moderation,” Arsenault said. “It can help prevent feelings of deprivation or the sense of being on a restrictive diet, which can be difficult to sustain long-term.” Bottom line: Any and all foods are welcome in moderation. The 80/20 non-diet “diet” offers a framework that provides the structure for a healthier eating plan but with freedom from restrictions and rules. “Allowing occasional indulgences can help maintain a positive relationship with food and prevent feelings of guilt or shame,” Arsenault affirmed. Kovalenko agreed, explaining that the 80/20 way of eating can reduce the likelihood of restrictive behaviors or disordered eating patterns. 

    It’s actually sustainable long-term
    Depriving yourself of “bad” foods or foods you love is a recipe for disaster (read: excessive cravings, overeating, or binge eating). Plus, deeming certain foods off-limits over an extended period of time is unfeasible and can be detrimental to your health. The good news? “The 80/20 rule is often seen as a more sustainable approach compared to strict or extreme diets where you stop following it after 1-2 weeks,” Arsenault conveyed. “It recognizes that it’s unrealistic to completely avoid all ‘unhealthy’ foods, and by incorporating them in moderation, it becomes easier to stick to a healthy eating plan over time. This creates more of a sustainable habit that you can maintain.” Unlike many other eating plans that have servings, macronutrients, or calories to count (which are unsustainable at best, but potentially harmful), the 80/20 rule is less rigid and more about doing what feels right to you.

    It can improve your overall health and make you feel better
    Because the 80/20 rule calls for eating mainly whole, nutrient-rich foods, you may notice other perks besides feeling free from restrictive diet rules. “Eating nutritious foods can give you more energy, improve your mood, and help you sleep better,” Burdeos said. But also, joy is a nutrient too. According to US News & World Report, we have better digestion, nutrient absorption, and less of a tendency to overeat when we’re eating food we enjoy. As registered dietician, Brigitte Zeitlin told Well+Good, “Food is nourishment in a lot of different ways…it also nourishes our soul, and we should be eating foods we like, foods that feel good to us.” 80/20 allows for the benefits that come with enjoying your food without deprivation and filling your body with a variety of nutrients–both of which are necessary for optimal health.
     
    Are there any potential downsides?
    While the 80/20 approach to eating clearly has bragging rights, it does come with some potential drawbacks. “It may lack structure for some people,” Burdeos noted. “It can be hard to define what ‘healthy’ and ‘unhealthy’ foods are. What is considered healthy for one person may not be healthy for another. So it is important to be mindful of your own individual needs and goals when following the 80/20 diet.” Arsenault also alluded to its vagueness: “The 80/20 rule is a general guideline, and the specific ratio may vary from person to person,” she stated. “Some individuals may find it challenging to accurately measure the exact percentages, leading to potential inconsistencies or overindulgence.” In other words, because the percentages are ambiguous, it can lead to obsessing over the numbers and restrictions. And who wants to be doing the math all the time? Focus on relishing in the foods you love, not getting the proportion down perfectly. 
    Then there’s the risk of overeating. While the 20% allowance for indulgences is intended to be moderate, Kovalenko acknowledged that the flexibility may lead to overconsumption of less nutritious foods, which can hinder progress toward health goals. “It’s essential to maintain portion control and make mindful choices within the 20% flexibility,” Kovalenko advised. “Additionally, those with specific health conditions or dietary restrictions may need to modify the ratio or approach to suit their needs.”
    Lastly, while the 80/20 mindset is meant to be a freeing practice, Arsenault explained that many people fall into the trap of demonizing foods as “bad” when practicing the 80/20 rule: “While designed to be balanced, many people end up labeling food as either ‘good’ or ‘bad,’ thus establishing guilt whenever they eat the ‘bad’ foods. No food is inherently bad—and it’s all about balance.” Instead of thinking of the 80% for “good” foods and 20% for “bad,” know that all foods are equally important for different purposes and are intended to be part of a healthy diet. 

    Please consult a doctor or a registered dietitian before beginning any regimen. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this article.

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    100+ Affirmations For Women

    Words hold power, which is probably why positive self-affirmations are so effective. Introduced by the ancient Hindus and Buddhists and again in the 17th century by French philosopher Rene Descartes—who famously quoted “I think, therefore I am”—repeating positive statements to yourself is nothing new. In fact, science has shown that using affirmations in your daily life can shift your mindset, boost self-esteem, and change your perspective for the better. We’ve rounded up over 100 positive affirmations for women from all walks of life. Pick your favorite and repeat it to yourself daily, write down a few that resonate with you, or bookmark this page and turn to it as needed. Whatever you decide, these affirmations will help you feel empowered and stop negative self-talk once and for all.

    100+ Affirmations for Women
    Positive Affirmations
    Everyone has off days; it’s part of being human. However, these positive, daily affirmations will help you lead a happy life full of positive energy, and even the most trying times will be no match for you.

    I have a strong will and can do anything I put my mind to.
    I am full of confidence, and everyone around me can feel that.
    I am who I am, and I love myself for it.
    I believe in the woman I’m becoming.
    My inner strength is invincible.
    I have the ability to do great things.
    I have everything I need to succeed.
    I attract happiness into my life.
    I am powerful and fearless.
    I am a strong and confident woman.
    My life is beautiful, and I’m grateful for all that I have.
    There is nothing I can’t accomplish.
    I have enough. I do enough. I am enough.
    I am amazing and capable of far more than I realize.
    I believe in myself.
    I don’t have to be perfect all the time.
    Every day is a fresh start.
    I can make a difference.
    My thoughts and ideas matter because I matter.
    I add value to the world.
    I am beautiful, powerful, and talented.
    The world is filled with endless opportunities for me.
    My contributions are unique and meaningful.
    I am confident in my sexuality.
    I empower myself and all the women in the world.
    I commit to living a joyful and happy life.
    No one can dull my sparkle.
    I have what it takes to make my dreams come true.
    I am unstoppable.
    The universe has my back, always.
    I am open and ready to learn.
    I have the power to stand up for what I believe in.
    Every challenge is an opportunity to grow and improve.
    I acknowledge my self-worth.
    I am living my best life.

    Morning Affirmations
    Your mornings set the tone for the day. Make it a habit to repeat these to yourself first thing, and grant yourself the gift of an amazing day ahead.

    Today, I choose happiness.
    I create my reality.
    I am confident and capable.
    The world is my oyster.
    Today, I release all fear and doubt.
    I embrace my best self today.
    It’s OK to make mistakes.
    My mind is clear and focused.
    I have slept well, and I am ready to tackle the day.
    I am too determined to be defeated.
    My cup is overflowing with abundance.
    Everything I need comes to me easily and effortlessly.
    I can do anything, but I can’t do everything.
    I will accomplish my goals today.
    My goal is possible.
    I am on the path that is meant for me.
    I will be present in every moment.
    Everything is temporary.
    All I need is within me.
    I am the best source of my own motivation.
    I choose my attitude.
    I will be present in every moment.

    Affirmations for Health
    Health is wealth. But with crazy schedules and chaos, it’s easy to let taking care of your physical and mental health fall on the back burner—until now. With these positive affirmations for optimal health, you’ll feel stronger, more body positive, and shower yourself regularly with unconditional love.

    My body is a temple, and I treat it with love.
    I am perfect and complete exactly as I am.
    I love my body as it is.
    Self-care is a necessity, not a luxury.
    I will look after myself.
    I am beautiful.
    There is no reason to compare myself to others.
    I am grateful for my body and all it has done for me.
    I am comfortable in my own skin.
    My body is capable of incredible things.
    I listen to my body and give it what it needs.
    I nourish my body with food and exercise.
    I take care of both my body and mind.
    I’m feeling better each day.
    I am happy and healthy.
    I eat a balanced diet.
    My body is powerful.
    My mind and body are in harmony.
    I have so much energy.
    I commit myself entirely to feeling good.
    My mind is strong and disciplined.
    I am attracting positive people and circumstances into my life.
    Being confident comes naturally to me.
    I love myself unconditionally.

    Affirmations for Healing
    In moments of doubt and questioning your self-worth, turn to these affirmations to ground yourself in the present and remind yourself that you have conquered everything you’ve ever faced.

    I am worthy of love.
    I am healing.
    Even on my weakest days, I get a little bit stronger.
    I am a whole person; I complete myself.
    When struggling, I grant myself grace and compassion.
    I made the right decision.
    Change is hard, but I can do this.
    I deserve to experience joy and laughter.
    Life is full of magic.
    It will get better.
    All is well.
    I trust my judgment.
    I choose joy over sorrow.
    I am in control of my own safety now.
    My intuition is a helpful guide.
    I will always do my best, and that is enough.
    I am surrounded by people who uplift and want the best for me.
    My home should be a haven of peace, warmth, and safety.
    There is nothing wrong with me. I am not broken in any way, shape, or form.
    My past does not define me.
    I am in control of my own story.
    I forgive myself.

    Affirmations for Dating
    These love affirmations will help you cultivate and strengthen the relationship you have with yourself, and if you want a partner, they’ll help attract the right one into your life.

    I am open to love, and I attract my ideal partner.
    Being in my own company is fulfilling and important.
    I love myself.
    I am not alone; I am surrounded by people who love me.
    The right person will come at the right time.
    I don’t chase; I attract what is meant for me.
    The most important relationship is the one I have with myself.
    I complete myself.
    I answer to no one but myself.
    Being single does not make me less than.
    My life is full of endless opportunities I am free to choose.
    I have freedom.
    I love my own company.
    Dabbling in new hobbies is right at my fingertips.
    Being in a relationship does not equal happiness.
    Being single is not the same as being alone.
    Every day, I will practice the art of self-love.
    I am 100% responsible for my own happiness.
    I don’t have to change myself for anyone else.

    Affirmations for When You’re Struggling
    Use these affirmations to embrace your power and remind yourself just how capable you are day in and day out.

    One day at a time.
    I am stronger than I know.
    My actions are the one thing I can control.
    I am on a good path.
    I wake up every day with courage.
    My life is a gift.
    I decide who I become.
    I am stronger than whatever life throws my way.
    I have the strength to keep going.
    I can and I will.
    Amazing things are coming my way.
    I like who I’m becoming.
    I am changing my life.
    Negative thoughts will not get me down.
    What I do today creates a better tomorrow.
    I can do this. I won’t give up.
    I have the courage to say “no.”
    Every day is a blessing.
    I can change my story.
    I am willing to work on myself.
    Everything will be OK.
    My bravery shines in everything I do.
    Life is tough, but I’m tougher.

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    Morning Routine Hacks for Better Digestion Throughout the Entire Day

    Despite what #GutTok may have you believe, you don’t have to down olive oil shots, nosh on stewed apples, and graze on papaya seeds for the sake of digestive health and beating dreaded bloat. Sure, optimizing gut health is where it’s at, and hot girls have IBS, but the reality is there are no quick fixes or cure-alls to GI issues, even if said olive oil elixir worked for your favorite TikToker (I would know—I’ve had too many digestive drama episodes to count). Instead, start your morning off on the right foot with a few simple habits that can translate to a bright-eyed and bushy-tailed day with only one main objective: a happy gut. I asked dieticians and gastroenterologists for the top morning practices that are (actually) essential for boosting gut health and digestion.
     
    1. Drink water first thing
    Staying hydrated is vital for optimizing your skin, digestion, hormone balance, sleep quality, and mood, so why wouldn’t you kick off your morning with a tall glass of warm lemon water to jump-start the digestion process? “Drinking a glass of water first thing in the morning helps flush out toxins and supports morning bowel movements,” described Tanya Mezher, MS, RD, CDN, Lead Functional Practitioner at Malla.
    If you still need convincing, sip on this: “The most abundant molecule in the cells lining your digestive tract is water, accounting for 70 percent or more of total cell mass,” conveyed Dr. Lance Uradomo, M.D., M.P.H., an interventional gastroenterologist at City of Hope Orange County Lennar Foundation Cancer Center. “Water is crucial for those cells to function properly and for your gut to digest food easily.” So before you reach for your morning cup of joe or bite into your breakfast, wake up and hydrate your body with some H2O. For overachievers, the addition of lemon also helps fight indigestion, heartburn, bloating, constipation, and gas formation. 
     
    2. Prioritize breakfast and make it your largest meal of the day
    They say breakfast is the most important meal of the day, and when it comes to your gut, it’s true. “Because of the body’s circadian rhythm, we create less stomach acid later in the evening when the sun is down, so when we eat larger meals at night, we might not be able to optimally digest these meals,” explained Paulina Lee, MSHS, RD, LD, a gut health functional dietitian and founder of Savvy Stummy, LLC. “Fueling with a bigger breakfast can help us obtain nutrients optimally when our digestion is more awake in the mornings.”
    Don’t let a hectic schedule or tough work deadline make you skip breakfast, and plan ahead so it’s an afterthought or something you grab on the go. Take time to sit down and eat mindfully, and turn off social media, emails, and TV to eat fully present. “Chewing each bite well without distractions or multi-tasking can help you relax and digest better by setting you into a more ‘rest and digest’ phase,” Lee affirmed. 
     
    3. Eat foods rich in fiber and fermented foods
    Fiber is a type of carbohydrate that the body can’t digest, so it passes through the body undigested and makes its way to the gut, promoting regularity and relieving GI issues. “Fiber, especially prebiotic fibers, are fuel for a healthy gut microbiome,” Lee explained. “These fibers are digested by beneficial gut bacteria so they can make healthful by-products like short-chain fatty acids that support the gut barrier, decrease inflammation, manage the pH of the gut, and keep oxidative stress at bay.” Easy ways to sneak in extra fiber? Sprinkle your yogurt with flaxseeds or chia seeds, top your oatmeal with berries, use whole grain bread for your avocado toast, or whip up a veggie omelet or scramble.
    In addition to fiber, fermented foods are crucial for gut health. “Fermented foods contain and feed healthful probiotics, which are beneficial to healthy digestion,” Dr. Uradomo said. But that’s not all probiotics bring to the table. “Probiotics may decrease gut-associated inflammation, which contributes to poor immunity and other metabolic imbalances,” Lee elaborated. Just how much of this type of superfood do we need? Lee recommended at least 1-2 tablespoons of fermented foods daily. Whether you blend coconut yogurt or kefir into your morning smoothie or incorporate sauerkraut or kimchi into your breakfast burrito, you’ll be doing your gut a major solid.
     
    4. Sip on ginger tea
    Ginger does more than deliver its signature spicy zest to savory dishes and baked goods. Consider it your gut’s BFF thanks to its antioxidant and anti-inflammatory properties that can support digestion and combat bloat by stimulating saliva and stomach acid production. “Because ginger has anti-inflammatory and gastro-protective properties, it may relieve digestion, bloating, and inflammation,” Lee echoed. “In Traditional Chinese Medicine, ginger is often used for indigestion, and there’s additional research to show it improves feelings of nausea.”
    But the plant’s good-for-you qualities don’t stop there. “Ginger root contains gingerol, a natural compound that assists with gastrointestinal motility–the contractions and relaxations of muscles of the GI tract and the movement of ingested food and liquid through the gut,” Dr. Uradomo pointed out. Plus, it’s an easy step to add to your morning routine, as preparing ginger tea is as easy as slicing ginger and adding hot water.

    5. Get moving
    Lee said it best: “Get moving to get ‘things’ moving in your gut.” It turns out hot girl walks are more than just a means to get your steps in. “Morning walks or yoga can help contract muscles, which keeps things moving in your digestive tract,” Lee continued. “These activities may also help improve your healthy gut microbiome and diversity. Yoga stretches, like side bending, downward dog, and standing forward bend, involve twisting and bending that massages the digestive tract to relax the gut and stimulate digestive enzymes.”
    Let go of any preconceived notions that your movement of choice needs to be an hour long or intense to get the most out of it. In fact, gentle forms of exercise in the AM are *chef’s kiss* since easing into your morning should be your MO for promoting gut health. “Even if it is just a 10-minute walk or an at-home workout, any form of movement can help with digestion,” Dr. Uradomo expressed. “Exercise increases blood flow to the muscles in the digestive system and helps to move food through the digestive tract.”
    Recent studies have found that there’s a link between the gut microbiome and exercise, according to Mezher. “Exercise can change the composition of the gut biome, increase the number of beneficial bacteria, and reduce the number of harmful bacteria.” She suggested taking your workout outside to enhance your gut health along with your vitamin D intake and circadian rhythm for some added benefits. 
     
    6. Relax the nervous system

    A chaotic morning that calls for rushing to get ready and out the door can wreak havoc on your stress levels, which can also negatively affect digestion and gut health. “When our bodies aren’t in a state of flight-or-fight, AKA sympathetic pathways, we are able to focus more energy and time into absorbing and digesting nutrients optimally,” Lee explained.
    No matter what practice relaxes you or how much time you have in the morning, you can make relaxation a priority. It can be as simple as taking 3-4 deep breaths to set the tone for digesting (and conquering your day) before calmly getting out of bed. “Deep breathing and meditation in the morning help to set your day for parasympathetic pathways that aid in resting and digesting,” Lee explained. You can also try meditation, journaling, getting outside, or a quick breathwork session (Mezher cited a recent study that found breathwork improved digestion and increased the number of beneficial bacteria in the gut).

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    I Tried Pole Dancing Classes for 3 Weeks and My Confidence Skyrocketed

    As a ClassPass addict, one of the main ways I maintain my motivation to work out is by constantly switching up the type of exercise I’m doing. Pilates? Love it. Bootcamp? Give me a second to caffeinate first, and then I’m there. Spin? Ready to clip in. Lifting? A tried-and-true classic. However, there are some types of physical activity that even I haven’t given a shot, and one of those is the controversial pole dancing. So for three weeks, I consistently took (beginner level!) pole classes, recorded my thoughts, and developed some major arm gains (and confidence) in the process.

    Why take a pole fitness class in the first place?
    It all started at Denver Pride, when a local pole studio had a pop-up where anyone who walked by could have a chance to spin on the pole. Guided by an instructor, I tried out what I later learned to be a “ballerina spin,” and found myself thinking a few things: first, that was way more physically challenging than I thought it would be, and second, that was SO fun. I was hooked, and I signed up for a beginner class right then and there.

    But beyond a physical challenge and a fun new workout, I found myself drawn to the idea of a “sexy workout” for a specific reason. As a 22-year-old woman, it can be hard to feel like my sexuality is something that exists entirely for me; it’s a difficult thing to take ownership of when there are social pressures to “be sexy” for partners and in terms of my general physical experience.
    On the other end of the spectrum, exercise is something I have no problem doing just for me. I’ve worked hard to get to the point where I work out to feel myself getting stronger and for my own physical and mental health, and not for outside perceptions. By combining sexiness with physical activity in a pole dancing workout, I hoped to feel a little bit more like my sexuality was something that exists for myself and no one else.

    My First Impressions
    Before my first pole class, I felt some nerves; luckily, I was headed to a first-impression class offered specifically for beginners, so I wasn’t the only one with no background experience. The class started with pretty standard upper-body warm-ups, like head rolls, arm circles, and a push-up variation commonly known as the “sexy push-up.” We learned how to walk around the pole—always on tip-toes—and the dynamics of a spin. For the final minute of the class, the instructor turned down the lights and allowed us to practice however we liked with no instruction for the duration of the song, giving me hardcore flashbacks to free dance at the end of ballet classes in my childhood.
    The following five pole classes I took over the next few weeks followed a similar structure: warm-ups and conditioning, floor work that was always physically challenging and engaged my core, learning the dynamics of a spin on the pole, and a free dance portion. Though I took a different instructor each time, I never felt judged when I asked for help with choreography. In some crowded classes, I took turns learning spins on the pole with a partner; in other less crowded classes, I received more hands-on instruction.

    Pole Fitness as a Workout

    If you’re looking for a fantastic shoulder and back workout, all I have to say is that you are definitely missing out on the physical benefits of pole dancing. At the risk of stating the obvious, it takes quite a bit of upper body strength to stabilize and hold yourself up on a vertical pole as you spin around it—who knew?! After taking my first class, my shoulders were super sore, and once I became more skilled at the simultaneous push-and-pull motion that comes from having both hands on the pole, I felt a ton of engagement in my back. At the end of the three weeks, I can tell that my upper body has gotten much stronger.
    Beyond the upper body workout that is pole dancing, I found myself challenged by the constant relevé that the activity requires: there’s a reason pole dancers usually wear heels, and it’s not for aesthetics. The act itself requires being on your tip-toes constantly, so heels eliminate a bit of calf strain. Like most dance classes, pole dancing also pushes flexibility and posture, two elements of exercise that I rarely find myself focusing on in more traditional workout classes.

    How Pole Fitness Changed My Confidence and Self-Perception
    To be completely honest, there were a few moments during my 3-week pole dancing journey when I felt self-conscious, confused, or even downright uncomfortable. Pushing myself to connect with a simultaneously creative, sexualized, and strong version of myself in a room full of strangers and an instructor was hard, and required a level of vulnerability I was pretty unfamiliar with.
    However, in spite of the physical and mental challenge of pole dancing itself, I’ve never had so much fun in a relatively low-impact workout class. When I allowed myself to get out of my head and into my body when learning and practicing the different spins, I found myself having a straight-up great time. The music was always on point, the community of the studio I attended felt tight-knit and supportive, and the thrill of perfecting a new skill with each class was incredibly refreshing.
    When it comes to trying out a “sexy workout,” I can’t recommend it enough—though it tested my confidence, pole dancing pushed me to connect with a physically creative side of myself. The instructors encouraged us to record videos of ourselves during each free dance, and looking back at those videos of myself dancing is so fun. Not only do they allow me to see how much I’ve progressed in terms of skill, but rewatching those videos makes me feel totally hot. And the best part? They’re just for me.

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    Fight The Side Effects Of Antibiotics And Keep Your Gut In Check With Probiotics: A Winning Combination

    Antibiotics can be lifesaving medications when it comes to treating bacterial infections, but they can also have side effects, such as diarrhoea and an upset stomach, by disrupting the natural balance of bacteria in your gut.1

    Antibiotics are not able to distinguish between good and bad bacteria, so they can kill off the “friendly” bacteria along with the harmful bacteria.2 For example, antibiotics may kill the beneficial bacteria in our digestive system that help us break down food and absorb nutrients.3

    Reuterina® acute4 is a probiotic that can help fight the side effects of antibiotics and keep your gut in check. It contains Lactobacillus reuteri DSM 17938, a specific strain of bacteria that is clinically proven and can help prevent antibiotic-associated diarrhoea and improve gut health.

    Reuterina acute® has been clinically validated, with beneficial effects in a variety of health conditions including:

    Reducing diarrhoea within 24 hours and restores microbial balance

    Effectively treating diarrhoea by reducing the symptoms and duration of illness

    Helping to significantly reduce diarrhoea in adults with acute gastroenteritis

    Helping reduce lactose intolerance-related side effects

    Protecting and supporting gut flora to strengthen immunity

    Reuterina® acute

    Reuterina® acute helps restore and maintain a healthy balance of gut flora during and after a course of antibiotics.

    Taking Reuterina® acute alongside antibiotics can help you feel better and avoid the uncomfortable side effects of antibiotics.

    The Reuterina® family of probiotics are available from pharmacies nationwide. For more information, visit: reuterina.co.za and join the conversations on Instagram and Facebook.

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    References:

    National Library of Medicine. Update on the adverse effects of antimicrobial therapies in community practice. Available at: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7491661/. Last accessed April 2023.

    Learn Genetics. What is an Antibiotic? Available at: https://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/microbiome/antibiotics. Last accessed April 2023. 

    National Library of Medicine. Antibiotics as Major Disruptors of Gut Microbiota. Available at:      https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7732679/. Last accessed April 2023. 

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    Psychologists Say We All Need to “Detox” Dopamine–Here’s What You Need to Know

    I knew there was something wrong when I couldn’t take a hot girl walk without a podcast, meal prep without a YouTube vlog, or spend a Friday night at home without a Netflix binge. Realizing you can’t go a few minutes without checking Instagram, email, or Slack is a sad reality check, but one I desperately needed. With the rise of iPhone addictions and constant connection comes a wellness trend that promises to counteract. Dopamine detoxes are gaining popularity for their promise to erase–or at least help–the damage that technology can do to our mental health. Keep reading to learn the ins and outs of a dopamine detox: what it is, why it’s so appealing (and challenging), and how it could change your relationship with technology for the better.

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    What is a Dopamine Detox?
    Before we get into the detox, let’s talk about what you’re detoxing. Known as the “feel-good” hormone, dopamine plays a key role in our reward system and is released by the brain whenever we experience something pleasurable, causing us to pursue that feeling all the more. But our brains operate with greater complexity, and dopamine isn’t the only factor contributing to our mental and emotional well-being. Dr. Anna Lembke, a psychiatry professor at the Stanford University School of Medicine, noted in an article for TIME that because of digital media’s addictive nature, we’re experiencing a near-constant stream of dopamine release. To compensate, Dr. Lembke cited that our brains “downregulate our own dopamine production and transmission, to bring it back to baseline,” creating a dopamine deficit that can lead to symptoms of depression and anxiety. 
    Enter: the dopamine detox or fast. Created by California psychiatrist Dr. Cameron Sepah, the dopamine fast is based on cognitive behavioral therapy, a psycho-social intervention tool used to treat mental health conditions. According to Harvard Health, the goal of dopamine fasting is to allow yourself to lean into boredom and loneliness. Rather than looking for near-instantaneous solutions—and giving into the reward-inducing cues of modern stimuli (texts, emails, notifications, etc.)—we can experience a reset. In other words, we can regain a greater sense of control over our lives and are better equipped to address compulsive behaviors instead of living in a constant state of automatic response. Reaching for the things that provide us with a boost of dopamine is akin to living life on a hamster wheel, and taking an intentional reset to rethink unhealthy habits can boost productivity, creativity, focus, and (most importantly) happiness. 
    FYI, because the brain continuously produces dopamine, the term “detox” is misleading—we can never truly rid ourselves of the hormone. The goal is not to detoxify dopamine but to detoxify the external factors we’re subconsciously using for a dopamine boost. 

    How to Do a Dopamine Detox
    Each person’s approach to and experience doing a dopamine detox will look different (because “feeling good” looks different to all of us, and therefore the feel-good hormone will be different as well), but the goal is to make decisions from mindfulness, rather than impulse. think of it as a reset. Use the following steps to guide your detox:
    1. Identify the focus of your detox.
    In order to do a dopamine detox, you need to identify where the source of your compulsive behaviors is coming from. Depending on your needs, this can be anything from social media to video games to online shopping. Take time to reflect in your journal about what area of your life you’d like to address. For example, do you feel like you have to watch something on TV or on your phone whenever you’re eating? Do you check Instagram or TikTok every so often out of habit? 

    2. Structure your detox in a way that feels supportive, not restricting.
    The goal is to be aware of behaviors that are holding you back without being judgmental. TIME put it best: “If you keep your expectations in check, you may find that a digital detox is a useful tool for self-reflection.” In other words, the goal should be understanding your habits so that you can make positive changes in your life, rather than judging yourself for having them in the first place. Make a plan on what you want to practice and what boundaries you want to set with your technology. This can mean not engaging in one or multiple behaviors for a couple of days or limiting when and for how long you use them. Determine what feels right for you.

    3. Do the detox!
    Once you make a plan such as not using technology while eating or only checking your email twice a day, try introducing healthy habits in place of engaging in impulsive behaviors. For example, if you have a tendency to be on your phone during work breaks, try going for a walk instead. Or if your default is to watch hours of TV at the end of the day, pull out a book, or schedule a workout class. 

    My Experience 
    Because dopamine detoxes can target a range of behaviors, I chose to narrow down my approach to help focus my seven-day detox. Through journaling, I identified social media use, my phone in general, and email as compulsive behaviors I engaged in for that quick dopamine hit. These were my guidelines:
    I turned off all notifications on my phone and computer.
    I could only check email three times a day (morning, afternoon, and at the end of the work day) for a maximum of 30-45 minutes.
    My phone was turned off from 8 p.m. to 8 a.m. I could only check texts and any social media three times a day (morning, afternoon, and evening).
    For the sake of brevity, I won’t recount my (at times, harrowing) journal entries reflecting on the week-long experience. But I’ll share what I learned:

    It gets worse before it gets better.
    If you’ve done other kinds of detoxes before, you know this well. In many ways, when I reduced my consumption of my dopamine triggers, my craving became all the more pronounced in the first two days. But if you stick through it, you’ll find that your automatic inclination to reach for your phone every time you experience a moment of silence lessens.

    I experienced the joy of boredom.
    On that note, this is one of the first concrete benefits I noticed during my detox: I actually experienced boredom. Truly, I can’t remember feeling bored anytime after getting my first Motorola Razr in the 6th grade. Outside the windows when I could check my phone or social media, I was forced to get creative and tap into what I really wanted at the moment. Sometimes, it was reading while other times it was a silent walk. 

    I learned more about myself.
    Rather than distracting myself during these periods of quietness, I chose to look inward. I often turned to my journal and even revived my meditation practice to connect deeper with myself. While I understood it in theory, my dopamine detox provided the proof: The answers really do exist within ourselves.

    Being realistic is crucial.
    While some may say that you need to completely rid your routine of your triggers to experience the benefits of a dopamine detox, I’m of the opinion that being a little lenient with yourself (as well as the strict definition of “detox”) can lead to greater success and insight. Going into the experience with the goal and expectation of getting to know yourself better means that you don’t have to go cold turkey. Instead, take note of what feels realistic for your routine and structure your detox in a way that feels both supportive and expansive.

    Mindfulness is key.
    The biggest takeaway should be this: A dopamine detox—like anything we do for our mental and emotional well-being—is a deeply personal experience. Only you can identify what may be holding you back and the healthy habits you want to carry along your path of growth. A dopamine detox isn’t glamorous and it isn’t a quick-fix solution. Instead, it reminds us that everything is a juggling act between balance and priority. What I learned from doing a dopamine detox is that we can have our cake and eat it too—as long as we do so mindfully.

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    Gentle Nutrition: The Non-Diet Approach to Optimal Health and Happiness

    In a world filled with conflicting diet trends and rigid rules around what to eat, many women have turned to intuitive eating as a different way to approach their eating habits. But there’s a common misconception that intuitive eating means ignoring all nutritional advice on eating “whatever you want.” You don’t want to have strict rules and are so over yo-yo dieting, but you also want to eat healthy foods that make you feel amazing. Gentle nutrition is probably the piece you’ve been missing. This overlooked principle encourages you to enjoy meals that fuel your body with foods that bring both happiness and nourishment. Read on to learn more about this compassionate approach to eating and discover simple strategies for applying it to your life. 

    What is Gentle Nutrition?
    Gentle nutrition is the final step of the intuitive eating framework, which was developed by Evelyn Tribole, MS, RD, CEDRD-S, and Elyse Resch, MS, RD, CED-s, authors of Intuitive Eating: A Revolutionary Anti Diet Approach. This final step toward food freedom encourages individuals to make food choices based on a combination of nutritional knowledge and their body’s innate cues. Rather than micromanaging what you eat, gentle nutrition considers your desires, like having pizza with friends, along with your nutritional needs, like protein and fiber. This lets you live a life without restriction and also helps you feel your best. In other words, gentle nutrition means honoring how food makes you feel and what food you want. For example, it might look like having a salad with a slice of pizza to get a combination of phytonutrients, fiber, and joy on your plate. 
    Gentle nutrition doesn’t prescribe a one-size-fits-all approach to eating because it recognizes that everyone’s health needs and personal preferences are unique. Instead, it encourages you to ditch the diet mentality, skip counting calories, and throw out your food scale. By eliminating food rules, you’re better able to make healthy eating decisions based on your body’s needs and signals. 

    Is Gentle Nutrition Right for You?
    While gentle nutrition can be a transformative approach to nourishing your body, it’s not for everyone. Before diving into this eating style, it’s important to feel confident in the first nine principles of intuitive eating, such as rejecting diet mentality and honoring your hunger, which means knowing food and hunger are good things that your body needs to survive, and deserve to feel pleasure. These foundational principles create the framework to break free from diet culture and listen to your body’s needs. Mastering these principles will help you approach gentle nutrition from a place of self-love, honoring your health and your taste buds. Note: If you have a history of disordered eating, it’s recommended that you work toward gentle nutrition with a trained expert.

    How to Incorporate Gentle Nutrition Into Your Life
     
    1. Add, don’t subtract, foods
    The beauty of gentle nutrition is that no foods are off-limits and all foods are morally equivalent. However, you’ll likely find that having a box of cookies at breakfast or a bag of chips in the afternoon doesn’t provide the energy you need to feel your best throughout the day. Registered dietitian Megan Hilbert advises against completely swearing off certain foods like cookies and chips. Limiting or depriving foods can lead to bingeing or an unhealthy relationship with food. Instead, she suggests combining foods that you want but doesn’t make you feel good with more nutritionally-dense ingredients, such as healthy fats or protein, to create a more balanced and energizing meal.

    2. Opt for healthy meals that actually taste good
    It goes without saying that a balanced approach to eating doesn’t mean you can eat desserts all day. However, it also doesn’t mean eating bland chicken breasts and unseasoned veggies on repeat. The key here is finding balance, and one of the easiest ways to do that is by discovering healthy meals that actually taste good. This may involve enhancing your typical salad with toppings like dressing and croutons, despite diet culture’s labeling of these foods as “unhealthy,” knowing you’re also filling your body with amazing nutrients from the veggies, or if you don’t like salad, don’t eat salad. It could also look like adding your favorite veggies and protein to a cheesy pot of mac and cheese, transforming it into a flavorful and nutritious dish, or making nutrient-dense versions of your favorite foods like a cauliflower crust pizza or chickpea pasta. 

    3. Tap into your body’s hunger and fullness cues
    Diet culture undermines women’s trust in their own bodies, promoting the use of calorie-counting, macro-tracking, and food scales to determine what and how much to eat. While these tools can be helpful for some women, others find them exhausting and even harmful. So how do you really know how much to eat? Gentle nutrition encourages you to tap into your body’s hunger and fullness cues. Some days your body may need more energy and, in turn, will rev up your hunger. On other days, your body may need less energy, so your appetite will follow suit. Following these cues will help ensure you’re fueling your body with the amount of food that’s truly best for your body. 

    4. Focus on self-care, not self-control
    Gentle nutrition encourages you to reframe your relationship with food and make decisions on how to fuel your body from a place of self-care, not self-control. Nutritionist and intuitive eating counselor, Kara Lydon, encourages gentle nutrition practitioners to check in with themselves: “If practicing nutrition principles becomes rigid and the control you’re exerting is what’s making you feel good, it’s time to re-evaluate because that’s not the essence of gentle nutrition,” she said. 
    Consider how your eating habits make you feel. If they are rigid and you experience guilt when deviating from certain rules or nutritional guidelines, you’re not practicing gentle nutrition. However, if your eating habits feel balanced, allow for a variety of foods, and bring you joy instead of shame, you’re likely making food choices from a place of self-love.

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    How To Practice Sleep Syncing for Better Sleep and Energy

    If there’s one thing we can all agree on it’s that sleep is important—and that collectively, we’re not getting enough of it. I’ve been guilty of staying up too late to watch one more episode of the latest show, finish reading a chapter, or scroll through Tiktok without thinking about the consequences (lack of quality sleep). While I love a little self-care time at the end of a long day, I don’t ever want it to translate into a groggy, grumpy kind of morning that leaves me needing coffee in an IV to make it through the day. 
    According to the CDC, more than a third of Americans don’t get enough sleep (read: seven or more hours a day). Sleep is vital for our overall health, and sleeping less than seven hours a day can be associated with a risk of developing chronic conditions such as obesity, diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, stroke, and frequent mental distress. Even with the introduction of sleep-tracking devices like the Oura Ring or Apple Watch, we still don’t seem to maintain good quality sleep. Whether you stay up too late, wake up in the middle of the night, or never wake up feeling energized, there’s a new wellness trend that might be the answer to all your sleep woes. You’ve probably heard of cycle syncing, which is syncing with your infradian rhythm; sleep syncing is syncing with your circadian rhythm, and it’s promising everything from the best sleep of your life to optimal energy during the day. Read on for what sleep syncing is and how to try it for yourself. 

    What is Sleep Syncing?
    Sleep syncing is the process of aligning your sleep cycle with your circadian rhythm, or the internal clock your body follows. The circadian rhythm regulates your daily sleep, wakefulness, hunger, digestion, hormonal activity, and other bodily processes. It’s why natural light tells the body it’s time to wake up or having set meal times spark hunger. The circadian rhythm regulates the production of different hormones throughout the 24-hour cycle. In the morning when the sun rises, the body produces cortisol, which makes us feel alert and awake. In the evening, as the sun sets, the body releases melatonin, which makes us tired and ready for sleep. When the body is properly aligned with the circadian rhythm, it makes it easier to have a full and restful sleep, but when it is thrown off this schedule, problems arise. Enter sleep syncing. 
    Unlike the many sleep hacks out there, sleep syncing may be the most effective because it follows your body’s natural biological clock, which regulates the cycle of circadian rhythms. By following the tips for sleep syncing below, you’ll likely feel more rested throughout the day, say goodbye to the midday slump, and no longer reach for a caffeine fix the moment you wake up.

    How to Sync With Your Circadian Rhythm

    1. Wake up and go to sleep at the same time every day
    Many of us are pretty good at waking up and going to bed at the same time Monday through Friday, but the moment the weekend rolls around, anything goes. But bad news for your weekend sleep-ins or late nights out: if you’re varying bedtimes and wake-up times, the body can be unsure when you should be asleep and when you should be awake, so you may feel tired during the day and unable to sleep at night. By setting a sleep schedule such as 10:30 p.m. to 6:00 a.m., and sticking with it every day, you’re more likely to sync your sleep to your circadian rhythm, meaning having an easier time falling and staying asleep, and waking up feeling refreshed. Realistically, going to bed at 10:30 p.m. every single night probably won’t happen, but try to fall asleep and wake up within the same two-hour window as much as possible to sync with your circadian rhythm.

    2. Be mindful of light exposure
    For most people, sleep doesn’t happen as soon as your head hits the pillow. Setting your body up for a good night’s sleep plays a big role in sleep syncing. Start by ensuring all electronics are turned off and away from you at least 30 minutes before you go to sleep. Any light, including the light that comes from screens, can confuse your body’s circadian rhythm into believing it’s time to stay awake. Dimming all lights in the room can also help prepare the body for rest.
    On the flip side, getting sunlight first thing in the morning is a great well to tell your body it’s time to wake up and halt melatonin. Not only will this give you more energy and wakefulness during the day, but when the circadian rhythm halts melatonin and increases cortisol, it knows that about 12 hours later, it’s time to increase melatonin and decrease cortisol, improving your sleep. Open blinds first thing upon waking up, and try to get outside in the morning.

    3. Eat according to your circadian rhythm
    The circadian diet, which involves consuming all meals during a 12-hour window and fasting during the next 12-hour window, is one most of us intuitively follow in that we eat during the day and stop at night (eating too close to bedtime can disrupt sleep). The circadian diet also says that breakfast should be the largest meal of the day and dinner is the smallest, according to how our metabolism, hormones, etc. change throughout the day, thanks to (you guessed it!) the circadian rhythm.
    Whether or not you want to experiment with when or how much you eat to sync with your circadian rhythm, there are also foods that could be majorly affecting your circadian rhythm. Caffeine causes cortisol to spike, which is counterintuitive to our circadian rhythm if you drink it in the later afternoon (when cortisol levels naturally drop to prepare us to sleep at night). Everybody varies in their sensitivity to caffeine; some people swear they can have a shot of espresso right before bed and others get way better sleep when they avoid caffeine, even in the mornings. Experiment to identify when your cut-off should be to make sure that caffeine is not impacting your sleep.
    Aside from caffeine, there are other foods and beverages that can affect your sleep. Alcohol or spicy foods have been shown to disrupt sleep. Avoiding these before bed and opting instead for complex carbohydrates or a glass of tart cherry juice may be helpful for sleep syncing and improving sleep quality. 

    4. Exercise according to your circadian rhythm
    Exercising according to your circadian rhythm can also positively impact your sleep (they have a symbiotic relationship, just like food and sleep). Engaging in routine exercise is healthy and can promote a positive sleep cycle, encouraging strength and mobility while you work out. However, exercising too close to your bedtime can have a negative effect. Exercise is stimulating and can keep the body awake, so avoid any excessive heart-pumping activities at least 1-2 hours before bedtime. Instead, use exercise as a tool throughout your day to reorient your circadian rhythm and prepare for rest at the end of the day. 

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