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    How I Made the Leap From Full-Time to Freelancer Without Going Broke

    When I tell people I work as a freelance writer, the most common question I’m asked is about how I manage with an inconsistent income. The thing is, my income isn’t all that inconsistent. Yes, I make varying amounts of money each month, but generally, I know what range to expect and make consistently more than I would at a salaried job. This setup works well for me, but it took time to get here. 
    Making the leap to full-time freelancing is scary for anyone—no matter how much experience you have. I had a savings safety net in place, but I couldn’t help but worry about how fast those savings were going to dwindle. It’s very fair if you’re wondering how on Earth you’re going to pay for rent, food, and transportation. Not to mention the biggest money concern that all soon-to-be freelancers have—health insurance. 
    The good news is that with a lot of work and patience, I soon began to not only make as much as I did at my last full-time job but much more. The fears I had were reasonable, but I’m happy to report that I now know that my current income ceiling is so much higher than when I worked full-time. I’m not a big fan of gatekeeping career success—so here’s how I made the full-time to freelance transition without going broke.

    I Built A Freelance Resume
    While the experience you gain from having a full-time job does translate to being good at freelancing, many clients like to see that the freelancers they hire have experience working for themselves. This is understandable as the clients need to know that the freelancer they’re working with can manage to work with multiple clients at once, can work independently (for the most part), and can stay on top of deadlines without having a manager check in on them. 
    I freelanced consistently outside of my salaried jobs from 2015-2018 (the year I quit my last 9-5 job). Not only was I able to build up a portfolio that helps me sell my services to clients by doing freelance work on the side, but I built my network which made it easier to find more work when I was ready to freelance full-time. Starting from scratch with no salary or benefits on my side probably wouldn’t have worked out all that well for me. 
    I’d like to give a shout-out to The Everygirl for being one of my first freelance clients all the way back in 2016!

    I Found Clients Before Quitting
    Because I had a robust freelance network on my side, before I even put in my two-week notice, I arranged for freelance work. This led to a small amount of overlap between having a full-time job and working for myself, but it was worth working a few late nights on freelance projects to keep the transition from full-timer to solopreneur smooth. 
    I would highly recommend balancing a full-time role and freelance work for a few weeks before quitting your job. It takes a while to drum up work and get projects rolling—even after a client hires you, it can take weeks to get everything in order to start working together and even longer to get paid. By starting early while you still have a steady income coming in, you can really reduce your stress levels when you do start your first day as a full-time freelancer.

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    I Took on Part-Time Work
    Freelancing, side-hustling, consulting, call it whatever you want—work is work. Before I quit my job, I arranged a freelance job that was more like a part-time role as it required being available for 15-20 hours per week. Nowadays, I try to spread out my sources of income much more than this, but at the time, having much-guaranteed work was a game changer. I knew I could make enough money to pay my bills while I built out the rest of my freelance business, and I still had 20 or so hours a week to do that. Taking on a part-time role may feel like the opposite of freelancing, but doing so can make it a lot easier to focus on strategically building out other areas of your business. 
    If you’re always stressed about money, you’ll end up making desperate decisions when accepting new clients and rates. Having a steady stream of income until you have your feet firmly on the ground can be what stops you from having to return to a full-time job.

    I Had an Emergency Fund
    I can’t stress this enough—save and plan for freelancing. As I just mentioned, being stressed about money doesn’t do your freelancing business any favors. Having some money set aside in an emergency fund to help you fill in the gaps those first few months can buy you time, which is extremely valuable as a freelancer. It takes time to start a business—especially a thriving one. 
    An emergency fund can also be really helpful when waiting for your first paychecks to come in. I often don’t get paid for the work I do until 30 or more days after I submit an invoice for a project, so having money already waiting for me in the bank makes it so that I don’t have to sweat it if an invoice is a bit late.  
    If you’re unhappy at your job or are itching to start a new adventure, it’s hard to be patient. When my freelancing work started to pick up steam in 2015, I knew that’s what I wanted to do for a career, but I waited. It was a long and hard wait, but spending a few years building up my freelance business on the side, learning on the job at my full-time jobs, and building my savings are what made it possible to build a sustainable freelancing business that I get to enjoy today.

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    Wellness Girlies Are Raging about Sea Moss Gel—I Asked Experts If It’s Worth the Hype

    Just when you thought you’ve seen and tried every wellness trend, a new one pops up. If your algorithm on Instagram or TikTok is anything like mine, then sea moss has probably graced your screen a handful of times. You may have seen it as an added ingredient in Hailey Bieber’s viral $17 Strawberry smoothie from Erewhon or from people stepping into their “wellness era” by having a spoonful a day and sharing their experience on TikTok, but if you’re still wondering “WTF is it?!,” keep reading as I share whether or not it’s worth the hype. Of course, I turned to the experts to share all of the health benefits that this viral superfood has to offer and to find out if we should really be adding it to our wellness routines.

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    WTF is sea moss?
    Sea moss, otherwise known as Irish moss, may be a new phenomenon for many, but its healing properties have actually been common knowledge for those living on the coasts of North America, the Caribbean, and Europe. In fact, the Irish have actually used its nutrient-dense qualities as medicine since the 1800s, and Jamaicans have used it to make a creamy and delicious drink that they consider to be a “love potion,” as it is believed to increase libido. This superfood is a species of red algae and has a gelatinous consistency, making it very easy to turn into powders or pastes, easily blendable for smoothies, and a great agent for thickening foods and formulas. 

    What are the health benefits?
    Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but I’d like to think that we could all reach an agreement that sea moss doesn’t exactly scream this looks delicious. So the main motivator to incorporate this superfood is its nutrients and their benefits. “Sea moss may help support your immune system and your gut health, due to it being a good source of fiber and good bacteria,” explained Kylene Bogden, MS, RDN, a Sports Dietician and Nutrition Expert trained in functional medicine. As a strong source of fiber, sea moss is commonly used as a prebiotic. As an aid for creating more healthy bacterial growth, it can lead to better immunity.
    Jordan Dorn, a certified holistic nutritionist, agreed that the recommended daily intake (1-4 tablespoons, or 4-8 grams), contains essential amino acids, vitamin C, vitamin A, omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants, and 92 of the 102 minerals that our bodies need, including zinc, iodine, iron. And we can’t forget about the beauty benefits. The powerhouse ingredient is extremely rich in Taurine, a sulfur that contains amino acids, which, when ingested, can help the body to produce collagen.
    Of course, it is always important to consult with your healthcare provider first before adding any supplement or food to your diet, but the superfood may be more than just a TikTok fad, thanks to the extensive history of eating sea vegetables for health benefits in various parts of the world and how many nutrients sea moss packs in a small serving.

    What does it taste like?
    Unlike some superfoods that have a strong flavor that can sometimes overpower what you’re eating, like coconut or ginger, sea moss has a very mild taste. With that being said, the flavor is a little earthy and is very similar to seaweed or even oysters but is easily masked when added to smoothies, soups, or desserts. Whether you’re eating it raw, making a gel yourself, or purchasing a gel or paste at a store, the consistency is sticky and thick and can range from slightly crunchy to soft. 

    How do I add it into my wellness routine if I don’t want to eat it plain?
    1. Add it to smoothies or sauces
    When sea moss is in a gel or paste, it makes for a great addition to smoothies, sauces, or stews because it can also work as a thickener for a richer consistency. As delicious as Hailey Bieber’s Erewhon smoothie is (I had to see what the hype was all about), purchasing it for $17 is unjustifiable for many (and rightfully so). Here is a personal recipe I’ve used that’s easy, cost-effective, and delicious:
    3-4 dates, pitted
    1/2 banana
    1 tsp vanilla extract
    1/2 tsp ground cinnamon
    2 tbsp sea moss gel
    1/4 cup nut butter (I usually go for almond or cashew butter)
    1 cup of milk of choice

    2. Topically
    Good news if ingesting the sea moss sounds awful to you. “When applied topically, the amino acids boost your skin’s production of collagen, revealing firmer, glowing skin,” explained Lesley Thorton, holistic esthetician and the founder of skincare brand KLUR. “In skincare, it works as both a humectant and emollient, making it highly beneficial for all skin, especially individuals that are dry and easily irritated.” Since sea moss is so high in vitamins and minerals, it makes for a super-ingredient on the skin too, thanks to its anti-inflammatory and glow-boosting properties (and might even help conditions like acne, eczema, or psoriasis).

    3. Supplements
    If you’re a “texture person” or not a fan of the flavor, taking it in capsules is a perfect way to still take advantage of all of the health benefits of sea moss. Juliana Tamayo MS, RDN, a clinical dietician based in Washington, D.C., recommends Oweli’s Organic Sea Moss Veggie Capsules for those who’d rather take a simple route of incorporating supplements into their daily routine. If you don’t want to take a pill, a powdered version is a great option to add to any recipes without the texture of sea moss gel.

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    15 new Netflix releases in the UAE this August

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    by Sarah Joseph
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    Looking for some binge-worthy content this month? We’re here to help.
    From drama-fuelled series to movies that will have you on the edge of your seat, Netflix has an array of gripping TV shows and movies to keep an eye on.
    August 5
    Skyfall (2012)
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    Bond’s loyalty to M is tested as her past comes back to haunt her. Daniel Craig is back as Ian Fleming’s James Bond 007 to track down and destroy the threat.
    Carter – Netflix Movie
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    A man with no memory has to complete an action-fuelled mission. He comes across a new revelation throughout his journey.
    August 6
    Reclaim – Netflix Film
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    A retired woman in Taipei lives Yeh Lan-hsin begins to lose the sense of reality as family pressures weight on her.
    August 7
    Riverdale, season 6
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    This season will be a wild ride with magic, time travel and some major character deaths, with a new reveal in every episode.
    August 8
    Code Name: Emperor
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    An intelligence agent tasked with incriminating a squeaky-clean politician must decide if there are still some lines he won’t cross.
    August 10
    Bank Robbers: The Last Great Heist
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    Through candid interviews, the accused of Argentina’s most notorious bank heist share details of how they carried out the entire operation.
    Instant Dream Home – Netflix Series
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    In this home renovation series, deserving families get the surprise of their lives when their dilapidated house is transformed in just a few hours.
    August 12
    Never Have I Ever, season 3 – Netflix Series
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    A first-generation Indian-American teenager continues to establish herself in school and make her mark.
    August 17
    Look Both Ways – Netflix Film
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    On the night of her college graduation, Natalie’s life splits into parallel realities after she takes a pregnancy test. What will life and love bring?
    Royalteen – Netflix Film
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    A teenager struggles to keep her scandal-ridden past and a big secret from getting out when she strikes up an unlikely romance with the crown prince.
    August 19
    Glow up, Season 4
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    Ten new contestants test the limits of their creativity as they tackle a variety of challenges in hopes of becoming the next big name in makeup.
    August 24
    Selling The OC – Netflix Series
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    A fresh set of realtors square off, competing to establish themselves at The Oppenheim Group’s second office on the Orange County coast. Can these agents handle the pressure?
    August 25
    That’s Amor – Netflix Film
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    Love, romance, food, cooking class, what could possibly go wrong? Watch to find out.
    August 26
    Partner Track – Netflix Series
    [embedded content]At an elite NYC law firm, Ingrid Yun fights to make partner — and hold onto her principles — while balancing romance, friends and family expectations.
    Me Time – Netflix Film
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    When a stay-at-home dad finds himself with some “me time” for the first time in years while his wife and kids are away, he reconnects with his former best friend for a wild weekend that nearly upends his life.
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    How I got my job as… Founder of The TRUENUDE & Head of Marketing at FoodFund

    Welcome to the Emirates Woman weekly series ‘How I got my job as…’ where we speak to some incredible entrepreneurs and businesswomen both based in the UAE and globally to find out about their career paths that led them to where they are now; what their daily routines look like; the advice they’d give to those starting out; and the hurdles they’ve had to overcome.
    This week we chat with Nawel Aderghal, head of marketing at Foodfund International and Founder of THE TRUENUDE. In her marketing role,  Aderghal oversees some of the most well-known food and beverage concepts in Dubai –  SAN Beach Club, Clay and The Meat Co., just to name a few. Alongside her full-time role, Aderghal has founded her own fashion brand, THE TRUENUDE,  a project which she started to “fill my own needs”. Noticing there was nothing on the market to work as transitional streetwear pieces post-workout, the idea for THE TRUENUDE was born.
    Emirates Woman sat down with Aderghal to find out more about launching her own brand, her role at FoodFund International and how she’s able to balance the two.

    What was your favourite subject at school?
    My favourite subject at school was history and social studies. I have been always attracted to history and focusing on the people involved in history as well as human contributions that lead to historical events. Even if I did find it hard sometimes to understand because history involves looking into the past by reading texts and thinking tirelessly, trying to piece bits of historical data together. I love learning and discovering new languages, and cultures… I am kind of an explorer.
    What was your first job?
    My first job was when I was 16, I had the opportunity to do a paid internship with a National Bank located in the south of France. It was a great experience and an interesting introduction to the work industry.
    What eventually brought you to Dubai?
    I have always been fascinated by Dubai. Working in the hospitality industry and willing to make a career of it, it was clear to me that I would have to move to Dubai at some point.
    This hospitality sector plays a major role in the region. The opportunities to be part of a large group and have a successful career can only be offered in the Middle East. The hospitality sector of Dubai is considered one of the fastest-growing industries in the UAE and contributes almost 6.2% of the country’s GDP. A budding industry and emerging opportunities are two important factors for me. Within four years I have gained so much experience and learned so much. I am so grateful that I moved to Dubai much earlier.

    What inspired you to enter the fashion space?
    THE TRUENUDE actually started as a project to fill my own needs. Being a woman who doesn’t necessarily love to wear sweatpants or hoodies, I struggled to find my go-to layering options post-workout. I’ve had these thoughts floating in the back of my mind for a few years. I wondered for quite some time whether that void was unique to me but soon realized that there was in fact a significant opportunity to address women’s needs post-workout.
    Streetwear has evolved through the decades and has become a part of the fabric of everyday life. Through the influence of various subcultures such as activewear, athleisurewear, and urban wear, I decided to create a line for every woman’s every day, something that was dedicated to women which fit them in their daily routine. I want to encourage versatility and balance in women’s wardrobes, keeping their style contemporary while also being classic. Clothing is not only a necessity but a way to express yourself, elevate your confidence, and brighten up any mood.
    Talk us through the concept of THE TRUENUDE.
    THE TRUENUDE is a female-first brand inspired by Nature and earth tone colours, defining natural beauty and cultivating femininity amongst real women.
    The latest athleisure range to land in the region isn’t only an aesthetic concept, but a brand that explores the depths of women, going beyond the surface, prompting them to look within and celebrate their individuality.
    THE TRUENUDE provides a contemporary feel with a multi-faceted collection while integrating new and trend-driven designs, that showcase innovation, making each piece a ‘must-have’ for every closet. The collection includes interchangeable pieces in neutral color tones to ensure timeless classics that will last.
    The essence of the brand is to develop pieces that are versatile by incorporating everyday pieces that can be translated to workwear essentials as well.
    What are the key elements of your role at FoodFund international?
    As head of Marketing and communication for FoodFund international, the key elements of my role are;

    Creativity- by bringing a brand to life and introducing a new concept in a competitive market.
    Communication – by creating enough brand awareness around the brand and keeping up with a strong interest to visit the venue
    Budget – by having a great strategy aligned with the head office goals
    But in general, I would say Crafting strategies for all our venues, including Digital, Advertising, Communications, and Creative.

    Talk us through your daily routine.
    I’m normally awake before my alarm around 8-8.30 am and snuggle in bed for a few minutes.
    I jump into the shower and start my morning beauty routine. I try to stay away from the phone (texts, emails, and social media) for 1 hour or so, as I think self-care and “Me” time are so important before kicking a busy day.
    I then get ready and start with my phone, then emails and start phone calls. I usually have a busy morning with meetings and admin for group marketing and like to keep my afternoon free to visit the venues and work from there.
    Weekend and time off are usually dedicated to shooting and my clothing brand expansion.
    What advice do you have for anyone looking to follow in the same footsteps?
    I would like to advise anyone looking to follow in the same footsteps to
    Break big goals into smaller tasks, by defining goals and what needs to be done to accomplish them. To have a vision and be consistent is key.
    But as well Surround yourself with motivated people and stay focused. I have been blessed enough to join FoodFund International and be surrender with a great-minded leader and passionate team. They have always been a such great support and listen to ideas. Working with motivated people makes a difference, it becomes much easier to stay focused on your end goals. You’ll feel better about yourself. You’ll feel energized and motivated when you spend time with these people.
    What is the best piece of advice you ever received?
    Be audacious. Dare to explore. Be someone who shows new ways. It helped me to gain respect in the industry, network with like-minded professionals, and most importantly, build trust with my network. If I ever wanted something to be done, I had to jump from my comfort zone and challenge myself. Learning how to master a task and exploring new ways have helped me to grow and build my confidence.
    And what is the worst?
    I would say there are no bad pieces of advice. By seeking advice from different people you can develop smarter solutions to problems, deepen your thinking, and sharpen your decision-making. And by becoming a better adviser, you’ll extend your influence and learn from the people who come to you for guidance.
    What has been the biggest challenge you had to overcome?
    I believe the biggest challenge is being able to be on top of everything I do. Leading the marketing and communication for 18 home-grown brands in a busy industry such as hospitality, and launching e-commerce in the region while keeping up with the hard work has been a journey. I am proud to say that I found the right balance, and am super excited about the future. A few more openings have been announced, and we are thrilled to introduce new concepts in the region.
    What are the future plans for Foodfund International?
    We are set to launch a new concept called Loren, an Italian restaurant located at The Club, Palm Jumeirah. We are also about to embrace our first opening season in October for SAN BEACH. I have a really busy schedule for the next six months, a lot of ideas to share, and many collaborations to focus on.
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    10 Hacks Healthy Women Always Use While Grocery Shopping

    Every Sunday afternoon, I look forward to my weekly grocery run. Forget walls filled with colorful shoes–give me a produce section overflowing with ripe vegetables, and I’ll be raving about it all week. There is something about a grocery haul that leaves you not only full and satisfied for the week but also feeling accomplished.
    Don’t get me wrong, I was not always this girl. I used to dread grocery shopping. The lines, the overwhelming selection, and don’t get me started on the price of fruit. I would leave the store feeling like I spent too much money and had no meal plan to show for it. The good news? We’re here to change that. Read on for the hacks healthy women always use while grocery shopping. 

    1. Write a grocery list
    This might be the biggest saving hack when it comes to grocery shopping, and it’s so easy! Not only will writing a list save you from overbuying food that ends up being thrown out, but it will also help you determine what items you can use for multiple meals, especially if you are buying for just yourself. Simply figure out what you want to cook for the week and then see where items can be used more than once. Once you have that down, you’ll be saving money and food.

    2. Never shop on an empty stomach
    When your blood sugar drops, your body wants immediate relief. If that happens when you’re grocery shopping, it can mean adding more sugary and salty snacks to your cart that you probably don’t need. While we’ve all been guilty of this at some point, try to schedule your grocery shopping after you have eaten to avoid spending more money than you need. 

    3. Shop in season
    Our bodies naturally crave fruits and vegetables that are in season, and it’s important to honor that. In-season produce tastes better and is usually cheaper. If it’s summer, stock up on peaches, cherries, and other stone fruits that are sweet and provide extra energy. Or opt for vegetables such as peppers, cucumbers, and tomatoes that are great for a summer salad. In the winter, try citrus fruits, which are high in vitamin C and great for fighting colds and the flu, as well as vegetables you can add to soups, such as squash, sweet potato, and carrots. 

    4. Read the nutrition label
    The food industry is very good at hiding what they put into products, which is why it’s so important to read the nutrition label. When an item says “low sodium” or “sugar-free” on it, there could be other not-so-good-for-you ingredients lurking in them, like other forms of sugars or added toxins. If you are unsure about a product and can’t pronounce half its ingredients, see if there is a healthier alternative. The best part about the food industry today is that there are many alternatives. Stores such as Thrive Market or Whole Foods (while a little pricey) might have cleaner substitutes.

    5. Don’t underestimate frozen produce
    While I consider the frozen section one of the more indulgent aisles in the grocery store (frozen pizza and ice cream always call my name), it also contains some hidden gems, such as frozen produce. Of course, we love our produce fresh, but produce doesn’t always last through the week, so always having some frozen veggies and fruit on hand is a must (stir fry or smoothie, anyone?). Plus, they will keep for a long time, so you don’t have to worry about them spoiling anytime soon. 

    6. Opt for grass-fed and organic meat and dairy
    You know the saying, “You are what you eat?” Well, it couldn’t be any more relevant than when it comes to shopping for meat and dairy products. It may not shock you that not all animals are treated the same or fed just grass, which is why it’s important to select meat products thoroughly. Yes, it is more expensive to buy organic and grass-fed, but this is one of the areas most experts agree is worth splurging on. Read the labels and shop local if it’s available as well. 

    7. Know your splurges versus savings
    Like anything in life, there are areas where you splurge and areas where you save. When it comes to grocery shopping, this applies as well. Consider splurging on meat products, dairy, and the dirty dozen (the highest pesticide-sprayed crops, so you’ll ideally want to buy them organic). If you’re looking to save a little for the higher-priced organic options mentioned, buy seasonings as well as nuts and seeds in bulk. You can also save on canned goods and broths.

    8. Choose healthy and filling snacks
    I am a huge snacker. Mid-morning, later afternoon–you name it, I’m snacking. While you should always eat when you’re hungry instead of based on times of day (that’s called intuitive eating!), snacking can often mean packaged foods high in sugar, added toxins, and sodium. Plan ahead for snack time by buying healthy and filling snacks that will keep you satisfied. Some game-changers are hummus with crackers or vegetables, popcorn, mixed nuts, or greek yogurt with berries.

    9. Don’t overshop
    Figuring out portion sizes is never easy (I always struggle with pasta). And while we don’t want to have to make multiple trips to the grocery store because we didn’t buy enough, we don’t want to overshop either. Survey what you already have at home before heading to the store, and keep the mindset that less is more. While certain items can be kept in the freezer or last beyond their in-store expiration date, fresh produce has a shelf life, so make sure you are only buying what you need to reduce food waste and to only spend the money you need to.

    10. Shop for your body
    The world of health and wellness is full of many options, and when it comes to choosing items at the grocery store, it’s important to listen to your body above all other advice. Even foods that are considered “healthy” might make not make you feel good, or vice versa. Figure out what works and doesn’t work for your body and shop according to that information first and foremost.

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    All the Cool Girls on TikTok Are Obsessed with This Workout Clothing Brand, so I Tried It

    If you’ve spent any time on the Internet over the last few months, you’ve likely heard of Halara, the trendy new activewear brand that all the cool girls are wearing. Everyone swears their pieces are Lululemon quality without the Lululemon price tag, so I obviously had to try them out. I was nervous about buying without trying on since it’s an online-only company and I’m picky about the fit of my workout clothes, but the website had glowing product reviews and the TikTok girlies assured me the clothes lived up to the hype. With that in mind, I placed my order and eagerly awaited the arrival of my package (for about two long weeks). So without further ado, here are the best-selling items I tried from TikTok’s favorite inexpensive athleisurewear brand and my honest thoughts. 

    1. Everyday Dress
    This is one of the pieces I see all the cool girls wearing, and now I understand why. It combines all the things I love about some of their other pieces: It has a similar fit to the cropped tank, the comfortable fabric of the high-waisted shorts, and the form and function of the biker shorts. I don’t know that this would be a go-to gym fit, but it’s a great option for a hot girl walk, casual brunch, or quick game of tennis (or an attempt to play tennis, if you’re like me). It’s also an easy piece to dress up or down. I love that you can easily throw on a jacket or tie a flannel around your waist and swap your tennis shoes for sandals to completely change the look.  

    2. High-Waisted Pocket Shorts
    As someone who carries her weight in her legs and booty (I’m coming for your brand, Kim K), I’ve struggled with the way shorts fit me for as long as I can remember. With that in mind, I didn’t have high hopes for these, but they had plenty of five-star reviews from girls saying the shorts were comfortable and cinched their waists. They also looked great on the model, so I was interested to see if they’d work for me too. 
    While they were super comfortable and probably could have been worn as lounge shorts, they didn’t quite live up to my expectations. I prefer my shorts a bit longer so I feel covered while working out and to help avoid the dreaded inner thigh chaffing. The fabric is so thin and soft which feels amazing, but they do ride up and bunch easily. Also, the leg openings aren’t nearly as roomy as they look on the model. 5/10, would wear again, but not my #1 pick for tough workouts. 

    3. Ruffle Hem Shorts
    Let’s just say my relationship with these shorts is complicated. I actually liked the way these shorts fit better than the High-Waisted Pocket Shorts because they had a looser fit in the legs. But, dare I say… too loose? The baggier fit of these combined with the ruffle hem (which was originally the main selling point for me) made them feel more like sleepwear than workout wear. Halara does refer to these as “casual” shorts, which makes sense considering their fit, but since they weren’t included in their loungewear section, I hoped they could still be worn outside the house. This pair could definitely work for some people, but I’d stay away from them if you want to feel more covered up and put together while jumping around in your workouts. For lounge shorts, however, they are perfection. 

    4. Padded Tank Top
    I’ve never been one for the crop top life—even during my peak party girl days. But I’ve been loving the look of long-line sports bras lately, so I thought I’d finally give the trend a try. Lo and behold, I’ve found my new favorite workout top. It’s a little tight (I followed the size chart), but that just means it works well for more high-impact workouts and is supportive, despite not having adjustable straps. I find that the tighter fit also helps the top stay in place so you don’t have to worry about the hem rolling up while you’re moving around. 
    And the quality? Top-notch. I was fully expecting the removable pads to shift and fold like some of my cheaper workout tops, but they have stayed in place even after a few cycles in the wash. I was also impressed that the white fabric wasn’t see-through at all. Now I’m thinking I need one in every color. 

    5. High-Waisted Biker Shorts
    Call me Princess Diana because these shorts have become part of my everyday wardrobe. They’re as soft as the High-Waisted Pocket Shorts but are a little thicker, so they feel more substantial and can pass the squat test. What they don’t pass, unfortunately, is the roll test. I find that I have to pull them down frequently, but that could be because they’re a little tight and would be resolved if I sized up. For me, they’re tough to wear as workout gear for intense workouts like running or HIIT, but I’ve been loving them for walks, stretching, and on-the-go outfits. 

    6. Side Pocket Biker Shorts
    There’s something about these biker shorts that didn’t do it for me the way the traditional Biker Shorts did (but don’t get me wrong, I still liked them enough that I’ll be pairing all my oversized tees and sweatshirts with them). Even though I ordered both pairs in the same size, this pair fits much tighter, and they roll up more than the regular Biker Shorts. I also may or may not have ripped a seam or two pulling them over my legs and butt. What I do love about them, though, is Halara’s signature pet hair-resistant fabric. I wasn’t sure that it would make much of a difference, but as a cat mom, I’ll take all the help I can get. Since I’ll mostly be wearing these at home and for running errands, it’s nice that I don’t have to reach for a lint roller between cuddling my fur babies and getting groceries. 

    @arianalee99 I can’t take it off 😍 @halara_official #halaragirls #halaradress #halaraeveryday ♬ original sound – Samantha Clement

    The verdict
    I have to give it to the TikTok girls on this one. Halara’s quality, styles, and affordable price point make it a great alternative to Lululemon and Alo. My hope is that as the brand continues to grow, they show more diversity in body shapes and sizes in their models so mid-size and plus-size girls get a sense of how the pieces will fit. After some trial and error though, I was able to find some pieces that I feel good in and look forward to wearing during my next gym session or Target run. 

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    Sheikha Mahra Al Maktoum shares throwback photos with father Sheikh Mohammed

    Lifestyle

    by Team Emirates Woman
    2 mins ago

    Her Highness Sheikha Mahra bint Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum has shared a series of throwback photos with her father, His Highness Sheikh Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum, the Vice President and Prime Minister of the UAE and Ruler of Dubai.
    Having followed in the footsteps of Sheikh Mohammed, sharing his love for horses, Sheikha Mahra is also a keen rider.
    Taking a trip down memory lane, the Dubai Ruler’s daughter shared a series of photos of when she took part in horse riding competitions.
    In the first few snaps, His Highness is seen visiting his daughter at her respective stables. One photo shared by Sheikha Mahra showcases her father’s famous white G-Wagon with the ‘1’ number plate, as he visits his daughter during a riding session.
    Her Highness also shared photos from a separate riding event, where it appeared she had won a medal, along with some team members, at a competition. In the pictures, Sheikh Mohammed stood proudly next to his daughter and the other team members.
    Take a look at the sweet throwback snaps below.

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    I Asked an OBGYN All the Questions You Feel Too Embarrassed to Ask—Here Are Her Answers

    Women often have a lot going on BTS that we don’t think about unless something feels off. Many of us come up with excuses to put off going to see the doctor, whether it’s because we’re uncomfortable laying everything out there (literally) or afraid of the answers we might get. Long story short, going to the gyno isn’t exactly a walk in the park (anyone else shudder at just the thought of the scary-looking—not to mention, cold—speculum?). But we’re here to normalize regularly seeing your OBGYN if you have a vagina, as well as creating dialogue around all the topics related to female wellness.
    Enter: Dr. Alyssa Dweck, a practicing gynecologist in Westchester County, NY and advisor to Tru Niagen. From vaginal odor to birth control and everything in between, I probed (pun intended) Dr. Dweck on the most important questions to ask your OBGYN, and we left nothing off the table. Read on for her answers to questions you may be embarrassed to ask your own doctor.

    Meet the expert
    Dr. Alyssa Dweck
    Gynecologist
    Dr. Dweck provides care to women of all ages and has delivered thousands of babies. Voted “Top Doctor” in New York Magazine and Westchester Magazine, she has a special interest and expertise in female sexual health and medical sex therapy. Dr. Dweck is co-author of three books, including the newest release “The Complete A to Z for Your V (Quarto Press 2017),” and has appeared on The Today Show and Good Day LA. 

    1. What is my vagina supposed to look like? 
    While every vagina is unique (just like the person who it is a part of), Dr. Dweck explained what you can generally expect: “A healthy vagina, the internal canal, is typically a shade of pink, lush, sometimes glistening with normal clear fluid and with many folds called ‘rugae.’ The vaginal opening might have darker pigment and variable skin folds depending on history of childbirth, previous surgery, and/or sexual activity, for example.” Take a cue from Charlotte in Sex and the City and grab your trusty handheld mirror to get up close and personal with your vulva. 

    2. Is it normal to have vaginal discharge and odor? What causes them?
    Before you go down the Google rabbit hole, slow your roll. Dr. Dweck assured us vaginal discharge and odor are typically not causes for concern: “Most vaginas have a natural physiologic discharge made up of mucus from the cervix, vaginal fluid and cells, and cells/fluid from the uterus.” However, there are instances in which vaginal discharge and odor can raise red flags. “Infection with viruses, bacteria, and other microbes, including STIs (sexual transmitted infections), hormone changes, and/or external irritants, can disrupt the normal vaginal pH and microbiome and cause infection. In these cases, an atypical vaginal discharge or foul odor can occur.” The main takeaway? If you’re not sure and can’t decipher what’s what, it’s best to consult your doctor.

    3. Why do I have urinary or fecal incontinence, and what can I do to resolve it?
    If you experience loss of bladder or bowel control (AKA leaking urine or poop), you’re not alone (it’s more common than you may think). “Both can occur due to weak or relaxed pelvic floor muscles,” said Dr. Dweck. “Genetics, prior childbirth (especially for big babies or instrumented deliveries), and obesity may play a role.” So how do you address urinary incontinence? Dr. Dweck encouraged taking into account treating any underlying UTI (urinary tract infection), minimizing or eliminating caffeine (which can create urgency and frequency), practicing Kegel floor exercises, engaging with a pelvic floor physical therapist, and consulting with a urologist/urogynecologist for more intensive testing. “Similarly, for fecal incontinence, one may consider increasing fiber intake to bulk up stool, Kegel exercises, pelvic floor physical therapy, or seeing a colorectal or gastrointestinal specialist.”

    4. How many yeast infections or UTIs are too many? When should I see a doctor?
    One yeast infection or UTI is enough to send anyone into a frenzy. So how do you know when an OTC remedy will do the trick or it’s time to pay your doc a visit? “Recurrent UTI typically refers to greater than or equal to two infections in six months or three infections in a year,” Dr. Dweck clarified. “Recurrent yeast infection implies more than four infections per year. Both scenarios are best addressed by a HCP [health care provider]. Severity of infection is also a reason to check in with a HCP.”

    5. Why is it painful to have sex?
    PSA: Sex should only be pleasurable. So if you’re experiencing any discomfort between the sheets, seek help from your gyno or a pelvic floor therapist. As for what’s the culprit behind painful sex? “Painful sex could occur for a variety of reasons, including vaginal dryness, infection, hormonal changes, and mechanical or anatomic issues, such as fibroids, cysts, endometriosis, scar tissue, vaginal muscle tightness, and/or traumatic sex,” Dr. Dweck elaborated. 
     
    6. Can I have sex while I’m on my period? And is it possible to get pregnant during my period?
    While you may not feel the sexiest during that time of the month (there are ways to flip the script, BTW), if the mood strikes, Dr. Dweck gave the green light: “One can engage sexually while menstruating if comfortable and, in fact, period sex may relieve cramps or enhance pleasure for some. Precaution should be taken since blood-borne infection, including HIV, can be transmitted. It is possible, although unlikely, to get pregnant from sex while bleeding since some have irregular menses and unpredictable ovulation.”
     
    7. How do I determine what type of birth control is best for me?
    It goes without saying that birth control is a personal choice. It can be overwhelming and confusing to choose a birth control method that checks all the boxes for your needs and lifestyle. When deciding the best method for you, talk it out with your physician “[Determining the right birth control] is a shared decision made between patient and HCP based on menstrual habits, desired permanence of contraception or future fertility, medical history, and medications, lifestyle, and insurance coverage,” stated Dr. Dweck. “Keep in mind, condoms prevent against STIs while most other forms of contraception do not.”

    8. If my state outlaws abortion, what are my options for unintended pregnancy?
    In light of the reversal of Roe v. Wade, it’s no surprise there’s a lot of confusion and fear around reproductive health and abortion (it’s OK to feel all the feels, BTW). Whether or not you’re pregnant, arming yourself with information and resources from a trusted source (read: your OBGYN) is never a bad idea. But if you find yourself at a loss as to what safe recourse you have in the case of an unplanned pregnancy, Dr. Dweck pointed us in the right direction: “There are several online sites that will provide services, though travel may be required. Hey Jane is one example of a virtual clinic.” 

    9. Why can’t I have an orgasm?
    According to the Cleveland Clinic, only 10 percent of women easily climax. So if you’re part of the other 90 percent, Dr. Dweck shed some light: “This can be complex, but some reasons include not enough direct clitoral stimulation, pain during sex, medications (most notably antidepressants), medical conditions, prior surgery, or psychological factors.” Whatever the root cause may be, you can rest assured your OBGYN can help you find the solution that works best for you. Because we all deserve orgasms. 

    10. How do I talk to my partner about STIs/STDs?
    Sure, we can list a hundred things we’d rather do than get tested for STIs/STDs—let alone talk about them—but think of it as a form of self-care. And as awkward as it may be, Dr. Dweck emphasized that having a direct conversation about STIs/STDs with your partner is necessary. After all, you can’t go wrong creating a safe space for open and honest dialogue surrounding sexual health. It may just bring you and your SO closer and make the sex even better (talk about a win-win). 

    11. I feel lumps in my breast. How do I know if it’s something more?
    If you’ve ever done a breast self-exam, pat yourself on the back. Familiarizing yourself with “your girls”—from their appearance to how they feel—is a healthy habit to add to your wellness regimen. While breast lumps are common and most often non-cancerous, it’s nonetheless unnerving to find one (or more). So knowing what to look out for can help calm a bout of the jitters: “Lumps that are approximately 1 centimeter or larger are palpable,” Dr. Dweck pointed out. “A clinical breast exam with a HCP and imaging, including mammogram, sonogram, or MRI, are potential next steps.” During your next check-up, don’t hesitate to get some pointers on at-home protocols to maintain from your doctor. 

    Please consult a doctor before beginning any treatments. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical or mental health condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have read in this article.

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