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    So You’ve Been Laid Off—Here’s What to Do Next

    I thought my toxic habit of doom scrolling would disappear with quarantine. When it was no longer necessary for me to seek social stimulation through my screen—and I could connect with *real* humans in *real* life—I assumed my digital dependency would once again fall back into a healthy range. But this being the world that it is, political turmoil, Zendaya’s many red carpet slays, and The Bachelor hot takes all brought back The Endless Scroll™. But even with the appeal of these topics dangling in front of me, doom scrolling didn’t become relevant again until now—when an industry we once considered all but impenetrable was entirely upended.
    I’m talking tech, of course. The tech sector has seen a recent wave of massive staffing cuts at high-profile companies, including Meta, LinkedIn, and Microsoft. But these giants aren’t the only organizations turning to layoffs in an effort to cut costs—workforce reductions are happening across industries.
    If you’ve been impacted, know this: you’re not alone. And while the experience of being laid off can bring with it financial anxiety and emotional trauma, there are actionable steps you can take today to not only open up opportunities, but take care of yourself along the way.

    A low-down on the labor market
    In short, what’s happening in the labor market is a bit… confusing. And while some headlines might make you believe that a recession is imminent, there is still some promise of a strong labor market. Recently, The New York Times published an article analyzing industries who have seen the opposite. Amidst interest rate increases that analysts predicted would see higher unemployment rates, companies are reluctant to let go of workers. Why? Quoted in the article, Matt Notowidigdo, an economics professor at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business, said that the economic impacts of 2020 could play a significant influence in employers’ decision making.
    “‘When the economy came back very strongly in 2020, then a lot of firms were trying to hire again and they couldn’t […] That experience might still be sitting with people.’”
    That is to say, take heart: there’s reason to be optimistic about the labor market’s resilience. However, in an effort to cut costs, many companies are turning to layoffs. And while the tech industry accounts for many of them, tech-adjacent and non-tech companies are laying off employees as well.
    Beloved Millennial brand Everlane announced in early January that it would lay off 17 percent of its corporate workforce as well as cut staff in three of its 11 retail stores. A company we once assumed was impenetrable due to its pandemic- and remote work-fueled need, Zoom reported 1300 layoffs at the beginning of this month. Noom, Groupon, Spotify, and even influencer-favorite Ruggable have all been affected—and of course, countless more.
    Record-high inflation rates, the possibility of a looming recession, and a tumultuous stock market all seem to be contributing to the companies’ decisions. For the sake of brevity, I won’t be diving into the complexities of why recent layoffs have disproportionately impacted tech workers. However, much of it dates back to how the industry was built and initially funded. The New York Times did an incredible deep-dive, building a comprehensive timeline and backstory on what’s taking place now.

    What to do if you’ve been laid off
    Many of us, early in our career journeys, are experiencing the impact of being laid off well before we could get comfortable as a young professional. (If you haven’t experienced it yet, the transition from college to work life is jarring!) After the initial shock wears off, you’re likely wondering: what do I do now? Below are resources, tips, and tangible advice to support you professionally and financially, and to help you take the best care of yourself right now.

    What to do: professionally

    Review your documents and benefits
    1. Review your documents and benefits. When you’re laid off, you’ll receive an official letter from your employer. Review this and any initial contracts you signed when joining the company. Reviewing these documents gives you a full scope of your rights as an employee—including severance pay and benefits like unused PTO/sick time. Tip: Talk to other employees who have been impacted to understand what others are receiving and asking for. This can help you in negotiations (that’s right, negotiate!).

    Request a letter of recommendation
    This is a key next step to help you in your job search. Ask your supervisor and/or department lead if they would be willing to write a letter of recommendation for you. In their letter, they’ll speak to your work ethic, skills, and any major accomplishments you contributed to the organization. For more on asking for references and letters of recommendation, check out our guide.

    Update your resume
    Of course, you’ll want to include your most recent experience at this company. However, now could be the best time to give your resume a complete overhaul. (That’s right, the resume-building tips you learned in college might not cut it anymore.) For what really to include in each section of your resume, read this.

    What to do: financially

    File for unemployment
    This is perhaps the obvious, but most daunting part of the financial process post-layoff. Filing online is going to be the (relatively) easiest approach. File an unemployment claim with your state—a simple google search of your state name and “unemployment” will get to the right page. If you’ve never filed before and aren’t sure where to start, usa.gov provides comprehensive resources tailored to your situation and state.

    Get your health insurance squared away
    If your employer provided your health insurance, you’ll need to research alternatives. If possible, discuss your options with the organization’s HR lead. Temporary insurance options include:

    Make any necessary spending changes
    Now is the time to review your budget. As you begin cutting your spending costs, first identify the obvious luxuries. Food delivery, any subscriptions you don’t use, clothing, meals and drinks out, etc. You’re likely experiencing a lot of financial shock, so don’t overwhelm yourself. Pare back to necessities and look for ways you can shift your lifestyle as a result. Opt for Netflix with your girlies in lieu of a GNO. Take up cooking as a hobby and challenge yourself to get creative with what you have. There are many ways that reducing your spending can create opportunities for change and growth in your life.

    What to do: self-care

    Create a space for your feelings
    I’ll say it again: what just happened to you is a shocking—and for many people—traumatic experience. Layoffs take place through no fault of your own, and it can be overwhelming to take in the event itself and the many ways it’ll change your life in the short term. You’re allowed to feel those feelings. You’re allowed to cry in a safe space. You’re allowed to pour your heart out in your journal or take your time snuggling up on the couch in your pajamas.

    Rest today, make a game plan tomorrow
    Similar to the tip above, it’s important to give yourself the time and space to rest. With the emotions this experience has brought up, you’re likely feeling a lot of adrenaline and having a difficult time processing your emotions. The best advice? Pause. Now’s not the time to make any drastic decisions and you don’t have to take any significant steps in the immediate aftermath. For right now, work through what happened, lean into your emotions, and recognize that you’ve been through something extremely challenging. Tomorrow, you can start crafting your plan forward.

    Seek out support
    The upside of these sweeping layoffs? Many people know what you’re going through. If you feel comfortable talking to other employees who were affected, reach out. It can be supportive and reassuring to know that you’re not alone in your feelings. Similarly, give your parents a call or send a trusted friend a text. Actively receiving the love and support that’s all around us can help us heal.

    Re-engage with something meaningful
    You’ll likely have a lot more free time than you’ve had in the recent past. Take advantage of it! And no, I don’t mean start pouring everything you have into a side hustle. Reconnect with a hobby you haven’t picked up in years. Or, start making progress on your TBR list. Get in the habit of taking long walks to gain a new perspective on your city. There are endless ways to find meaning in our lives outside of what we do. Start getting in the practice of prioritizing these things today.

    Take care of you
    It can’t be emphasized enough. You are still and always deserving of self-care and love. Brainstorm a list of things you can do to show yourself that love each day. Maybe it’s making a nourishing meal, getting dressed even though you don’t feel like it, or taking a long bath. Whatever feels supportive to you, be sure to do it daily. Things may be difficult now, but trust me: as someone who’s been where you are, it does get easier. And simultaneously, you get stronger.

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    Louis Vuitton’s popular City Guide series now travels to Dubai

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    by Ruman Baig
    23 mins ago

    Owing to its diverse origins and cosmopolitan energy, French luxury design house, Louis Vuitton picked Dubai as the first Middle Eastern city to bring the nomadic City Guide Series to life.
    Since 1998, the brand has created a coveted collection of guides with over 30 cities cataloged in both print and digital formats. As the sweet spot between Asia and the West, Dubai is rightly positioned as the kaleidoscope of cultures—making it the perfect addition for Louis Vuitton.
    “Once a small village of pearl divers and fishermen, Dubai is now a global business hub as well as a multicultural destination that is home to over 200 nationalities combining the best of all worlds to deliver exceptional experiences and an outstanding quality of life. The city is evolving and growing at a fast and healthy pace,” shared the brand in the official statement.

    For every City Guide, Louis Vuitton invites local writers and guests to share their insights on the most charming boutique, gourmet restaurants, bistros, antique shops, designer hubs, museums and unmissable secret spots that aren’t known to many.
    From fine-dining gastronomy experiences to local hidden gems—the Dubai City Guide brings all the global flavours to your plate and in your glass. While the city is known for its gravity-defying architectural wonders and its technological advancements, the City Guide series will give you a peek beyond the obvious tourist attractions. It caters equally to the locals as it does to the passing travellers—whether it’s the bustling street markets or the upscale shopping scenes, there’s something for every segment.

    To commemorate the moment, Louis Vuitton has installed a terracotta pink pop-up kiosk at the International Financial Centre (DIFC). Inspired by the traditional Parisian newspaper, this kiosk also reflects the Pantone colours used in the Dubai City Guide.
    Shoppers will also get to pick all the other Louis Vuitton City Guides, including the Dubai City Guide, which is priced at $46 (Dhs169)  and can also pick it up from bookstores around the world or download it from the City Guides App. Located at Gate Village in DIFC, the pop-up will be open for public viewing from 11am to 11pm, until the 17th of March 2023.
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    Experience this authentic midweek Greek-style ladies’ night at the Palm ASAP

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    by Team Emirates Woman
    2 hours ago

    IN PARTNERSHIP: Looking for a way to spend an early weekend every Wednesday? Myrra Restaurant has you covered with its chic ladies’ night.
    Boasting a unique experience in Dubai, this chic hidden gem promises an unforgettable evening where the secret oasis of Agora awaits.

    With a special discounted menu, women can feel at home and indulge in a myriad of dishes where Agora’s menu at the restaurant marries the flavours of Greece. With a plethora of mouth-watering dishes including zesty salads, fresh seafood and mouth-watering grilled meats, this heartful cuisine adds a modern twist to traditional ingredients. Varying from Sea Break Carpaccio to Avocado Hummus and Pineapple Carpaccio for the sweet tooth.
    To complement the menu, women can choose from a selection of cocktails, grape and soft drinks to ensure each Wednesday is a memorable evening. Amplified by delectable food and a serene beachside environment, this female-centric concept comes alive in a whimsical setting.
    What started as a center of all social and political activity in Greece amid a bygone era with free-flowing conversation from morning until evening has now been translated into an inviting space known as feminine assembly to put women at the forefront. Introduced to take over the traditional Greek male locale, this concept uplifts women from all spheres and brings like-minded women together in a relaxing environment.

    Located at Club Vista Mare, Palm Jumeirah, this exclusive evening takes place every Wednesday from 7pm onwards with a menu priced at Dhs199. From now onwards you never need much of an excuse to catch up with the women.
    To make a reservation visit myrrarestaurant.com or call + 971 4 770 1433.
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    Elevate the art of tea-drinking at the world’s first tea majlis by Newby in Abu Dhabi

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    by Team Emirates Woman
    60 mins ago

    IN PARTNERSHIP: Newby Teas brings a bespoke concept to the heart of Abu Dhabi for all tea enthusiasts.
    Savour an authentic Middle Eastern style experience, as the brand has opened its first-ever Tea Majlis in Abu Dhabi for an unforgettable experience. Embark on a tea journey to discover blends from around the world in this one-of-a-kind tea haven.
    Reminiscent of the social gathering in Emirati culture, this exclusive Tea Majlis invites guests to discover speciality teas, rare teas and Ultra-rare teas. Rare teas like Delicate Oolong from the misty mountains of Taiwan, and Ultra-rare Teas like Gulshan, a blend of rare black and green tea are a few of the blends offered in this tea haven transporting customers to the finest tea estates around the world.

    With this beloved brew seen in many forms, this most awarded luxury tea brand brings a unique concept to the table with the first majlis. Born to represent an opulent oasis amidst the hustle and bustle of the city, the tea majlis has been initiated with a clear mission to reintroduce quality tea and revive the world’s love for it.
    Designed with fine attention to detail, visitors can witness the sophisticated pieces in the new boutique on display. From the Victorian-era antique silverware on display to the hand-painted tea cups, pure amber tea ware, and art from the exclusive Chitra Collection, each element is carefully selected to complement the theme.
    As an homage to the country’s rich history, this one-of-a-kind immersive experience, each and every element within the majlis has been curated to embody the glory of tea culture in history.

    For a limited-edition blend, visitors can purchase the newly offered Romance tea which is a testimony to the grandeur of ancient tea culture.
    So, make an appointment at the latest boutique for a luxurious tea experience unlike ever before. Newby’s Tea Majlis is located in Abu Dhabi at the Nation Towers, Level 1, with operating hours from 10am to 10pm daily. To book the majlis, please contact boutique_ad@newbyteas.ae or contact +971 50 3754 609
    For more information visit newbyteas.com
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    Why it’s important to know what this astrological change has in store

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    by Team Emirates Woman
    3 hours ago

    Words by Kirstyn Lewis – Founder of the Karmic Soul
    In essence, March marks the beginning of new energies and a new astrological year, and you will soon feel things are just getting started. As you move into 2023 with greater wisdom, some may embrace the enormity of change right on your doorstep, but others may struggle. Let’s dive deeper.
    Firstly, the Universe now ensures we have left the past well and truly behind as the stars have finished clearing away any debris from 2022.
    The enormous forces of Saturn and Pluto are now on the move, signalling the dawn of a new era. On 7 March, responsible Saturn will enter dreamy Pisces, where he will be until 2026 but the biggest news in astrology since 2008 is Pluto’s move into Aquarius on 23 March. He will reside in this house for the next 21 years!
    Pluto in Aquarius is charged with the total transformation of society. He is tearing down outdated ideologies, but it offers relief in many ways. Since January 2008, Pluto had previously been intent on wrecking financial and institutional havoc in Capricorn. You may want to look back and reflect. What had the power or control over you during that time? Your career or company? An authoritative parent? A long-term partner who told you what to do and how to act? Did your assets and commitments tie you up? What did you have to fight to overcome?
    When Pluto moves into Aquarius toward the end of March, he starts to leave behind his autocratic influence and will focus on transforming data, science, health and technology.Expect to see more tightening around cyber security and financial transactions. Protection of your online identity will also become more critical. Who has your information?
    We are being asked to change how we look at the world and ourselves deep down. Pluto will very likely bring shock value into your life to force change upon you. Look to the house topics that Pluto is sitting in and see how he will also affect you personally, so you have a contingency.
    Were you born between 1993 and 1996? You are about to begin your Saturn Return starting in Pisces. Over the next 28-30 years: discipline is key; slow down and work through things systematically. You will be tested based on lessons given to you over the first three decades. Karmic debt is at play. Those without a voice can now expect to shine. Some will experience issues around loss, isolation, hidden enemies, secret love affairs and matters of their self-undoing. Listen to your intuition but choose wisely, as Saturn will make you responsible for your actions. Pisces is famous for escapism, but Saturn may well hand down a lesson this time. Safely navigate choppy waters by listening to those who have been there before and who offer the most empathy in times of difficulty.

    Saturn in Pisces dives deeper into all our intentions. He is transiting through a mutable sign, so you won’t always know how to act or what to expect and he can be mentally manipulative in this transit. You may waiver this way and that. It could be that you need some techniques, tactics, or training. If you feel lost, don’t discount a life coach until early 2025 to help you get through in one piece. Saturn returns one last time in Capricorn from mid-June for six months to see if we have learnt our last lesson.
    This is so dramatic; I hear you say. But it needs to be heard. To stay focused, you need to know the long game: 2026 will be very telling.
    Saturn in Pisces will love how cool-headed Pluto operates with such totality so is eager to help by setting down non-negotiable terms and conditions for everyone to follow. Together, their energies shout, “respect me”.
    Together, they will freeze out resistance and anyone against inevitable change. You’d be wise to set down your own non-negotiable rules if you don’t want to remain stuck or worse, become irrelevant. You likely won’t get a second chance as big as this during your lifetime.
    Society will have to deal with rapid advancements in this age of digital age and that of artificial intelligence. A spotlight will also shine on companies and careers in mental health, and spiritual practices, as well as pharmaceutical companies and alternative medicines which come into their own. Expect more concern about those in confinement, are they being helped or hindered? It looks like more holistic, empathetic practices need to be looked at. Those with careers in water management, marine biology, aquaculture, and aquarists will be in the spotlight. Hydrologists will hold the key to a critical key to the future of society. How can we save our oceans and, life on earth?
    Artificial Intelligence will be the new control mechanism and we will no longer know whom to point the finger at. This pattern started to emerge over the past three years when Saturn transited through Aquarius when he forced us to look at the rapid advancement of science and technology and understand its enormous transformative powers.
    Watch for news around 17 March in relation to writing, music, cinema, or a deep emotional tie. You may be struggling behind closed doors, but the planets are trying to kickstart a new direction for you. Things, that said, are currently out of your hands.
    Venus in Aries is now knocking on lucky Jupiter’s doorstep so will help out. This is a fortuitous aspect. This energy should bring short-term pleasure, success, abundance, and even personal recognition! Out of the blue, something good has come or is coming your way. It offers you more freedom of expression. See, it’s this way and then that!
    Mercury in Pisces will soon be in Cazimi, you will know this Arabic word meaning ‘in the heart of the Sun’. It indicates a joyful announcement is soon upon you. Oh no, wait, Mercury still needs to talk to Jupiter in Aries before giving you the green light to announce something publicly. Can you wait until early or mid-May?
    Now get to work on your game plan. The Universe is waiting to help you.
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    Sheikh Hamdan’s shares a heartfelt message to welcome his newborn child

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    by Camille Macawili
    1 hour ago

    Congratulations are in order as His Highness Sheikh Hamdan bin Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum has welcomed the birth of his child.
    As announced over the weekend, the royal couple has been married since 2019 and already have two children together and now have an addition to the family, a baby boy named Mohammed bin Hamdan bin Mohammed Al Maktoum. 
    Known for sharing snippets of his daily life to his 15.4 million social media followers, Sheikh Hamdan – fondly known as Fazza, shared this delightful news via an Instagram Story of a pair of hands holding a tiny pair feet with a caption “It’s a boy” and underneath went along with a special prayer that translates to: “Dear God make him bloom well and make him the sight of our eyes and make him a blessing for us.”
    Revealed to be named Mohammed bin Hamdan bin Mohammed Al Maktoum, he is the third addition to the Crown Prince of Dubai’s growing family. 
    Since welcoming the now 2-year-old twins Rashid and Shaikha in May 2021, Sheikh Hamdan has truly become the ultimate doting dad and we can’t wait to see all the new adventures they will be in.

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    Sultan Al Neyadi’s UAE space mission launch date postponed

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    by Sarah Joseph
    2 hours ago

    The UAE is always on a mission to understand life beyond earth.
    As the country prepared for Sultan AlNeyadi to embark on the longest Arab space mission in history, Nasa announced that the space mission had been ‘scrubbed’ two minutes before liftoff due to a ‘ground control anomaly’.

    Propellant offload complete, launch escape system disarmed, and the crew access arm has swung back in place for the crew to egress
    — SpaceX (@SpaceX) February 27, 2023

    Despite being set to embark on a 25-hour journey to the International Space Station (ISS) along with his fellow mates, it was planned for them to be onboard the space station for a time frame of six months.
    However, due to an issue with a chemical that ignites the rocket engine, the mission has been delayed until further notice and an issue we ground systems.
    Before the planned mission, the astronaut also shared a touching note to his followers on Twitter an hour before the scheduled take-off.

    On this planet, I leave behind everyone I love and take off to space.. 🚀
    I leave behind a country that has forged its way to stars and lit its path with Zayed’s Ambition.. 🇦🇪
    I leave you all behind until we meet again from space..
    Your brother, Sultan Al Neyadi. pic.twitter.com/vgbTNXlSvj
    — Sultan AlNeyadi (@Astro_Alneyadi) February 27, 2023

    He said, “On this planet, I leave behind everyone I love and take off to space. I leave you all behind until we meet again from space.”
    A new launch date
    As engineers investigate the issue with the Falcon 9 rocket, Nasa and SpaceX will schedule a new launch date for the mission. Per regulations, the new launch will take place at least 24 hours after the situation.
    Stay tuned for new potential dates in the pipeline for the mission.
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    50 Affirmations for When Work or Money Stress You TF Out

    It doesn’t matter how much you love what you do or how financially secure you feel, there will still be days when work or money stress you TF out. It’s inevitable. After all, life is filled with highs and lows. However, financial woes and career challenges can get under your skin in a way nothing else can, which is why we’ve created a list of 50 affirmations to tell yourself when you’re dealing with work or money stress. So, bookmark this page and turn to it as needed, pick your favorite phrase and repeat it to yourself daily, or write down a few that resonate with you. Whatever you decide, these work and money affirmations will help you release unnecessary stress.
    1. I am open to new adventures, and I attract abundance.
    2. I am worthy of financial success.
    3. My job does not define me.
    4. Pressure brings out the best in me.
    5. I am capable of incredible things.
    6. My mind is clear and I think with clarity.
    7. I am proud of my accomplishments.
    8. Today, I choose to embrace and trust the flow of money.
    9. There are no limits to what I can and will achieve.
    10. Everything I touch turns to gold.
    11. I can take on any task that comes my way with grace and ease.
    12. I am grateful for the money I have right now.
    13. It’s OK to ask for help.
    14. Money is not finite, and there’s enough to go around for everyone. 
    15. I am talented enough to complete my work on time.
    16. My past cannot prevent me from succeeding now or in the future.
    17. There is no obstacle or challenge I cannot overcome.
    18. I am worthy of respect and recognition.
    19. I am grateful for the rewards and opportunities of my job.
    20. I choose to focus on inner peace and productivity.
    21. This feeling won’t last forever.
    22. My boss is as human as I am.
    23. My work speaks for itself.
    24. I am debt-free because money is always flowing to me.
    25. I will make more money.
    26. I bring something to every table I sit at.
    27. All the resources I need are within me.
    28. Money is my friend, and I welcome it into my life.
    29. I don’t need to prove anything to anyone.
    30. The more I focus on joy, the more money I will make.
    31. Riches flow to me because I have a rich mindset.
    32. I have what it takes to create and stick to a budget.
    33. I can do anything, but I can’t do everything.
    34. I am the master of my wealth.
    35. I will tend to my stress, but right now, I choose peace.
    36. There are no failures in life, only learning opportunities.
    37. I am more than my current financial situation.
    38. I am worth over a million dollars.
    39. My “best” will look different everyday because I’m only human.
    40. I am smart, valued, and loved.
    41. Giving myself down time is essential for my productivity and work performance.
    42. I won’t apologize for my goals.
    43.  Everything’s going to be fine.
    44. I am healthy and wealthy.
    45. Focus on one thing at a time.
    46. I have what it takes to become financially independent.
    47. Money is simply a tool that comes and goes.
    48. Fear can’t control me because it has no place in my life.
    49. I am a divine human being who’s deserving of success.
    50. I have conquered everything that I have ever faced, and I will conquer this, too.

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