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    7 Lessons From 2020 We’re Bringing Into 2021

    Considering the blockbuster-worthy, 12-month, traumatic event that was 2020, even the most enthusiastic “new year, new me” advocate is probably tempted to skip the whole resolution thing this year (or forever). I must admit that I am an avid New Year’s resolution writer; there’s just something about setting down a year’s worth of intentions on paper that feels magical to me. But this year I’m feeling a little different. As 2020 (also known as the most drawn-out, sped-up, chaotic year in recent memory) comes to a close, I realized that this was a year that life forced a lot of very necessary lessons on me. And despite my very valid apprehension about 2021, I owe it to myself, to bring those lessons along with me. 2020 taught me a hell of a lot—here are some things I definitely don’t want to forget in the New Year. 
    1. Some days (or weeks), you’ll accomplish absolutely nothing—and that’s OK
    Throughout this pandemic, my productivity came in waves—some days all I could find the energy to do was shower and eat handfuls of cereal. I felt so frustrated with myself because I’d always said “if only I had more time…” and now here I was, with an excess of time, and squandering it. And so I’d plan my days out—‘Learning Tuesdays’, ‘Writing Wednesdays’—in hopes of forcing productivity, and end up feeling totally overwhelmed. Now, I try to listen to my body’s natural rhythms; to be guided by my energy’s ebb and flow, rather than try to fight it. These past few months have shown me that our desire to create needs to be coupled with moments of rest. We won’t always be in a pandemic, but the rules don’t change—real productivity comes with peace, and peace comes from mental, physical, and emotional rest. So rest.

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    2. Personal space is not negotiable
    I’m eagerly awaiting the day that face masks are a thing of the past, but I will definitely be maintaining my six feet of distance. Having a mandated personal bubble has shown me that people (often men) really have been encroaching on my space in a way that I’ve never enjoyed. And yet, I’ve just been allowing it. But now that I know the peace that comes with the appropriate amount of breathing room, I’m never going back. Back it up, please!

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    3. Dressing up has everything to do with you, and nothing to do with anyone else
    My Leo sun already knew this, but this year definitely solidified it for me. There were a lot of days this year where I just didn’t feel like myself, and doing my hair, putting on something nice, and adding a swipe of my favorite Fenty lipstick made a huge difference. I’d look at myself in the mirror-like, “sure, you might have lost your job in the middle of a pandemic, but sis, don’t you look good?” Getting all dolled up for no one’s benefit but my own gave me the boost I so desperately needed at times. And I learned a very valuable lesson: there’s no one who deserves me showing up as my best self more than me.

    4. Black lives still matter
    This year was a tumultuous one, and for many of us, a wake up call, especially when it comes to issues of racial injustice. But the work does not and cannot stop in 2020. No one wants to be a ‘black square’ ally, where posting that black square back in June is the extent of your engagement with racial issues. You still need to buy Black, you still need to support Black women, and you still need to call out your racist colleagues, neighbors, and family members. Keep that same energy in 2021 and beyond; the work is not done.
     

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    5. You’re better than stressing over a few extra lbs
    Full disclosure—I’m still working on this one! While I understand that a little extra weight is NBD in theory, putting it into practice is where things get a little shaky. But here’s the thing, guys, maybe we did gain a little weight over this year… but like, so what? No seriously, so what? We survived every single thing this year has thrown at us—how dare we beat ourselves up over a couple of inches! Our bodies are operating constantly and dynamically on our behalf (even in a pandemic); let’s give them a little grace, shall we? It helps to remember that your body is not some future goal, but a current, wonderful reality. I used to see my post-HIIT sweat as calories burned, ergo, potential lbs lost. Now, I try to embrace the exhaustion and endorphins, focusing on the fact that I’ve done something that serves my body.

    6. Falling in love with your bare face is beautiful
    This year stripped me bare in a lot of different ways. Even though I certainly spent days in lockdown, thinking wistfully about my next visit to my wax girl, nail tech, lash girl, etc., the time forced me to come to terms with my face without the enhancements. And I started finding things I liked—the shape of my cheekbones, how my skin looks like the perfect cup of coffee, the way my smile reaches all the way to my eyes. I hadn’t realized how much I relied on the extra stuff to feel satisfied about the way I look and the process of becoming reacquainted and falling in love with my naked face feels really, really good. This doesn’t mean I don’t still love a perfect brow and a bomb highlight (cause I do), but I’ve also become OK with leaving home with just sunscreen and lip balm. We call that growth!

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    7. No more waiting for a ‘special occasion’
    I’m no longer putting down that bottle of wine for later or saving that outfit for a special date. Forgive the cliché, but life is short! I don’t think we consider how much of our life we spend waiting—waiting for the right moment, the right weather, the right mood, the right crowd. I’m here to say the right ‘whatever’ is exactly when and where you want it to be. If you feel like the right time to pop a bottle of champagne is on a Thursday evening after clearing a particularly daunting inbox, then so be it, darling! Forgive this second cliché, but being alive is the special occasion! More

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    Dubai issues guidelines for New Year’s Eve celebrations

    As we approach the close of 2020, many will be preparing to celebrate. However, given the ongoing pandemic, the public needs to be mindful of precautions and guidelines in place for health and safety reasons.
    In line with this, the Dubai Supreme Committee of Crisis and Disaster Management has outlined some precautionary measures ahead of New Year’s Eve celebrations in the emirate.

    The rules were announced via the Dubai Media Office Twitter account, which included a maximum cap on gatherings in households – no more than 30 people can be present at private family or social gatherings.
    Any gatherings found violating the above rules will be penalised. The host of the gathering will be fined Dhs50,000 and individuals will be fined Dhs15,000 each.

    #Dubai’s Supreme Committee of Crisis and Disaster Management approves precautionary measures for New Year’s Eve celebrations. pic.twitter.com/RryViDDEEu
    — Dubai Media Office (@DXBMediaOffice) December 26, 2020

    It was reiterated that inspections would be conducted to ensure all gatherings were complying with the published guidelines.
    In addition, masks at gatherings need to be worn at all times and those who are elderly or have underlying health conditions are advised to not attend such gatherings.
    For those who will be celebrating New Year’s Eve around various establishments around Dubai, ensure you wear a mask at all times apart from when sitting at your assigned table and ensure social distancing measures are adhered to.
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    Watch: Sheikh Hamdan visited this brand new Dubai restaurant on Christmas Day

    A brand new restaurant, which opened on Christmas Day, was visited by His Highness Sheikh Hamdan bin Mohammed bin Rashid Al Maktoum is the Crown Prince of Dubai on its launch day.
    The brainchild of celebrity chef CZN Burak, who is hugely popular on social media with over 17 million followers, shared a series of photos and videos of Sheikh Hamdan visiting his new establishment, CZN Burak, located at Boulevard Point in Downtown Dubai.

    The new Turkish-Middle Eastern restaurant is the first Dubai-based establishment for Chef CZN Burak, who already has three popular restaurants in Turkey, where is from, and he has now decided to crack the Dubai F&B space.
    READ: 10 of Sheikh Hamdan’s favourite restaurants in Dubai
    The new contemporary eatery has over 150 dishes on the menu which features lamb, assorted mixed grills, kebabs, hummus with pastrami and more.

    His Highness was treated to an array of dishes on his visit to the restaurant’s opening day, all of which were personally cooked and prepared by Chef CZN Burak himself.
    As many will know Sheikh Hamdan is a huge foodie, and is regularly seen dining out at some of Dubai’s most popular restaurants. Some of his favourites include Gaia, Shanghai ME, Avli by Tashas, BB Social Dining and more.
    Now that this new Downtown Dubai restaurant has Sheikh Hamdan’s approval, we’ll have to make a booking ASAP.
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    Our Favorite Things We Splurged on This Year

    Deciding when to take the plunge on a splurge is hard; it’s a lengthy process that takes some evaluating, strategizing, and a whole lot of review-reading.But when the day comes that you can wait for the UPS truck to come drop off your much-debated purchase and you finally have it in your hands, sometimes, you automatically know it was worth it—and when it was, you want to shout it from the rooftops.
    Our team has a wide variety of tastes and priorities in what we spend our money on, but this year, these were the very best things we splurged on; the ones we’d buy again in a heartbeat. 2020 didn’t bring us much, but it did bring us these stellar shopping choices.

    JENNI KAYNE
    Cashmere Cocoon Cardigan

    I fell in love with all things Jenni Kayne well over a year ago but just could not justify pulling the trigger on the high price point. When I found myself 7 months pregnant, in a global pandemic on my birthday this year, I finally splurged and invested in the Cocoon Cardigan for myself. It was the best clothing investment I have ever made and if I could throw out all of my other sweaters and only wear this forever I would. I have worn it multiple times per week since it arrived and it is the softest, oversized, and flattering staple in my closet. It looks adorable over jeans, skirts, dresses, and even joggers! My cost per wear at this point is significantly less than my $100 sweaters and they often offer discount codes of 15-20% off if you sign up for email or get their catalog in the mail. I give this purchase 5 out of 5 stars!

     

    N1 NANO

    I had my eye on this bag for over a year, and after hitting a few of my personal goals this year, I decided to take the plunge. Polène has been around for a minute now, but while I see their bags on Instagram a lot, I’ve never seen another person have one in real life. I love that it has a unique structure and design and could be recognizable to some, but that it doesn’t have any obvious branding on it. It is so, so beautifully made, comes with a real luxury experience (their packaging is beautiful), and is in a price range that is well below designer bags (I didn’t feel sick about the price, but it was also a huge treat to buy it!). The next bag I buy will inevitably be another one of their bags—I couldn’t be happier I took the plunge on this.

    PAT McGRATH LABS
    Mothership V Eyeshadow Palette – Bronze Seduction

    At the beginning of 2020, I swore to myself that I’d finally splurge on this palette when it went on sale, and when my bank account and a 25 percent off code aligned, I pulled the trigger on the most expensive makeup item in my collection … and I could not be happier about it. Pat McGrath is arguably the most renowned makeup artist in the world right now, and you can tell through her formula. These eyeshadows blend like an absolute dream—I barely even have to do any work. Plus, this includes four of her “special shades”: ultra-glittery, shimmery shades that are like nothing else on the market. At $125, this guy is a bit much, but if you find it on a sale, snag immediately.

    BreatheSmart 45i True HEPA Air Purifier

    If this year has taught me anything, it’s definitely taught me to be more mindful of my overall quality of life, including the air I breathe while spending more time at home. I put more effort into learning about air purifiers the past few months, especially after purchasing a new home, and decided to give the Alen BreatheSmart True HEPA Air Purifier a try. This air purifier cleans the air of harmful particles throughout the day while detecting when the home’s air quality changes with its LED smart sensor that changes colors depending on the quality. It works quietly in the middle of my home killing mold and bacteria and getting rid of unwanted odors (especially that outside puppy smell!). This a great purchase for overall better air quality, especially during cold and flu season.

     

    V7 Trigger Cordfree Handheld Vacuum

    This was my first impulse quarantine purchase and it’s one that I’ll never, ever regret. At the time, I already had a pretty decent vacuum, but pulling it out of the closet and zig zagging around with a cord as a tether to pick up a small mess was the bane of my existence. So when I found out that Dyson had a handheld, cordless vacuum that I’d be able to quickly grab to address spills and cat hair galore, I lost my marbles and added it to my cart at an alarming rate. I reach for this at least once a day and honestly, I never knew that vacuuming could be so fun. So much so that I asked for the Dyson V8 cordless vacuum for Christmas.

    Nespresso Vertuo
    Coffee and Espresso Machine Bundle

    I never thought I’d be a person to enjoy at-home coffee but alas, this Nespresso machine totally changed the game for me. Making my vanilla oat milk latte has become my favorite part of the day. This bundle came with a frother which has allowed me to create some super frothy, satisfying coffee pours! With five dollar lattes being a thing of the past, this splurge ultimately saved me so much money.

     

    Roomba 614 Robot Vacuum

    Not only my favorite splurge item this year, but perhaps my favorite splurge item ever, the Roomba is like family to me at this point. My floor has never looked cleaner and I haven’t had to put in any effort to get it there, thanks to this nifty floor vacuum that sucks up all crumbs, dust, and dog hair. I have it automatically set to do a full-apartment sweep every night around 8 p.m. (so it’s typically after I’ve cooked dinner to get all those crumbs) to fall asleep with a clean home, but I also love starting Elsa up (yes, I did name my vacuum, and yes, the name is Elsa) when I’m doing an apartment deep clean whether it’s for weekly cleaning or before company comes over (pre-pandemic, of course). It’s like we’re in this together! My home is so much cleaner than ever before, without any energy or time from me. Thank you, Elsa!

    Barefoot Dreams
    Cozy-Chic Heathered Throw Blanket

    In 2019, I would’ve never believed a throw blanket would be one of my splurge items of the year (I would’ve much rather saved my money for facials and shoes). But 2020 came in hot and I felt a strong feeling like I needed to pull the trigger on a Barefoot Dreams blanket, which I had lusted over for years. When it arrived and I finally felt it, I was immediately mad at myself for not pulling the trigger sooner. I’ll explain it like this: it is cozy in a way you did not even know cozy could be. I have at least five other throws in my apartment (most of which I would have deemed “soft” before I felt the heavenly fabric that is Barefoot Dreams), but have not touched any of them since getting this blanket because nothing can compare. It is draped around my legs while I work everyday and my favorite item to snuggle up with during a Netflix binge (yes, even more so than my boyfriend). Trust me, you will never regret purchasing this throw blanket, but you’ll probably regret not getting it sooner.

     

    Simple Suede Tote

    This is not the EXACT tote I got (mine is a deep green leopard print, which sounds weirder than it is—but that colorway is no longer available), but it’s the same style and material. I first saw it, the tote of my dreams, at the Nordstrom sale, and I was OBSESSED (I scoured the website practically hourly, since it kept going in and out of stock). Once I finally ordered it and received it in the mail, I’ve never looked back. Not only does it look chic and just different enough from other totes out there, but it’s also incredibly high quality. It’s one of the most grown-up purchases I’ve ever made, and I don’t regret it for a second. It holds a ton, and I get compliments on it allll the time!

     

    Crate & Barrel
    Edge Black Arch Wall Mirror

    I’d been wanting a big statement mirror for years and I knew it was going to be a splurge item. I hesitated and wished over this particular one—that shape!—for what feels like ages and finally bought it earlier this year. And drumroll please because… I ADORE IT. It is incredibly heavy and feels like such a quality piece, definitely lives up to the price. It’s one of the most complimented and asked about items in my apartment and when I moved earlier this year to a new space, it fit seamlessly in. I know I’ll have it for many more apartments and homes to come and I love that it will move and grow with me.

    Apple Watch SE

    I bought myself an Apple Watch this year and I honestly felt kind of embarrassed by it because I’m not particularly sporty and am more of an “indoor” gal. But I actually really love the watch, I think it’s helped me move so much more than I would otherwise, especially during this year where my only commute is from my bed to the couch. My sister-in-law recently bought one as well and we’ve been sharing our activity data and it’s helped keep me motivated and connected to her and to a feeling of wanting to be healthier and more active. I’m definitely still not a sporty person or a runner by any means, but even just the reminders to stand up throughout the day help me feel more accomplished. It’s the little things these days.

    Nespresso Vertuo
    Coffee and Espresso Machine Bundle

    OK, I know this is the second time this item is appearing on this list, but maybe that just goes to show how absolutely amazing this is. I actually have the version with rose gold accents (which really sold me even more), but that is currently out of stock everywhere. This might sound crazy, but my Nespresso has been a shining light of 2020. I love to use espresso pods and oat milk in the frother to make iced lattes at home, so not only am I saving money, they are DELICIOUS. I will never accept another at-home coffee maker again.

    Abercrombie & Fitch
    Ultra Tech Parka

    I’ve had the same black Michael Kors parka (I’m sure you know the one) since my freshman year of college, and while it’s served me well, it was time for an upgrade. Honestly, I’ve been searching the internet since last winter for a new one that I loved, but none were really standing out to me. A couple of weeks ago, however (during a sale of course), I saw this one from Abercrombie and fell in love with the cream color. I love that it’s different but still neutral and I’m obsessed with the matching fur on the hood. When it arrived, it did not disappoint! It is so cozy and warm, and I know it will serve me well in the cold that is still to come this winter. And FYI, I did have to exchange it for one size up from my typical size in order for it to be comfortable enough to wear sweaters with it!

    SET ACTIVE
    Sculptflex Leggings and Box Cut Bra

    Believe it or not, before I purchased these leggings – I had yet to find my favorite black pair and when I say these are life changing and not just a “trend” – I’m being serious. They suck you in and are so smooth and tight, just the way I like it. It’s quite pricey but worth the price – 1 million percent. Also, if you’re feeling like treating yourself a tad bit more, add the box bra and you have an entire fit and you’re ready to get out the door.

    The North Face
    Gotham 550 Fill Power Down Hooded Parka

    A really good, warm winter coat is definitely an investment piece, and one I normally hang on to for the better part of a decade. This year though, I left mine in Chicago, where it is currently sitting in storage, when I came home for the pandemic. I’m not sure when exactly I’ll go back and get it so, in the meantime, I purchased another super warm, durable coat to get me through the impending cold New England winter.

    AWE Inspired
    Harriet Tubman Coin Necklace

    After seeing stacked gold jewelry everywhere this year, I decided I wanted in. I wanted to make sure I was purchasing a piece that would last and was meaningful, so I decided on this coin necklace. I love that it represents strength, and 100 percent of proceeds from each sale—along with a matching donation—are donated to the NAACP.

    Bike + Essentials

    After a year of talking about the Peloton, my husband and I decided to split one in February. We both have birthdays in the same week and agreed this was our Valentines/Birthday/Anniversary/Christmas present for the year. At first I was worried about it being a fad, but then the world shut down a week after it was delivered. It quickly became our saving grace through isolation. From 15 minute quick blasts that will leave you breathless (yes, really) to a 45 minute Backstreet Boys ride that is an instant boost of serotonin, you can always find a workout that works for you. Even with gyms in our area opening back up, we have no desire to abandon our bike. It was our best purchase of 2020, hands down. More

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    Meghan Markle and Prince Harry’s adorable 2020 Christmas card has been revealed

    As the Duke and Duchess of Sussex celebrate their first Christmas since moving to the USA this year, Meghan Markle and Prince Harry have unveiled their annual Christmas card, featuring their adorable 19-month-old son Archie Mountbatten-Windsor.
    The Christmas card release was posted by the animal welfare charity, Mayhew.

    “We’re thrilled to receive wonderful Christmas wishes from our Patron, The Duchess of Sussex,” the caption read. “The Duke and Duchess have also made a personal donation, helping us continue to be there for the dogs, cats and people in our community this winter and beyond.
    “From all of us at Mayhew, two and four-legged, thank you and Merry Christmas.”

    The beautiful illustration was captured outside their home in Montecito, California, in front of a playhouse in the yard.
    The adorable toddler is seen smiling with a full head of red hair – just like his dad – as the Duke and Duchess of Sussex are posing in front of a small playhouse featuring a blue door and a miniature Christmas tree.
    The painted rendering of the photograph also featured the family’s dogs, Guy and Pula.
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    The half price staycation deals in the UAE to get a hold of this month

    If you’re looking to turn a brunch into a weekend affair, these tempting deals from Accor hospitality might be just what you’re looking for to end the year on a high note. With exclusive deals for all their lifestyle royalty members, half-price offers across 35 different hotels and resorts have been announced across the UAE.
    Guests can enjoy the luxurious urban and coastal properties with deals at locations such as the below.
    Fairmont The Palm

    Located at the iconic Palm Jumeirah, you can enjoy the tranquillity of the beachfront with two resorts and a private beach club to relax at with an activity centre for kids to stay entertained in when visiting with family.
    For more information visit Fairmont.com/palm-dubai
    Sofitel Dubai The Obelisk

    If you’re looking for that city-scape deal, located in the buzzy location of Dubai, members can experience a gastronomical fusion of flavours with contemporary Asian cuisine. Guests can also treat themselves at the Sofitel Spa to unwind after a long week.
    For more information visit sofitel-dubai-theobelisk.com/
    Fairmont Fujairah

    This wellness resort is the perfect escape found in the hidden valleys of the stunning Al Hajar Mountains, featuring marina or ocean views including activities such as mountain hiking to sunrise yoga, there are plenty of options on this getaway.
    For more information visit Fairmont.com
    Novotel Abu Dhabi Gate

    If you’re looking for a budget-friendly break in the UAE’s capital, this premium location is surrounded by activities such as Ferrari World, Warner Bros.,Yas Island while offering amenities with the restaurants, wellness and pool area.
    For more information visit novotel.accor.com
    The deals are available for booking from now until 15 January 2021, until March 31 2021. To avail visit all.accor.com
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