“How I Lost Weight As A Working Mom”

It’s important to have a healthy pregnancy for you and your little baby. And while weight gain is a natural and necessary part of being pregnant, for Abigail Downs, the extra kilos brought on severe pre-eclampsia. Her body changed in ways she hadn’t anticipated. However she had a weight-loss plan. An unshakeable routine and conscious healthy eating was the game plan she needed to take to succeed. Here’s how she navigated a high-risk pregnancy and found her way back to the strong, healthy Abigail she always knew.

The Stats

Navigating Unexpected Health Challenges

While I’ve generally been pretty petite and active for most of my 20s I had multiple gym memberships and did a lot of running and weight training. I loved programmes like Kayla Itsines BBGand even stints at CrossFit. But pregnancy complications put a necessary halt to exercising. I developed severe pre-eclampsia, leading to extensive bloating, edema and significant weight gain. The day I gave birth, three months early at 28 weeks, I weighed about 88kgs. What followed were the hardest months of my life, as my son, Slade, remained in the hospital.

Unhealthy Food Choices

My diet became entirely convenience-based: quick carbs, takeaways, and emotional eating took over. I’d often skip meals, then binge, focusing little on nutrition and a lot on chocolate (pregnancy cravings, right?). Previously, even when I’d had patches of bad habits and defaulted to carbs, they hadn’t impacted me much. As a vegetarian for seven years, my diet sometimes swung between extremes – months of strict salads and then sudden binges on easy options like pizza and pasta. This time, however, the impact was undeniable, making my return to mindful eating and consistent movement all the more vital.

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The Road Back: Making Healthy Life Choices

The real turning point for me arrived as soon as Slade was born and in the hospital. I felt within myself that I was uncomfortable in my own skin – I couldn’t look at myself in pictures and the scale made me so upset every time I got on it. I had also had such a traumatic pregnancy that I wanted to start a new chapter feeling like the best version of myself so that I could be the best mother and wife to my husband and son.

My immediate goal was to change things. I started by consulting a dietician who helped me shed the initial 8-9kgs. She also encouraged me to run or go to the gym at least twice a week. While losing the weight was partly physical, it was deeply emotional. I felt completely disconnected from myself, I had such anxiety and felt stuck. I knew I needed to pour into myself again and get back to feeling good. Because I wasn’t used to being overweight, it really affected me mentally.

Simple Tips That Made My Diet Healthier

How To Maintain Lifelong Fitness?

I upped my protein and water intake a lot! 3L of water everyday without fail and lots of protein (whey and animal protein from white meat, I’m not a red meat eater). I eat more whole foods now, lots of veggies and low-GI carbs. I don’t restrict myself, but I stay intentional and make sure I know what’s in my food. I prefer to eat at home for that reason. I also stopped drinking alcohol.

Maintain Your Exercise Schedule

The most important thing I learned during my wellness journey is that there are no shortcuts. Things take time, and you just have to take it one day by day. And that consistency matters more than perfection. Showing up for yourself is what builds mental fortitude, even if it just means walking on the treadmill for half an hour; it’s better than nothing.

How To Start Exercising When You’re Out Of Shape

I walk or train 3 to 4 times a week (strength training minimum twice a week), always in the mornings. It’s become a non-negotiable form of self-care. I do Pilates on and off, and then I try to run twice a week. I’ve unfortunately had hip issues but I’m working through that and it seems to be getting better.

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Feel Good Benefits Of Weight Loss

I feel so much stronger and way more focused when it comes to most things in my life. I’m more confident and I show up better for myself and my son. My clarity and emotional well-being have improved drastically.

Exercise is a non-negotiable for me – it’s just become part of my lifestyle. I can run at a much faster pace than I ever thought, lift much heavier weights and am just so much fitter in general. I’ve gone down multiple sizes and my measurements are a clear indicator of weight loss.     

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Three Practical Tips To Juggling Motherhood, Career And Family

1. Prioritise Yourself And Protect Your Peace

Discipline, routine and protecting my peace is vital, and saying “no” when I need to are my go-to strategies. I’ve realised that having boundaries are the most important things you can do as a mom or someone with a busy career.

2. Leverage Your Support System

I’m lucky enough to have an extremely supportive husband who’s always there for my son and me. I truly couldn’t have achieved what I have without his constant support – from him doing the school run so I can have those 5 a.m./6 a.m. gym sessions, to give me time for self-care Saturday morning runs and coffee.

3. Embrace Strategic Planning

Confession: I’m a chronic planner with tons of to-do lists and mini-challenges I set for myself. My week needs to be planned to a certain extent, and I love to challenge myself to stay motivated (like a 10k-a-day step challenge or the 75-day soft challenge, which was definitely my toughest yet!). Also, if you are organised and pack your gym stuff the night before, make your lunch, plan your meals for a weekend away, you won’t fail.

Source: https://www.womenshealthsa.co.za/fitness/feed