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    So You’ve Been Laid Off—Here’s What to Do Next

    I thought my toxic habit of doom scrolling would disappear with quarantine. When it was no longer necessary for me to seek social stimulation through my screen—and I could connect with *real* humans in *real* life—I assumed my digital dependency would once again fall back into a healthy range. But this being the world that it is, political turmoil, Zendaya’s many red carpet slays, and The Bachelor hot takes all brought back The Endless Scroll™. But even with the appeal of these topics dangling in front of me, doom scrolling didn’t become relevant again until now—when an industry we once considered all but impenetrable was entirely upended.
    I’m talking tech, of course. The tech sector has seen a recent wave of massive staffing cuts at high-profile companies, including Meta, LinkedIn, and Microsoft. But these giants aren’t the only organizations turning to layoffs in an effort to cut costs—workforce reductions are happening across industries.
    If you’ve been impacted, know this: you’re not alone. And while the experience of being laid off can bring with it financial anxiety and emotional trauma, there are actionable steps you can take today to not only open up opportunities, but take care of yourself along the way.

    A low-down on the labor market
    In short, what’s happening in the labor market is a bit… confusing. And while some headlines might make you believe that a recession is imminent, there is still some promise of a strong labor market. Recently, The New York Times published an article analyzing industries who have seen the opposite. Amidst interest rate increases that analysts predicted would see higher unemployment rates, companies are reluctant to let go of workers. Why? Quoted in the article, Matt Notowidigdo, an economics professor at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business, said that the economic impacts of 2020 could play a significant influence in employers’ decision making.
    “‘When the economy came back very strongly in 2020, then a lot of firms were trying to hire again and they couldn’t […] That experience might still be sitting with people.’”
    That is to say, take heart: there’s reason to be optimistic about the labor market’s resilience. However, in an effort to cut costs, many companies are turning to layoffs. And while the tech industry accounts for many of them, tech-adjacent and non-tech companies are laying off employees as well.
    Beloved Millennial brand Everlane announced in early January that it would lay off 17 percent of its corporate workforce as well as cut staff in three of its 11 retail stores. A company we once assumed was impenetrable due to its pandemic- and remote work-fueled need, Zoom reported 1300 layoffs at the beginning of this month. Noom, Groupon, Spotify, and even influencer-favorite Ruggable have all been affected—and of course, countless more.
    Record-high inflation rates, the possibility of a looming recession, and a tumultuous stock market all seem to be contributing to the companies’ decisions. For the sake of brevity, I won’t be diving into the complexities of why recent layoffs have disproportionately impacted tech workers. However, much of it dates back to how the industry was built and initially funded. The New York Times did an incredible deep-dive, building a comprehensive timeline and backstory on what’s taking place now.

    What to do if you’ve been laid off
    Many of us, early in our career journeys, are experiencing the impact of being laid off well before we could get comfortable as a young professional. (If you haven’t experienced it yet, the transition from college to work life is jarring!) After the initial shock wears off, you’re likely wondering: what do I do now? Below are resources, tips, and tangible advice to support you professionally and financially, and to help you take the best care of yourself right now.

    What to do: professionally

    Review your documents and benefits
    1. Review your documents and benefits. When you’re laid off, you’ll receive an official letter from your employer. Review this and any initial contracts you signed when joining the company. Reviewing these documents gives you a full scope of your rights as an employee—including severance pay and benefits like unused PTO/sick time. Tip: Talk to other employees who have been impacted to understand what others are receiving and asking for. This can help you in negotiations (that’s right, negotiate!).

    Request a letter of recommendation
    This is a key next step to help you in your job search. Ask your supervisor and/or department lead if they would be willing to write a letter of recommendation for you. In their letter, they’ll speak to your work ethic, skills, and any major accomplishments you contributed to the organization. For more on asking for references and letters of recommendation, check out our guide.

    Update your resume
    Of course, you’ll want to include your most recent experience at this company. However, now could be the best time to give your resume a complete overhaul. (That’s right, the resume-building tips you learned in college might not cut it anymore.) For what really to include in each section of your resume, read this.

    What to do: financially

    File for unemployment
    This is perhaps the obvious, but most daunting part of the financial process post-layoff. Filing online is going to be the (relatively) easiest approach. File an unemployment claim with your state—a simple google search of your state name and “unemployment” will get to the right page. If you’ve never filed before and aren’t sure where to start, usa.gov provides comprehensive resources tailored to your situation and state.

    Get your health insurance squared away
    If your employer provided your health insurance, you’ll need to research alternatives. If possible, discuss your options with the organization’s HR lead. Temporary insurance options include:

    Make any necessary spending changes
    Now is the time to review your budget. As you begin cutting your spending costs, first identify the obvious luxuries. Food delivery, any subscriptions you don’t use, clothing, meals and drinks out, etc. You’re likely experiencing a lot of financial shock, so don’t overwhelm yourself. Pare back to necessities and look for ways you can shift your lifestyle as a result. Opt for Netflix with your girlies in lieu of a GNO. Take up cooking as a hobby and challenge yourself to get creative with what you have. There are many ways that reducing your spending can create opportunities for change and growth in your life.

    What to do: self-care

    Create a space for your feelings
    I’ll say it again: what just happened to you is a shocking—and for many people—traumatic experience. Layoffs take place through no fault of your own, and it can be overwhelming to take in the event itself and the many ways it’ll change your life in the short term. You’re allowed to feel those feelings. You’re allowed to cry in a safe space. You’re allowed to pour your heart out in your journal or take your time snuggling up on the couch in your pajamas.

    Rest today, make a game plan tomorrow
    Similar to the tip above, it’s important to give yourself the time and space to rest. With the emotions this experience has brought up, you’re likely feeling a lot of adrenaline and having a difficult time processing your emotions. The best advice? Pause. Now’s not the time to make any drastic decisions and you don’t have to take any significant steps in the immediate aftermath. For right now, work through what happened, lean into your emotions, and recognize that you’ve been through something extremely challenging. Tomorrow, you can start crafting your plan forward.

    Seek out support
    The upside of these sweeping layoffs? Many people know what you’re going through. If you feel comfortable talking to other employees who were affected, reach out. It can be supportive and reassuring to know that you’re not alone in your feelings. Similarly, give your parents a call or send a trusted friend a text. Actively receiving the love and support that’s all around us can help us heal.

    Re-engage with something meaningful
    You’ll likely have a lot more free time than you’ve had in the recent past. Take advantage of it! And no, I don’t mean start pouring everything you have into a side hustle. Reconnect with a hobby you haven’t picked up in years. Or, start making progress on your TBR list. Get in the habit of taking long walks to gain a new perspective on your city. There are endless ways to find meaning in our lives outside of what we do. Start getting in the practice of prioritizing these things today.

    Take care of you
    It can’t be emphasized enough. You are still and always deserving of self-care and love. Brainstorm a list of things you can do to show yourself that love each day. Maybe it’s making a nourishing meal, getting dressed even though you don’t feel like it, or taking a long bath. Whatever feels supportive to you, be sure to do it daily. Things may be difficult now, but trust me: as someone who’s been where you are, it does get easier. And simultaneously, you get stronger.

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    Louis Vuitton’s popular City Guide series now travels to Dubai

    Lifestyle

    by Ruman Baig
    23 mins ago

    Owing to its diverse origins and cosmopolitan energy, French luxury design house, Louis Vuitton picked Dubai as the first Middle Eastern city to bring the nomadic City Guide Series to life.
    Since 1998, the brand has created a coveted collection of guides with over 30 cities cataloged in both print and digital formats. As the sweet spot between Asia and the West, Dubai is rightly positioned as the kaleidoscope of cultures—making it the perfect addition for Louis Vuitton.
    “Once a small village of pearl divers and fishermen, Dubai is now a global business hub as well as a multicultural destination that is home to over 200 nationalities combining the best of all worlds to deliver exceptional experiences and an outstanding quality of life. The city is evolving and growing at a fast and healthy pace,” shared the brand in the official statement.

    For every City Guide, Louis Vuitton invites local writers and guests to share their insights on the most charming boutique, gourmet restaurants, bistros, antique shops, designer hubs, museums and unmissable secret spots that aren’t known to many.
    From fine-dining gastronomy experiences to local hidden gems—the Dubai City Guide brings all the global flavours to your plate and in your glass. While the city is known for its gravity-defying architectural wonders and its technological advancements, the City Guide series will give you a peek beyond the obvious tourist attractions. It caters equally to the locals as it does to the passing travellers—whether it’s the bustling street markets or the upscale shopping scenes, there’s something for every segment.

    To commemorate the moment, Louis Vuitton has installed a terracotta pink pop-up kiosk at the International Financial Centre (DIFC). Inspired by the traditional Parisian newspaper, this kiosk also reflects the Pantone colours used in the Dubai City Guide.
    Shoppers will also get to pick all the other Louis Vuitton City Guides, including the Dubai City Guide, which is priced at $46 (Dhs169)  and can also pick it up from bookstores around the world or download it from the City Guides App. Located at Gate Village in DIFC, the pop-up will be open for public viewing from 11am to 11pm, until the 17th of March 2023.
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    Start Your Wellness Journey and Improve Your Lifestyle

    Feeling overwhelmed with the idea of starting your wellness journey? When it comes to improving your lifestyle, it’s important to start off on the right foot and celebrate every small win.

    With the fast pace of modern life and the demands that come with it, taking charge of your health and wellness can be daunting, especially if you’re trying to do it on your own. That is why Momentum Multiply partners with you on your journey to better health.

    Here are five tips to help you achieve real gains in your healthy lifestyle journey and have fun while doing it:

    1. Get moving with an activity you love

    This makes it easier to stay motivated and stick to a routine.

    2. Set realistic goals

    Listen to your body and avoid straining yourself by doing too much too soon. For example, you can start with a goal of completing 30 minutes of physical activity three days a week. Multiply members can access the Multiply app for customised weekly goals and tangible rewards when they achieve these goals.

    3. Tap into fitness tools

    Tracking and recording your progress with fitness tools will help you stay motivated and keep track of your accomplishments. It can also empower you to be more aware of your habits and areas of improvement. Multiply guides and encourages members to improve the way they eat, sleep, breathe, move and connect in a seamless digital experience.

    4. Constantly challenge yourself

    As a Multiply member, you get to participate in health challenges with your peers and stand a chance of winning not just bragging rights but tangible rewards.

    5. Make it a date with yourself!

    Much like the pay-yourself-first approach to saving, blocking off or scheduling time for your health and wellness is key to making your goals a priority. Set a reminder for that 5-minute meditation or half an hour run. Go on, invest in yourself!

    Momentum Multiply is not just a wellness rewards programme.

    We have an innovative approach to wellness focusing on helping you achieve your health goals in fun and engaging ways.

    We believe that your overall wellness is the greatest reward and we reward you based on changes you make to improve your overall health.

    We understand that small efforts every day can lead to big long-term health wins.

    Whether you’re just starting out on your journey or you’re a seasoned pro, Multiply is there with you every step of the way. Whether it’s dancing, hiking, or hitting the gym, find an activity that you genuinely enjoy doing.

    Sticking to the same fitness routine can start to feel boring and leave you feeling unmotivated. That’s why it’s essential to challenge yourself regularly and mix things up.

    Speak to your financial adviser or visit multiply.co.za to start your journey and unlock the priceless value of good health. More

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    20 Quick and Healthy Lunches You Can Make on Your Busiest WFH Days

    One of the greatest work-from-home perks is not having to pack a lunch or worry about reheating leftovers in the break room. Those days are behind me, and I could not be more relieved. I love that I am able to make whatever I want with my fridge and pantry in close proximity, but that doesn’t mean that I want to spend a lot of time in the kitchen. My mid-day priority is making quick and healthy work lunches that aren’t totally boring and that will power me through the rest of my day.
    When I come across lunch ideas that meet those criteria, I become a total lunch repeater, so I am constantly looking for new ideas to add to my rotation of favorites. With that being said, I have scoured the internet to find 20 quick and healthy work lunches for those of you who need to switch it up or are in need of a little bit of inspiration for when you’re working from home.

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    Source: Cooking Classy
     

    Source: Plated Cravings

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    Source: Rachel Mansfield

    Source: Eat the Gains

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    Source: Family Food on the Table

    Source: The Movement Menu

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    Source: Eat the Gains

    Source: This Healthy Table

    Source: Cookin Canuck

    Source: Simply Quinoa

    Source: Skinny Taste

    Source: Ambitious Kitchen

    Source: Joyful Healthy Eats

    Source: Simply Quinoa

    Source: Skinny Taste

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    All About The New Non-Surgical Vaginal Rejuvenation Therapy

    Vaginal dryness affects many women, especially women in their post-menopausal phase. The result? Less pleasurable or even painful sex and overall discomfort down there.

    According to the Women’s Health Organisation, 58% of post-menopausal women experience a lack of natural lubrication, the hallmark sign of vaginal atrophy – the thinning and inflammation of the vaginal walls, often due to a decline in oestrogen. It can affect other women too, who are on medication or struggling with thyroid issues.

    “Vaginal atrophy is also very commonly seen in patients who have had cancer treatment and patients with low oestrogen.”
    Amy Knoetze, the national distributor for AQ Skin Solutions in South Africa.

    The knock-on effects include discomfort during intimacy, the loss of desire and even urinary symptoms like persistent UTIs. 

    Vaginal rejuvenation therapy is one avenue to explore if you’re struggling with vaginal atrophy, and it doesn’t have to be surgical or involve the use of hormones (in the form of hormone replacement therapy), either. For one, AQ Skin Solutions, the same brand that offers a treatment rivalling the vampire facial, uses the same growth factor technology for vaginal rejuvenation.

    The AQ Vaginal Rejuvenation System

    AQ Skin Solutions Vaginal Rejuvenation System (VRS) is a clinically proven solution for vaginal rejuvenation. Using Growth Factor technology, VRS works to relieve vaginal dryness, soothe irritation and improve elasticity. The latter can help tighten the vaginal walls in a way that may enhance intimacy as well as female arousal.

    Um, what are growth factors?

    Growth Factors are highly specialised proteins naturally produced by your body. They’re also “message carriers” with an important job to do – telling other cells to multiply, regenerate and regulate. This is why they’re so useful in skincare. They can instruct your body to do specific beneficial things, like rev up its collagen production to protect and improve your skin’s elasticity. 

    In regards to VRS, AQ Skin Solutions have used a proprietary elixir of all-natural growth factors to create a solution that isn’t just another lubricant. Instead, it helps restore your vagina’s natural lubricating ability while increasing the collagen and elastin within the walls to firm and tighten to your genetic potential.

    “It is important to note that AQ VRS performs better than hormonal treatment for vaginal rejuvenation and is a completely hormone free option,” says Amy. “Many women don’t want HRT (hormone replacement therapy) as it may pose a risk for heart disease and breast cancer so they resign themselves to the idea that a particular part of their life is over. But it doesn’t have to be – VRS is literally changing lives.”

    How it works

    “This is a discreet at-home treatment that restores the function of the vagina and resets the PH to a healthy PH,” explains Amy. The therapy comes in little tubes that are every second evening after bathing, just before bed. Within six weeks, you should see and feel results. “Because of all of the new blood supply in the area, patients often report an increase in sexual arousal and heightened sensation. This is a bonus side effect!” says Amy.

    To try out the system, get in touch with AQ Skin Solutions in South Africa via Instagram or Facebook. More

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    Supporting Your Partner Through Erectile Dysfunction

    Often defined as the inability to maintain an erection firm enough for satisfying action between the sheets, erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common problem experienced by a third of men over the age of 40. Research often cites social habits such as smoking and alcohol as some of the culprits that contribute to ED. Though life-altering, ED itself is not fatal – but can indicate a more serious condition like heart disease.

    30% of men over 40 will experience erectile dysfunction.

    A Health Case

    Quick biology recap: Coronary heart disease takes place when plaque builds up and blocks the arteries, reducing blood flow to the heart and impacting the functioning of blood vessels. This restriction usually hits the blood vessels of the penis first. However, it’s easy to overlook the medical implications at first. “ED has negative psychological outcomes for men. They see it as humiliating or something that lessens their status as a man. The men who visit my practice often think they’re not worthy of attention and that their ED is just a normal part of the ageing process,” explains Dr Heather Blaylock, a medical doctor with a special interest in sexual health. She adds that the partners of men who suffer from ED may feel unattractive, unwanted or guilty. 

    S Is For Support 

    “Partner support during treatment is also very important for better outcomes,” urges Dr Blaylock. If you’re not sure what that looks like, she gives this advice on how to be there for your significant other: 

    Encourage your partner to see a doctor so that they can be screened for underlying disease and potentially prevent a critical cardiac event in the future.

    Occasional difficulty maintaining an erection is totally normal. However, ongoing and untreated erectile dysfunction can impact a man’s self-esteem – and his personal relationships. Make extra effort to bolster his self-worth.

    The silver lining: ED meds have evolved and there are plenty of options available. “Treatment options include a group of drugs known as PDE5-inhibitors. These include tadalafil, sildenafil and vardenafil. PDE5 medication not only improves sexual function and satisfaction but also improves the relationship,” says Dr Blaylock. But be prepared for the possible side effects too, which may include flushing, headache, nasal congestion and indigestion. 

    Newer generic medications that have made the treatment of ED more accessible and affordable to more South African men are also available.

    Normal sexual stimulation is still required for arousal, even with your partner on ED medication. 

    With this info in mind, remember to broach the subject with kindness and understanding. Your partner feels vulnerable, so be sensitive. 

    “Everyone wants a cure but there is no magic cure. However, men should not suffer in silence as there are many safe options available,”  
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    Experience this authentic midweek Greek-style ladies’ night at the Palm ASAP

    Lifestyle

    by Team Emirates Woman
    2 hours ago

    IN PARTNERSHIP: Looking for a way to spend an early weekend every Wednesday? Myrra Restaurant has you covered with its chic ladies’ night.
    Boasting a unique experience in Dubai, this chic hidden gem promises an unforgettable evening where the secret oasis of Agora awaits.

    With a special discounted menu, women can feel at home and indulge in a myriad of dishes where Agora’s menu at the restaurant marries the flavours of Greece. With a plethora of mouth-watering dishes including zesty salads, fresh seafood and mouth-watering grilled meats, this heartful cuisine adds a modern twist to traditional ingredients. Varying from Sea Break Carpaccio to Avocado Hummus and Pineapple Carpaccio for the sweet tooth.
    To complement the menu, women can choose from a selection of cocktails, grape and soft drinks to ensure each Wednesday is a memorable evening. Amplified by delectable food and a serene beachside environment, this female-centric concept comes alive in a whimsical setting.
    What started as a center of all social and political activity in Greece amid a bygone era with free-flowing conversation from morning until evening has now been translated into an inviting space known as feminine assembly to put women at the forefront. Introduced to take over the traditional Greek male locale, this concept uplifts women from all spheres and brings like-minded women together in a relaxing environment.

    Located at Club Vista Mare, Palm Jumeirah, this exclusive evening takes place every Wednesday from 7pm onwards with a menu priced at Dhs199. From now onwards you never need much of an excuse to catch up with the women.
    To make a reservation visit myrrarestaurant.com or call + 971 4 770 1433.
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    Elevate the art of tea-drinking at the world’s first tea majlis by Newby in Abu Dhabi

    Lifestyle

    by Team Emirates Woman
    60 mins ago

    IN PARTNERSHIP: Newby Teas brings a bespoke concept to the heart of Abu Dhabi for all tea enthusiasts.
    Savour an authentic Middle Eastern style experience, as the brand has opened its first-ever Tea Majlis in Abu Dhabi for an unforgettable experience. Embark on a tea journey to discover blends from around the world in this one-of-a-kind tea haven.
    Reminiscent of the social gathering in Emirati culture, this exclusive Tea Majlis invites guests to discover speciality teas, rare teas and Ultra-rare teas. Rare teas like Delicate Oolong from the misty mountains of Taiwan, and Ultra-rare Teas like Gulshan, a blend of rare black and green tea are a few of the blends offered in this tea haven transporting customers to the finest tea estates around the world.

    With this beloved brew seen in many forms, this most awarded luxury tea brand brings a unique concept to the table with the first majlis. Born to represent an opulent oasis amidst the hustle and bustle of the city, the tea majlis has been initiated with a clear mission to reintroduce quality tea and revive the world’s love for it.
    Designed with fine attention to detail, visitors can witness the sophisticated pieces in the new boutique on display. From the Victorian-era antique silverware on display to the hand-painted tea cups, pure amber tea ware, and art from the exclusive Chitra Collection, each element is carefully selected to complement the theme.
    As an homage to the country’s rich history, this one-of-a-kind immersive experience, each and every element within the majlis has been curated to embody the glory of tea culture in history.

    For a limited-edition blend, visitors can purchase the newly offered Romance tea which is a testimony to the grandeur of ancient tea culture.
    So, make an appointment at the latest boutique for a luxurious tea experience unlike ever before. Newby’s Tea Majlis is located in Abu Dhabi at the Nation Towers, Level 1, with operating hours from 10am to 10pm daily. To book the majlis, please contact boutique_ad@newbyteas.ae or contact +971 50 3754 609
    For more information visit newbyteas.com
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